When crabs pinch back

So yeah we are the sweet, don't hurt my feelings keep everything guarded sign but man....when we feel threatened and need to get someone away fast we do it effectively and ruthlessly. To me we are the psychological warfare sign, I never hit or physically hurt anybody, I never say anything that is just straight abrasive like "you're stupid" or "you're fat", nope we hit where it hurts and keep people up for nights and toss them into therapy sessions. What is the cruelest but most necessary strike you have had to land cancers.

It might be my full chart that makes me kind of sadistic when people get on my bad side 😛 might not be a full on cancer thing I do have a ton of scorpio in there

Posted by mermaidbabe73

I know personally ILL WALK if I get disrespected..once i make the determination , i make the termination..

Will you walk forever?
If the person shows you how truly sorry he/she is, will you believe it and gain your trust back?

you sentimental fucks lol, you are turning a discussion about how we can be bad asses into a HOLD HAND THERAPY SESSION lets get it together guys 😛 be badass lol

Hehe for me I get very cold with someone and if they provoke me from there I'll leave them with something that really hits home...I catalog all their hopes, dreams, and fears and store them up in my shell for later use 😛

@Aujra: Sorry to hijack your topic.

Carry on then.

How can I stay mad at a super mario mushroom, its no problem. I just wanna get your perspective on my chart if you don't mind, it seems like it would explain why everything I go for ends up being a bumpy ass ride 😛

Rising Sign is in 11 Degrees Virgo
Sun is in 20 Degrees Gemini.
Moon is in 26 Degrees Scorpio.
Venus is in 19 Degrees Gemini.
Mars is in 12 Degrees Scorpio.
Jupiter is in 10 Degrees Capricorn.
Saturn is in 10 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 11 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 00 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 29 Degrees Libra.
N. Node is in 06 Degrees Gemini.

So what do you all thinks

My sign is cancer I was born July 11th

Unless I filled it in wrong oops what site do you guys use Astrolabe?

put them in a pot and boil them lmfao.

a tasty treat for all

Posted by FreeFall

Posted by mermaidbabe73

I know personally ILL WALK if I get disrespected..once i make the determination , i make the termination..

Will you walk forever?
If the person shows you how truly sorry he/she is, will you believe it and gain your trust back?

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It depends. In many cases I can forgive nearly anything, especially if I can detect sincerity.

With that said, if there is a pattern of someone repeatedly hurting me, then reeling me back in, then hurting me, at some point I put up walls and we will remain acquaintances at best from then on, nothing more. Not friends, not enemies, but more like just someone I know. I will put no effort into the relationship. Sure I'll be nice, and friendly, but I will essentially remove myself from their life and them from mine. Which is fine! It works out good. I can keep the friends that are important to me and to whom I feel that I am important to and I can filter out those who don't fit the criteria. I'm all about self preservation and protection, security. Keeping dangerous people away is second nature to me.

It depends. In many cases I can forgive nearly anything, especially if I can detect sincerity.

With that said, if there is a pattern of someone repeatedly hurting me, then reeling me back in, then hurting me, at some point I put up walls and we will remain acquaintances at best from then on, nothing more. Not friends, not enemies, but more like just someone I know. I will put no effort into the relationship. Sure I'll be nice, and friendly, but I will essentially remove myself from their life and them from mine. Which is fine! It works out good. I can keep the friends that are important to me and to whom I feel that I am important to and I can filter out those who don't fit the criteria. I'm all about self preservation and protection, security. Keeping dangerous people away is second nature to me.




100% AGREE !

I Mind fuck the person,than i manipulate them to where they feel its their fault, than i cry and make them feel like dirt. Than i ignore them for a week. Yea, I will admit it, i can be a bitch if you bust my shell!

Exactly my shell can take one hell of a beating but once it breaks all of your little secrets pour right out 😛

I Wont ever reveal their secrets to people if they dont want people to know, unless you spill mine.

@mermaidbabe73
Dear it is just so hard to know whats going on in a crab's mind when he disappears!
It could be so many things..
You never met face to face? you would know how he feels about you if you had, it is hard to tell if there was no physical connection of any kind..
He may be afraid of the date...what was that about paying for a date, did he say he didnt like to pay? Wow.
Just give him time to go back to you but if he does, make sure you TELL him you were worried, and make him explain what happened, if not, it will be a habit of his just to disappear and then retun as if nothing had happened..

Mermaid, just dont contact him, as you said , if he wants you then he will contact you as he was the one who cancelled the date. If you had cancelled it, you would have been the one to contact but no, then dont push it.
If she is shy and you are pushy, he'll run away.
But you are a Fish arent you??' we are not pushy, but sweet. He'll come back, give him time, and during the wait, just live your life girl!
We cant always be depending on them ...life is too short 🙂