What to give for my boyfriend's birthday?!

help!! my boyfriend's birthday is coming up in a week.. and I donno what should I give him..
he's turning 40 this year and I don't think he lacks anything as for now
Last Christmas I gifted him a cashmere scarf, he wasn't so thrilled.. but he liked the card I made by myself
so my guess is he probably likes something that I make personally for him?
my idea now is to bake him a cake.. but other than that.. what else?
we're together for only about a year.. so I don't want the gift seems too much for it
any thought guys?

Exactly, you should make something kool or sentimental for him. Like make a birthday card with drawings from you on it. Also put how much he means to you & all the qualities you admire about him inside of it. Try making him a gift basket with all his favorite snacks & drinks. Also instead of taking him to a restaurant, Cook for him. Ask what his favorite foods & cook that with a romantic night. We like it when people make us stuff & bring us snacks. So do that

Yes. I was thinking to cook him a dinner too..
lolol.. what's up with crabs and snacks?? boyfriend is always eating snacks even at work
same with my dad (also a crab), he won't stop chewing.. always something in his mouth

ok. so i guess stuffs you can get from the malls don't mean much to you guys.. 😉

Well yeah pretty much LOL. We love food, & anything with sentimental value. If you do buy him something from the mall, make sure it's something sentimental. But yeah we lovve snacks. Try buying him a lot of snacks, & he'll never stop loving you lol 😉. What can you expect from a Crab haha. I think you'll be just fine

Posted by maomao
help!! my boyfriend's birthday is coming up in a week.. and I donno what should I give him..
he's turning 40 this year and I don't think he lacks anything as for now
Last Christmas I gifted him a cashmere scarf, he wasn't so thrilled.. but he liked the card I made by myself
so my guess is he probably likes something that I make personally for him?
my idea now is to bake him a cake.. but other than that.. what else?
we're together for only about a year.. so I don't want the gift seems too much for it
any thought guys?

Have pictures of you two together?

Make a little scrap book with pictures and funny comments about each particular time.
It will get him walking down memory lane and maybe score some points. 🙂

I answer this question the same way for every woman unsure of what to give their boyfriend/husband as a gift, and I am completely serious. What you can give him is free and fun: a blowjob and sex. Trust me, that's the best gift ever for a guy. They'd much rather have that than something materialistic. Just show him a good time, and he'll love you forever!

Well sex is good, but taking the time to do something thoughtful like cooking for him or buying his favorite snacks is always kool. Romance should always be apart of the relationship regardless of birthdays. I think this lady will be ok

wow! thanks for all the inputs guys! really appreciated 🙂


@2BlackIndian3
so I did a little watercolor painting of a cute bunny eating raspberry last night
and I'm going to make that to a birthday card
I showed him that video weeks ago and referred him eating like that rabbit 😉
I hope he gets the joke when he sees the card lolol

@CancerOnTheCusp
that's a very good idea 😉 i'm going to use that for our one year anniversary hehe.
thank you!!

@M00Nchild
wellllll... i guess he loves me more each every time we meet 😉

@xMoonMan
Christmas gift it is for this year! hahha

Lol that's great. Im sure your Cancer Man will appreciate anything you do for him. You even took time to paint for him. He'll be happy with you regardless. Take Care! 😄

Posted by maomao
help!! but he liked the card I made by myself
so my guess is he probably likes something that I make personally for him?

You already knew your answer 🙂
It's up to your imagination

How about a nice watch? There are some under $ 50 here, I got my dad one for fathers day. http://www.squidoo.com/top-menswatches

i just want to give you guys a quick update for what happened to my bf's birthday

he love love loved the cake and the dinner (food, of course!)
he loved the card that i made for him, many kisses after reading the card 😉
we spent entire afternoon at the beach and went food shopping together later
it was a nice and peaceful birthday with gorgeous weather, it couldn't get any better!!

thanks again for all your help 🙂

Wow That's great! 🙂. Im glad everything worked out for ya. Take Care