what ever do i do?

i met a cancer man online, we chatted for a while and he opened up and told me very personal things about his family who he is having major problems with. he liked the fact i am doing a degree in counselling so i used to help him with his family issues.
we met at mine and i instantly liked him, he said i had him under a spell too and we cuddles and he asked me for a kiss.
we carried on talking after our meet and i would ask him over to mine but he would say yes then after work he would always want to just go home to his bedroom instead. he has bad issues with his ex also who he moans about.
i asked him out for dinner and a drink and he seemed very keen, he asked me to 'please take him away' on a break as he hated his family issues. things started to go wrong when i questioned whether he was chatting to other girls (ive been cheated on, he knew this, said he understood) he took MAJOR offence at this and basically told me to forget it, said he doesnt like being called a liar and it wasnt good for me to ask this all the time etc!
i apologised as i hate upsetting people. he now never texts me first, leaves it weeks inbetween communication. i feel like ive totally blown it. i know he ws really into me though.

last message i sent was asking him about xmas and he did reply but didnt carry on the convo as normal. just kind of cut me off.
i then wished him an amazing 2015 and he said 'thanks. and you x'
thats it since dec 31.
i dont want to text him again! i keep initiating contact and he does reply everytime but its quite abrupt but i cant stop thinking of him. im a libra. i hate chasing but i want him..
what would you do?? is he gone?

He wants to date around but you're not ok with that. What was he supposed to do ? Unless you're ok with him sleeping around and not being in a serious relationship with you, this situation seems to be over.

thats what i think to but i cant get him out my mind as we had a great connection, he said he wasnt talking to anyone else but i had a feeling he could have been. couldnt he have just said that he didnt want to be exclusive instead of telling me he only spoke to one person at a time? so confusing..

also i asked him if he wanted to be just friends which takes away any of the dating doubt, he doesnt even seem to want to be that, he confided so much in me that i just cant get my head around why he is walking away? we got on so well.

He just needed someone to listen to him and you were there. But it's clear that he is seeing other people no matter what he told you. If he was that into you, he would be dating you right now. He liked you and didn't want to break your heart, but it doesn't change the fact that he likes other girls too.

Sorry 😢 time for you to move on.

ps.never try to change yourself so that you can be with a guy you like. if you're a romantic person, you will be that way forever and meaningless relationships will always just hurt you.

yeah i will move on but its just a very cold way of saying bye to someone. i just thought cancer men didnt like giving up on people they care about, i swear we had a connection as he told me he liked me/missed me, planning what we wou;d have in our dream house etc.. now nothing. oh well then.