What is with...

Virgo women being obsessed with Cancers?! Virgo women always single me out trying to befriend me then they become creepy. Stalking me, becoming obsessed and wanting to know everything about me. The they get upset when I don't allow them to manipulate me since in their delusional minds, they think they have everyone fooled with their fakeness. I really wish Virgo women would stay away from me and leave me alone, they always become single white female on me and I just don't get why I make them so insecure. Why do they try to compete with me then get upset when they realize they can't win. A co-worker tried to copy my hairstyle and she ended up looking a mess to the point where other people commented and asked her why she's trying to look like me. I have this effect on every Virgo I come across and I don't get it!

There is something about Virgo and Cancer that draws each other.
Maybe they find us cuddly and irresistible.

Perhaps these women don't know how to deal with the draw they have toward you so it comes out competitive.

A Virgo woman once got jealous and upset when she ordered the same drink as me but the bar tender altered hers a bit according to what she told him she wanted. She accused him of giving me more alcohol because I was pretty. She later was all over me hugging and carrying on. I didn't mind, as I am easily amused.😆

It seems like they admire me but they don't know how to own those feelings so they end up trying to compete with me and try to find things that they are better than me at in order to feel better about themselves. But it doesn't end up working because as soon as I see them start to try to compete, I pull away and then they get upset and try to manipulate their way back in and at that point I'm over it. Then they start with the drastic tactics and being vindictive because I want give them what they want. They want to compete and try to 1 up everyone and they feel stupid when you don't play into that game with them.

It seems like the admiration turns to jealousy/envy and that's when the issues start. In the begining it's cool, they appear nice and want to get to know me and I'm always open to welcoming people so allow them in my space. However it then turns obsessive to the point where I feel like I'm in an interview every conversation we have especially when you're asking me my personal business and you're not volunteering your personal business to me.

One virgo got pissed because I wouldn't tell her details about my relationship, it's none of your business and why do you care so much? Then later it all made since when she tried to hit on him to see if he would be interested in her. He wasn't as she's not his type but her whole agenda was trying to one up me as I doubt she was really interested in him in the first place, it was just her wanting to compete. It has nothing to do with being negative, these are facts and it happens with every virgo female I come across. If you admire me that's fine, I don't need anything or anyone to feed my ego as I know I have it going on and it's not my problem you don't have confidence in yourself and my confidence makes you insecure.

All of us work together so we are around each other daily which I actively try and keep my distance but it doesn't keep them from following me around like little lost puppies who are begging for my attention. Just be real and quit with the fakeness.

I think you're over thinking it.

I really like Virgos they ask a lot of questions yes, but it's just out of curiosity. They also like to better themselves so if they see you going in a direction that looks good they don't hesitate to take a similar path to success.

If a Virgo crosses the line it's very easy to speak on the matter with them, I find they are always open to hear another point of view. Whether they agree or not is another matter but they are quick to modify if it's a problem or dismiss your objection if it's not based on logic and is more about how their actions make you feel.

Nope don't have that issue with my Virgo friends. Maybe it's just her.

Let me just speak as ONE Virgo woman. I've never been 'obsessed' with nor 'jealous' of any other 'woman' of any sign...why the hell should I when I have ME to deal and contend with. Sometimes I think people need to get out a whole lot more...meaning see the 'world' and they will quickly realize that there are just wayyyy too many other beautiful people in it to obsess about 1 Cancer woman who very well just may be pretty in her own yet still comes off a bit self-centered/self-absorbed. But promise you this....just like OP may be beautiful in her own....there are 10 more women that are just as beautiful/attractive, if not more than her, so why even bother focusing on her when there is just so many more beautiful & more attractive people in the world to acknowledge?!?! If anything, I give attractive men & women their props....but that's where the line stops....I be damned if I take even an iota of energy to 'obsess' about another woman....or even a dam man for that matter...LOL! Yours truly....the 'average' Virgo woman who has a very short attention span...LOL!

Cancers are theatrical and the emotional flow makes them appealing. Most people can't gO in and out of emotions so easily so it's kinda entertaining when you see it. Plus the charm and style adds to that and makes them admired by men and women. I think someone said it it's more of flattery but I can see how it would be strange. I've seen women do the same imitation thing and it comes off as creepy when a woman slowly starts changing most things about her to another woman-especially if she's doing it to try to get a guy. That's not flattery anymore that's awkward and low. But yea like ^ was saying lots of women are beautiful and have style too and sometimes it's just simple flattery.

Especially crazy ass bitches who stalk another WOMAN who is a friend of MINE. How does a woman stalk another woman? That's the obsession I think your talking about. When women get obsessive or abnormal strange. That bitch TheJoker is a Virgo by the way. And she is obsessing over my cancer friend, thinking I would like her if she could be like my friend. Now THAT is some crazy shit!

Posted by Cancer Lady
I don't need anything or anyone to feed my ego as I know I have it going on and it's not my problem you don't have confidence in yourself and my confidence makes you insecure.

All 3 posts..not one without speaking of how much these women envy you. People who have it going on don't need to express at every turn how much they have it going on and how they're all that. Yet you can't seem to stop so...insecurities? Have reality show you a mirror of your ways.

I'm ok with cancers. I notice their zany humor first and I love it. A lot of inside jokes with my cancer friends. And I'm moody too so we can bond through that or I can throw chocolate at them from a safe distance if they're upset.

No I love the Virgs...they women give off sister energy and are very loyal and protective of me...The men I just wanna screw or they wanna screw me..