Posted by thinktoomuchWell I'm fucking upset. I just don't get it.
You´re overthinking this. In my honest opinion me overthinking is what cancer disliked the most about me.
I´m not saying it was wrong of me, that´s who I am and I like to think about stuff. But as far as making it work with a cancer: it. did. not. So if you wanna get to know this man, you gotta stay strong and chill out wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more than now.
Posted by CrabraThanks! I am nice to him :-) we'll see where this goes. I don't mind having fun with this one
I think a big mistake girls make when it comes to knowingly dating a Cancer male is overthinking things. Don't be in such a rush, all of that crazy complexity comes later 😉
During the initial stages, just be NICE. Seriously, that's it. If being nice to him causes him to retreat, then you know you have a crab with issues, and you should move on. If he comes out to play, then just go with it. Normal male logic applies, which means OF COURSE he wants to have sex with you. If he wants more than that he will let you know. If YOU want more than just sex, then make him wait a bit until his intentions with you are communicated to you.
Posted by thinktoomuchPosted by victoriageminiListen, he´s just having fun. He´s not looking for a serious relationship, he is looking for someone to have fun with, where he doesn´t have to make an effort more than liking pics, and for someone who will think a comment like "I´m hurt from blue balls" is funny as hell and will be totally fine with it just being about sex....
OK he's driving. Me crazy!! He's liking my posts photos on fb BUT not texting me! Wtf?
Don´t mistake being blunty honest and open by him playing mindgames with you.
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Posted by thinktoomuchHmm good pointPosted by victoriageminiFrom the attention you are giving this situation and him, it doesn´t sound like you can do just fun though.Posted by thinktoomuchPosted by victoriageminiListen, he´s just having fun. He´s not looking for a serious relationship, he is looking for
OK he's driving. Me crazy!! He's liking my posts photos on fb BUT not texting me! Wtf?
someone to have fun with, where he doesn´t have to make an effort more than liking pics, and for someone who will think a comment like "I´m hurt from blue balls" is funny as hell and will be totally fine with it just being about sex....
Don´t mistake being blunty honest and open by him playing mindgames with you.
Well OK can do fun too but he should schedule something. Just the other
day I posted something flirty under his photo and he replied with yummy under mine.
When it´s just for fun, it doesn´t matter who makes the date, there are no rules, you just want to meet up and have sex.click to expand
Posted by WestsidekodakMe too!! If we're using baseball metaphors and second base is halfway to home, then just some under the shirt over the panties action?Posted by victoriageminilol well. im still trying to figure out what halfway sex means. but anyways, yeah dont expect much.
OK he's driving. Me crazy!! He's liking my posts photos on fb BUT not texting me! Wtf?click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by victoriageminiYeah!! Not "half way" sex... How old are you?!Posted by thinktoomuchHmm good pointPosted by victoriageminiFrom the attention you are giving this situation and him, it doesn´t sound like you can do just fun though.Posted by thinktoomuchPosted by victoriageminiListen, he´s just having fun. He´s not looking for a serious relationship, he is looking for
OK he's driving. Me crazy!! He's liking my posts photos on fb BUT not texting me! Wtf?
someone to have fun with, where he doesn´t have to make an effort more than liking pics, and for someone who will think a comment like "I´m hurt from blue balls" is funny as hell and will be totally fine with it just being about sex
....
Don´t mistake being blunty honest and open
by him playing mindgames with you.
Well OK can do fun too but he should schedule something. Just the other
day I posted something flirty under his photo and he replied with yummy under mine.
When it´s just for fun, it doesn´t matter who
makes the date, there are no rules, you just want to meet up and have sex.click to expand
Posted by FutureSeekerI get that but fwb is fine with mePosted by victoriageminiHe doesn't want a relationship with you. If he did, he would be respectful.
Yes half way sex is everything except penetration. Anyway what the heck is wrong with him.. He's reminding me of his existence on social media but doesnt text me to set something up.click to expand
Posted by FutureSeekerFuck but that's what he did before we hooked up...he textedPosted by victoriageminiIf all you want is FWB then you can't bring emotion into it like want him to text- that is where it gets sticky/messy.Posted by FutureSeekerI get that but fwb is fine with mePosted by victoriageminiHe doesn't want a relationship with you. If he did, he would be respectful.
Yes half way sex is everything except penetration. Anyway what the heck is wrong with him.. He's reminding me of his existence on social media but doesnt text me to set something up.click to expand
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