@kim30
12 Years1,000+ PostsCancer
Choosing between Pisces and Scorpio depends on your personality and preferences. Pisces is known for its empathy and creativity, while Scorpio is recognized for its intensity and passion. Both signs have unique qualities that appeal to different individuals. Consider what traits resonate most with you when deciding which sign suits you better.
Scorpio. Of all the Scorpios I know I get along with most of them very easily and well. They also tend to ground me and I give them a bit of a boost up...the light to the dark, etc. I adore pisces but the ones I know are too flighty and secretive, too much into the good times but not grounded. To be fair, though, I've never dated a Pisces, so I won't say that it's a solid for sure on the Scorpio over Pisces.
Umm, what is this vote for? like best partner or personality qualities? Tell me that, & i'll vote. Also i don't want any Pisces or Scorpios offended by this voting stuff. Things can get touchy you know
Lover/mate/spouse
You know, the sexy stuff!
Posted by Arielle83
You more or less know where you stand with a scorpio. A pisces is all smoke and mirrors, in my experience. They tell you what you want to hear as they continue to look around and keep options open, but they get hurt if you do the same.
...hypocrites? Really? I don't have much experience with Pisces. Do tell me all that you know. What to look out for?
I know I despise hypocrites and smoke and mirrors. Not least, indecisiveness. All the men in the world incapable of making a decision and taking action should be lined up and shot.
Posted by MoonArtist
Scorpio. Of all the Scorpios I know I get along with most of them very easily and well. They also tend to ground me and I give them a bit of a boost up...the light to the dark, etc. I adore pisces but the ones I know are too flighty and secretive, too much into the good times but not grounded. To be fair, though, I've never dated a Pisces, so I won't say that it's a solid for sure on the Scorpio over Pisces.
Why have you never dated a Pisces? Lack of chemistry?
@Kim30 ohh ok, kool i got ya. Well based off my experiences (past & present) with Scorpios; i find they are who i'm ment for. I tell you, the best love i ever felt in my life was from 2 Scorpio women i knew. I choose Scorpios not because they are magnetic or sensual. I love them because of their easy going nature. They are strong (personality wise), & you always know how they feel about you (good or bad). You never have to second guess anything with them. Not to mention, it's easy to have hours of conversation, & they just get you. I have gotten my best compliments from them. The only thing that causes hell in my case, is long distance relationships. That is the only hard part. I like closeness in my relationships.
As far Pisces, hmmm i haven't met too many of them. I did met one a longgg time ago lol. She was an airy Pisces (A Cancer Mans kryptonite lol). I tell you Kim, that was tough!. I literally had to cut back on everything i was, just to get along with her. I like Pisces people, especially my family members. But if they are verry airy placements in they chart, you can keep em lol. But like i said, no hard feelings to any of them. There's some good fishes out in the sea that taste good lol 😉
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
As far Pisces, hmmm i haven't met too many of them. I did met one a longgg time ago lol. She was an airy Pisces (A Cancer Mans kryptonite lol). I tell you Kim, that was tough!. I literally had to cut back on everything i was, just to get along with her. I like Pisces people, especially my family members. But if they are verry airy placements in they chart, you can keep em lol. But like i said, no hard feelings to any of them. There's some good fishes out in the sea that taste good lol 😉
a crab cutting back on who they are? that's asking for a random explosion! oh yes, the scorpios in my life never openly judge me and allow me total freedom to be myself.
Ohh yeah, i wish i could have tried sex or kissing with one of those Scorpios lol. I had all those feelings, & i wish i could have physically & emotionally express that more. I think emotional maturity, communication (Calls in my case), & understanding is what makes any water pairing work. Maybe i wasn't ready enough yet. I think long distance really affected me the most. That part hurts not seeing your partner. I would definitely date a Scorpio Lady if it happened again.
@Kim30 yeah that cutting back on who i was, tore me up inside. It made me feel really bad that i couldn't be me just to talk to her. I do try to hold back on my emotions for people i like, but i can only hold soo much water in lol. At least those Scorpios actually respected me for my emotions. Not saying Pisces can't at all.
A crab gf of mine is working on a list of pros and cons of each. She just texted her lists consists of all pros for scorps and all cons for fish.
Not looking so good for Nemo and Flounder...
"It's like they are so insecure and need to constantly be validated so they have more than one on the go, so if your busy they can see someone else. I find them needy, disloyal and liars."
That's a problem. Dealing with a man like that could, would, cost me my freedom.
*flashes back to Jodi Arias trial*
I agree you Arielle on Scorpios being honest. They are a fixed sign & i like that about them. No BS around & you know how they feel about you. How sexy is that lol. I'm not kissing their azz either lol. I'm just going off experience. I believe Pisces people can be real too. It really depends on the person at the end of day. But Scorpios have kinda love this Crab the best. I think they come & find me more. That's why i haven't seen a lot Pisces
Posted by MoonArtist
Scorpio. Of all the Scorpios I know I get along with most of them very easily and well. They also tend to ground me and I give them a bit of a boost up...the light to the dark, etc. I adore pisces but the ones I know are too flighty and secretive, too much into the good times but not grounded. To be fair, though, I've never dated a Pisces, so I won't say that it's a solid for sure on the Scorpio over Pisces.Why have you never dated a Pisces? Lack of chemistry?
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No, not a lack of chemistry....there's usually a lot of it around the right ones and they're complete sex freaks. lol
One is married, another doesn't have his life together and is too prone to drugs and drinking. Both are super intelligent and sexy but not serious material, you know what I mean?
Posted by Arielle83
Scorpios are harsh and honest, but you need that. I'd rather know where I stand with someone than always wondering what's really going on. Plus when a scorpio makes a decision, they stick with it. They are more sincere once they make their mind up and the intensity is exactly what I need.
straightforward AND intensity? *sighs*
Intensity is the magic word. Don't you love how they do the research and study your likes and dislikes? Brings me to tears when one will recall a thing like what I eat and won't eat at restaurant we haven't been to in years!
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
As far Pisces, hmmm i haven't met too many of them. I did met one a longgg time ago lol. She was an airy Pisces (A Cancer Mans kryptonite lol). I tell you Kim, that was tough!. I literally had to cut back on everything i was, just to get along with her. I like Pisces people, especially my family members. But if they are verry airy placements in they chart, you can keep em lol. But like i said, no hard feelings to any of them. There's some good fishes out in the sea that taste good lol 😉a crab cutting back on who they are? that's asking for a random explosion! oh yes, the scorpios in my life never openly judge me and allow me total freedom to be myself.
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rofl at the random explosion comment. That's exactly what happened with the ex. I hid who I was because he had problems with the real me and that....well, it created resentment.
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@Kim30 yeah that cutting back on who i was, tore me up inside. It made me feel really bad that i couldn't be me just to talk to her. I do try to hold back on my emotions for people i like, but i can only hold soo much water in lol. At least those Scorpios actually respected me for my emotions. Not saying Pisces can't at all.
please don't hold back again. adjust maybe, but to cut out? screw that.
@MA I don't know any married Fish except one lesbian couple.
the rest drink and screw around too much.
Personally, if it ain't serious material, it ain't sexy.
@Kim30 i promise you, i won't hold back again. i always try to adjust or get on the same level as my partner. But it's always best to be you, & people will love you for doing just that. I have learned that lesson. I like that advice you gave me 🙂. Maybe Scorpios are it
Looks like "Idiots, Incorporated" is back in business once again.
Congratulations!
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@Kim30 i promise you, i won't hold back again. i always try to adjust or get on the same level as my partner. But it's always best to be you, & people will love you for doing just that. I have learned that lesson. I like that advice you gave me 🙂. Maybe Scorpios are it
thank you for promising. I know you'll keep it!
guess it goes without saying I don't too much have a problem with holding back. Hehehehe!
Posted by kim30
@MA I don't know any married Fish except one lesbian couple.
the rest drink and screw around too much.Personally, if it ain't serious material, it ain't sexy.
My lilith is a Sag....thus I'm highly unconventional in a lot of my ideas and thoughts and have an inner hedonistic heathen. I'm not sure how to explain it on the chemistry end of things, just that it's either there or it isn't and it can be a sliding scale of how much chemistry.
Pisces are horrible liars. They may lie but it's written all over their faces and you have to figure out why they are lying. Pisces leave clues everywhere and you have to be gullible or completely obtuse to miss them. Fish will flip flop but once they've decided for themselves that they're in, I don't think you'll find a more loyal companion.
Scorpios will lie without breaking a sweat. And if you question it, get ready for a battle that is designed to throw you off track to getting any truth. A Scorpio can give the appearance of complete loyalty but if you've failed to meet/live up to their standards, anything goes and you probably won't find out about it unless they tell you.
I've dated both.
Posted by Latingal415
Scorpios for sure!!!! Pisces are sweet and caring but their so freaken indecisive and unreliable. They act like the victims all the time and sum that I've known can be unfaithful bastards. Scorpios are tough but also emotional and cancers love that. plus loyalty is big with these two.
loyalty for both? hmmm. I guess that's one point for fish as well.
@Kim30 i understand, & i don't expect you to hold back. @ScorpioFish please don't take offence to this thread bro. I promise you, these are experiences. Not saying you are this way ok. I think you're a good dude in my book. This was just a voting poll based off what We Crabs want & don't want. See!
Posted by shellshocker
A Scorpio can give the appearance of complete loyalty but if you've failed to meet/live up to their standards, anything goes and you probably won't find out about it unless they tell you.
Vince Foster sure learned that lesson the hard way from Hillary Clinton.
I would also like to add that most Pisceans I know do not view human beings as disposable objects to attain power. On the contrary, we would prefer to see people succeed in life instead of suffer.
People need to remember that, for many myopic and sophomoric Scorpios, life is all about a big power grab.
Posted by ScorpioFish
Looks like "Idiots, Incorporated" is back in business once again.Congratulations!
idiots? who are the idiots, SF?
Posted by ScorpioFish
Looks like "Idiots, Incorporated" is back in business once again.Congratulations!
idiots? who are the idiots, SF?
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They know who they are.
Posted by ScorpioFish
Looks like "Idiots, Incorporated" is back in business once again.Congratulations!
idiots? who are the idiots, SF?
They know who they are.
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scrolled up and down and not one to be found. care to point them out or would you like to throw around some more verbal abuse?
Posted by shellshocker
Pisces are horrible liars. They may lie but it's written all over their faces and you have to figure out why they are lying. Pisces leave clues everywhere and you have to be gullible or completely obtuse to miss them. Fish will flip flop but once they've decided for themselves that they're in, I don't think you'll find a more loyal companion.Scorpios will lie without breaking a sweat. And if you question it, get ready for a battle that is designed to throw you off track to getting any truth. A Scorpio can give the appearance of complete loyalty but if you've failed to meet/live up to their standards, anything goes and you probably won't find out about it unless they tell you.
I've dated both.
eh, again, one point each.
Posted by ScorpioFish
Looks like "Idiots, Incorporated" is back in business once again.Congratulations!
idiots? who are the idiots, SF?
They know who they are.
scrolled up and down and not one to be found. care to point them out or would you like to throw around some more verbal abuse?
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Ancient Greeks used the word "idiot" to describe a person who obsesses over the affairs of private instead of public.
Where I am going with this is simple.
After having met some AWFUL Crabs in my short 36 years on this planet, I am hardly an IDIOT about my beliefs on them because I know that NOT ALL CRABS are AWFUL because of SEVERAL AWFUL CRABS I HAD TO DEAL WITH.
This is why it's fair to suggest Camp 1 versus Camp 2 representation exists.
ONLY AN IDIOT WRITES OFF AN ENTIRE SUN SIGN OVER INTERACTIONS WITH A FEW OF ITS REPRESENTATIVES.
It is as I told you, and these idiots know who they are.
Posted by Arielle83
I guess we are all idiots. HA!
You get my vote for CEO of the company, jackass.
@blackindian do you know what it means when a woman lets out a flat "Wow"? If so, please educate the rest of the menfolk.
@ScorpioFish Wow.
I studied Latin for seven years and four months. I don't need any break downs on anything ancient. Thanks.
@Kim30 can you reread that question you asked me? I think it depends on how the woman said "Wow". Like if she shocked, or felt something she never felt before. OR like when someone says something retarded or off the wall. Hope i answer your question right? If not, maybe you can re word it to me.
I understand. Its important for a crab to find a loyal, honest man, wanting family and doesn't lie about it.
Nothing worse than one going on about traditional values, while he fucks everything fresh out of college to boost his ego.
I'd rather deal with a scorp honest about his level of commitment than a fish who leads on just BC he wants to add you to a collection.
Wow as in I've never wanted to slap the shit out of a man for his stupidity and complete lack of respect as I do right now. That kinda Wow.
Some would identify it as guilt.
@Kim30 OOO lol, yeah i get where you koming from. Umm yeah when a woman says "Wow", you better stop what you doing. Or in other cases, see if she's ok. But i wouldn't piss off a Crab lol, just saying. Our Claws are there for a reason. They'll clip a hating bitch azz up like chicken nuggets haha. Kim your too much 😄
It is as I said, you idiots.
IF YOU WRITE OFF AN ENTIRE SUN-SIGN DUE TO EXPERIENCE WITH A FEW BAD APPLES, THEN YOU ARE AN IDIOT.
PERIOD.
@ScorpioFish don't worry about it man. They aren't talking about you in those experiences. They are simply saying who they prefer to love, & why or why not. This thread wasn't made to insult you or anyone. I understand you are passionate about your sign too. But this thread isn't directed at you
Nobody did. Except one MARRIED woman who naturally is going to write off everyone other than her husband.
Posted by kim30
a crab cutting back on who they are? that's asking for a random explosion! oh yes, the scorpios in my life never openly judge me and allow me total freedom to be myself.
Then why are you always complaining about how "controlling" and stalk-y they are?
lol @ "openly"
I'm dismayed, why keep making such an idiot thread like this? those 12 signs are different but beautifully created with their own unique characteristics...
LEO!! 😛
Never dated a fish so I can't compare them to Scorpio's.
Only briefly dated Scorps so again no real long-term, ongoing relationship with them either.
Hmmm Sometimes I do wonder what it would be like to date a Fish.
Posted by crabberries
I'm dismayed, why keep making such an idiot thread like this? those 12 signs are different but beautifully created with their own unique characteristics...Ya you should be asking us 'are you a gay?'
If you have no preference, why even comment?
What about your 'pisces man or woman for cancer' thread? Guess you made an 'idiot' thread too.click to expand
of course not
Posted by crabberries
I'm dismayed, why keep making such an idiot thread like this? those 12 signs are different but beautifully created with their own unique characteristics...Ya you should be asking us 'are you a gay?'
If you have no preference, why even comment?
What about your 'pisces man or woman for cancer' thread? Guess you made an 'idiot' thread too.click to expand
Of course not. 'pisces men for cancer woman' was different to compare to this thread.. mine was normal. This thread is offensive. Include cancer so you complete the three water signs to make this sensible. Created with no kind purpose but to offend,
and No I dont need to ask that cause I already know? YOU.
Posted by LunarMaiden
LEO!! 😛Never dated a fish so I can't compare them to Scorpio's.
Only briefly dated Scorps so again no real long-term, ongoing relationship with them either.
LOL Never dated a Leo.
Oh! Now I see. Only an idiot would twist and turn the meaning of a thread to serve an argument they can't make on their own. All the while posting actual hate. This isn't a hate thread. Go start a gay bashing thread since we know you would have tons of fun with.
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As a favor. I know its been done before or at least something similar. However, I can't find the thread and I need a count.
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Pisces or Scorpio? Why and why not?