What is the fuckin deal with this one?

I have a friend who is a Cancer. Now before anyone jumps off the band wagon and asks if it is physical the answer is No.
The idea is kind of fucked up in my mind on that.

I have a friend who is, and I am not sure how to word this ay other way that - - > he is so fucked up in relationships I can not wrap my claws around this one. Why? < - - Who the fuck knows—?

The amount of self pity, loathing for half the females he meets, and lack of guts to do something about a bad situation is overwhelming. It pretty much drives me up the fuckin wall when he starts telling me his love life.

I could say "Man just shut the fuck up and stop winning" but that would be mean.

I find this situation often with him:
Meet a girl- go ape shit over her - " This chick is so awesome I think I am in love, I don't want things to turn out like with *insert name* I am so happy" < - Literally. Then 2-3 weeks later " She is so psycho I can not believe it, I will never find a woman who is normal" < - - boy crab goes in little crab cave and cries big crabby tears and wines and makes the world have those fuckin lame bad clouds.

This has been in process for 4 years with nearly each female. I can not attest it to family issues as his family is normal. But what the fuck gives and how the fuck do you stop it if at all?

Anyone else experience this one, and what did you do—

Oh and I had to vent 🙂 I got an ear of the recent love drama crab style 10 minutes ago. Jesus fuckin crab!

How old is he? Is he this way with work? What about ordinary everyday disappointments, how does he deal with them?

He is not bi polar. And he is good with work. Age - he is in his mid 20s.

All the disappointments he mentions are mostly women related.