@suresh0807
14 YearsCancer
Loner
I'm not a cancerian but I relate to what you're saying. I've been single nearly my entire life. Now that I'm in a relationship - although I want to be in it - I found being alone much easier.
My cancerian bf however, for the last 15+ years hasn't been single for more than a few months at a time. As soon as one relationship would end, he'd be on the lookout for the next one. I think he hates the thought of being alone.
I am not a cancer, but I can speak from personal experience, and what I have learnt is that sometimes being alone and enjoying one's own company is sometimes part of the healing process. In time when it is right, you will venture out again looking for a new love. I am sure of it. For now take the time to listen to your needs, and learn from your experiences.
Posted by addictedtochoc
I am not a cancer, but I can speak from personal experience, and what I have learnt is that sometimes being alone and enjoying one's own company is sometimes part of the healing process. In time when it is right, you will venture out again looking for a new love. I am sure of it. For now take the time to listen to your needs, and learn from your experiences.
I completely agree.
Thank you for your concerns and replies.....
Actually she ditched me!!!
Over the last one year, i couldn't fight her loss and kept looking to find things to hold on to...To say, I Ran away from my home town, in search of light. I was a wreckage.. Finally, I managed to get admission to a master's program after 2 years of break in studies. I dug deep into books when her thoughts resurfaced... I feel that i might get cut out of the real world... Even if its a joy to be alone, I don wanna be forgotten. I won't be in the utopia for long.. I suppose so....
Posted by LaBom7ba
I'm sorry to hear that. Gosh, we cap women can be such assholes sometimes..What do you mean by "I don wanna be forgotten" ? You want her back?
Take care
You know, she was everything i knew, in those 5 year time. She accepted my proposal this very day 5 years before.... She was perfect in every way i could imagine a fine women. I have no idea if i could forget her in another decade or so, for i had imagined a whole life with her. She became workaholic in the death days and started to hide many things from me, Finally came up with this " I shd have told you two years before, Didn't wanna hurt you. im sorry". I would imagine she never said that. I still don forget to wish her on her birthdays, new years,etc without her knowing its me. Doesn't matter if i want her anymore... She is getting married this year.
Posted by paries
I'm not a cancerian but I relate to what you're saying. I've been single nearly my entire life. Now that I'm in a relationship - although I want to be in it - I found being alone much easier.My cancerian bf however, for the last 15+ years hasn't been single for more than a few months at a time. As soon as one relationship would end, he'd be on the lookout for the next one. I think he hates the thought of being alone.
Nice. Cancers r precious... keep em safe.... 🙂
may i ask you if he is born on early cancer....
Posted by addictedtochoc
I am not a cancer, but I can speak from personal experience, and what I have learnt is that sometimes being alone and enjoying one's own company is sometimes part of the healing process. In time when it is right, you will venture out again looking for a new love. I am sure of it. For now take the time to listen to your needs, and learn from your experiences.
You r right... Being alone sometimes feels a bit selfish, for me.. But, i need it for some days though!!!.. thanks!!
Posted by paries
I'm not a cancerian but I relate to what you're saying. I've been single nearly my entire life. Now that I'm in a relationship - although I want to be in it - I found being alone much easier.My cancerian bf however, for the last 15+ years hasn't been single for more than a few months at a time. As soon as one relationship would end, he'd be on the lookout for the next one. I think he hates the thought of being alone.
Nice. Cancers r precious... keep em safe.... 🙂
may i ask you if he is born on early cancer....click to expand
He is an early born (first decan) Cancer. Funny though, although he'd rather be in a relationship than alone, in his down-time he'd rather be alone than with other people.
Posted by paries
I'm not a cancerian but I relate to what you're saying. I've been single nearly my entire life. Now that I'm in a relationship - although I want to be in it - I found being alone much easier.My cancerian bf however, for the last 15+ years hasn't been single for more than a few months at a time. As soon as one relationship would end, he'd be on the lookout for the next one. I think he hates the thought of being alone.
Nice. Cancers r precious... keep em safe.... 🙂
may i ask you if he is born on early cancer....He is an early born (first decan) Cancer. Funny though, although he'd rather be in a relationship than alone, in his down-time he'd rather be alone than with other people.
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Yeah... i guessed he must be an early born... my predictions abt cancers r really working out. I once figured out seth godin is a cancer born by just listening him speak... u will not believe i saw myself!!!!
moon is a miracle.........
My cancer bf is like paries's (2nd decan). Though he counts "alone" as being with just me.
Posted by ninjamu
My cancer bf is like paries's (2nd decan). Though he counts "alone" as being with just me.
I am born in second decan but the first decan characteristics define me completely... I dont really know for sure if the decan things work really the way they should...
Posted by ninjamu
My cancer bf is like paries's (2nd decan). Though he counts "alone" as being with just me.
Mine also often counts being just with me as "alone". He says it's because I let him do his thing without bugging him for attention.
Being with a Capricorn will do that to you. I understand.
Addictedto choc....this is so the truth! If you dont thoroughly know you & do not know how to enjoy your own company, no one else will either. Call it selfish, but I absolutely love,love my meeee time. I am very attracted to the man who has his own thing going on, although I can complain about it depending my mood (hehe!)I could not deal with the cling...Ive been there before & its just not my thing....so yes, depending time, life style & circumstance I find this to be quite the norm 🙂
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I am a cancer man, broke up with a capricorn, a year before... that was nasty.. It was a five year long relationship. Since then I am starting to love loneliness and i am all alone and find it so pleasant and pleasing than being in love.... Any cancers felt the same.... Just to make sure if i am not an exception.........