@victoriagemini
10 Years
cancer male problem
barely, as in no contact or some. If he's not contacting you he probably lost interest
I forgot to add he's a Leo rising
Posted by thinktoomuch
Sex is also "other pleasures" - maybe this was more of a pleasure-based thing no? If you don´t want to chase (or initiate contact as other people call it), then what else is there to do.
Well should I initiate? He just told me he was hurting from no p in the v. Wtf? I couldn't believe it
Posted by iroxane
barely, as in no contact or some. If he's not contacting you he probably lost interest
Some as in less than before. Why would he suddenly loose interest?
He lost interest. You will need to initiate something to regain it. Get over the chasing thing and invite him out.
Posted by Koniucha
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by thinktoomuch
Sex is also "other pleasures" - maybe this was more of a pleasure-based thing no? If you don´t want to chase (or initiate contact as other people call it), then what else is there to do.
Well should I initiate? He just told me he was hurting from no p in the v. Wtf? I couldn't believe it
Ask him what that is supposed to mean?
Sounds like he just wants sex.
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Yeah I'm thinking he's tripping me into making me guilty for not doing the deed so next time we will?
Posted by Crabra
He lost interest. You will need to initiate something to regain it. Get over the chasing thing and invite him out.
Yeah OK but why would he loose interest? Fine i can ask him out.
Posted by Koniucha
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by thinktoomuch
Sex is also "other pleasures" - maybe this was more of a pleasure-based thing no? If you don´t want to chase (or initiate contact as other people call it), then what else is there to do.
Well should I initiate? He just told me he was hurting from no p in the v. Wtf? I couldn't believe it
Ask him what that is supposed to mean?
Sounds like he just wants sex.
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Indeed, and if related to astrology, would seem crabs and cardinal signs in general are very quick to want sex. Makes sense a crab would get butt hurt if wanting sex and not getting it. This guy is unexpectedly blunt, but I think he's made it quite clear what he wants.
Read above post for why he might have lost interest.
Posted by Crabra
Posted by Koniucha
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by thinktoomuch
Sex is also "other pleasures" - maybe this was more of a pleasure-based thing no? If you don´t want to chase (or initiate contact as other people call it), then what else is there to do.
Well should I initiate? He just told me he was hurting from no p in the v. Wtf? I couldn't believe
it
Ask him what that is supposed to mean?
Sounds like he just wants sex.
Indeed, and if related to astrology, would seem crabs and cardinal signs in general are very quick to want sex. Makes sense a crab would get butt hurt if wanting sex and not getting it. This guy is unexpectedly blunt, but I think he's made it quite clear what he wants.
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Really? Wow I never heard that about Crabs...mostly that they take their time bedding someone, but you may be right as in what happened here haha.
Well the context of the convo was I texted hi how was he's dinner with the family last night and he said it was great but I'm still hurting.
Um so ok I found me someone who wants casual sex then. Figures lol
No p in the v? EW!! Move on this guys thoughtless and cold.
Damn OK haha
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No p in the v? EW!! Move on this guys thoughtless and cold.
Well he didnt put it that way per say but thats what he meant
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by Crabra
Posted by Koniucha
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by thinktoomuch
Sex is also "other pleasures" - maybe this was more of a pleasure-based thing no? If you don´t want to chase (or initiate contact as other people call it), then what else is there to do.
Well should I initiate? He just told me he was hurting from no p in the v. Wtf? I couldn't believe
it
Ask him what that is supposed to mean?
Sounds like he just wants sex.
Indeed, and if related to astrology, would seem crabs and cardinal signs in general are very quick to want sex. Makes sense a crab would get butt hurt if wanting sex and not getting it. This guy is unexpectedly blunt, but I think he's made it quite clear what he wants.
Really? Wow I never heard that about Crabs...mostly that they take their time bedding someone, but you may be right as in what happened here haha.
Well the context of the convo was I texted hi how was he's dinner with the family last night and he said it was great but I'm still hurting.
Um so ok I found me someone who wants casual sex then. Figures lolclick to expand
You might have misunderstood what you've heard/read. Crabs love to fuck, love. What they take their time with, is commitment. Many have no problem bedding someone they find attractive but don't see a future with. Especially male Cancers. Sometimes if you try to read into a Cancerian, you'll find that the library is closed.
Posted by Crabra
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by Crabra
Posted by Koniucha
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by thinktoomuch
Sex is also "other pleasures" - maybe this was
more of a pleasure-based thing no? If you don´t want to chase (or initiate contact as other people call it), then what else is there to do.
Well should I initiate? He just told me he was hurting from no p in the v. Wtf? I couldn't believe
it
Ask him what that is supposed to mean?
Sounds like he just wantmal
ex.
Indeed, and if related to astrology, would seem crabs and
cardinal signs in general are very quick to want sex. Makes sense a crab would get butt hurt if wanting sex and not getting it. This guy is unexpectedly blunt, but I think he's made it quite clear what he wants.
Really? Wow I never heard
that about Crabs...mostly that they take their time bedding someone, but you may be right as in what happened here haha.
Well the context of the convo
was I texted hi how was he's dinner with the family last night and he said it was great but I'm still hurting.
Um so ok I found me someone who wants casual sex then. Figures lol
You might have misunderstood
what you've heard/read. Crabs love to fuck, love. What they take their time with, is commitment. Many have no problem bedding someone they find attractive but don't see a future with. Especially mal
e Cancers. Sometimes if you try to read into a Cancerian, you'll find that the library is closed.click to expand
Oh LA LA OK interesting stuff
Posted by Crabra
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by Crabra
Posted by Koniucha
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by thinktoomuch
Sex is also "other pleasures" - maybe this was more of a pleasure-based thing no? If you don´t want to chase (or initiate contact as other people call it), then what else is there to do.
Well should I initiate? He just told me he was hurting from no p
in the v. Wtf? I couldn't believe
it
Ask him what that is supposed to mean?
Sounds like he just wants sex.
Indeed, and if related to astrology, would seem crabs and cardinal signs in general are very quick to want sex. Makes sense a crab would get butt hurt if wanting sex and
not getting it. This guy is unexpectedly blunt, but I think he's made it quite clear what he wants.
Really? Wow I never heard that about Crabs...mostly that they take their time bedding someone, but you may be right as in what happened here haha.
Well the context of the convo was I texted hi how was he's dinner with the family last night and he said it was great but I'm still hurting.
Um so ok I found
me someone who wants casual sex then. Figures lol
You might have misunderstood what you've heard/read. Crabs love to fuck, love. What they take their time with, is commitment. Many have no problem bedding someone they find attractive but don't see a future with. Especially male Cancers. Sometimes if you try to read into a Cancerian, you'll find that the library is closed.
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So let's say I do ask him out....that would tell him I do want sex then right?
Posted by victoriagemini
So let's say I do ask him out....that would tell him I do want sex then right?
No, it certainly does not! If you're down, then by all means, but you are not obligated to have sex with him even if you ask him out.
Posted by Crabra
Posted by victoriagemini
So let's say I do ask him out....that would tell him I do want sex then right?
No, it certainly does not! If you're down, then by all means, but you are not obligated to have sex with him even if you ask him out.
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Hm but some are saying he's not interested
No penis in vagina
Hes a child if hes actually talk like that. No P in V
Sign of things to come.
Posted by thinktoomuch
Ah now I get it. He was hurting from no penis in the vagina, right?
Well there you have it🙂 No need to ask.Cancer men are very fickle to me. And everybody else I believe.
OK that's beside the point...I want to know why he lost interest?
Posted by DMV
No penis in vaginaHes a child if hes actually talk like that. No P in V
Sign of things to come.
He didn't say it like that... Just that he was hurt.
Posted by Goldigold
I'm not saying that will tell him you're interested in sex if you ask him out. But he will probably think that. If a Cancer man is interested in more than just sex he will treat you right. Cancer men know how to treat women the right way when they are interested. The can be perfect gentlemen.
Well he texted me often and took me out before that happened at the party
Posted by Koniucha
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by thinktoomuch
Ah now I get it. He was hurting from no penis in the vagina, right?
Well there you have it🙂 No need to ask.Cancer men are very fickle to me. And everybody else I believe.
OK that's beside the point...I want to know why he lost interest?
How would we know why he lost interest? Ask him.
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I know you guys don't know but you can give me a maybe why?haha
And believe me I thought about it but then again why should I? He didn't ask me why I didn't go all the way. He's acting kinda aloof to this situation.
Well at least I found a sex crab partner lol
Don't contact him, he will find you if he is interested and don't put out.
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Hi everyone I'm new here :-) so I'm a Gemini and I met this cool Man at the airport. We stayed in touch he contacting me often. Had a nice date , then met again at his house for a party he invited me too. Well after the party ended I stayed a little with him and things got heated we ended up sleeping together except the thing is we didn't have sex because I didn't feel comfortable going all the way yet even though I'm 30 and he's 35. I was fine with the touching and other pleasures. Anyway after that night he barely is contacting me. I'm kinds confused as too what happened. I read Britneybabe26 post and it seems so similar to my story its funny btw. Soo I don't chase men and I won't chase this cancer but still wtf happened? I know he has a Taurus moon and Mars Gemini.