why a cancer man can never say `SORRY`

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nysa
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15 Years

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my cancer man and i are in a relationship from last 4 years or so .first 2 years together and then in long distance.I have noted one very thing that he never says sorry or apologizes,even he never realizes that he was wrong even if he was...like one instance he had a crush in school and out of blue he massaged her on FB saying he avoided her as he thought she was too good for him and said her to smile forever as he cherishes her smile and bbye.....though in his massage he told about us and me that he loves me..and when i confronted him he simply told me he was just closing her chapter but.... after 10 years and being in relationship with me from last 4 years.....and icing on cake he felt `he was not wrong and he wasn't betraying me` and off course `no sorry`..just explanations...and he recently wrote on our mutual friend FB DP.. babes! can i have your no.... i asked him about this and again he told me he was just joking after-all she is _ and again no sorry....Why he could never come up with SORRY...I am really pissed off...please help me to understand him..he is Sun Cancer(1st July),moon Sagittarius, venus taurus and mars cancer..I am sun sagittarius (25 Nov.),moon taurus,venus scorpio and mars libra...
PS:we are in committed relationship and had decided to marry each-other..he has told his mother about me (as per he has told me from ages)....
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ninjamu
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16 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

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I understand the need for closure but his timing to express that sentiment was over long ago. Then referring to your friend as "babe" is uncalled for unless he does that with everyone. I would be suspicious as well.

It's true that he probably feels there's nothing wrong with it but he needs to understand and acknowledge that you do and should only apologize for hurting your feelings. If he dismisses your feelings then that shows how much he considers them. THEN you can make some decisions on what to do.