Any Cappies been through alot of FAILED relationships??

Is it me or does every relationship end up disappointing? Any other cappies feel like this lately? Its hard for me to even get interested in someone so when I do and I end up in a relationship its rare so I try my hardest to value it. but for some reason.... things always start great..they're going great...good....its alright and then shit hits the fan and I still try to make shit work but in the end the relationship fails. Its like I'll never be in a good relationship I've always been taken for granted or cheated on and everytime I think the person is different...turns out they aren't. *Rant Over* and yes Ive done self evaluation. Im a cap I over analyze everything even breakups.

Do you give up easily?

It takes alot to make a relationship work out. And they are NEVER perfect. No matter how some people can make it look. Not working out takes 2. You have to decide to NOT want it to work out anymore, and thats where itll eventually be headed...

I've dated soooooo much the last four or five years. Never anything serious! It never works out! Sometimes it's my choice and sometimes it's the guys choice. I'm a cancer though!

Well if it doesn't work out it'll be disappointing and itself but it doesn't have to be disappointing he can take a lesson from it it is give-and-take I feel like you guys been so much time obsessing over why it won't work before I even happens or the negative aspects before it even happens to the point where you're waiting for the mess ups in the relationship and jus it is give-and-take I feel like you guys been so much time obsessing over why it won't work before I even happens or the negative aspects before it even happens to the point where you're waiting for the mess ups in the relationship instead of letting things just develop you are waiting for the letdown. I'm not saying you're at flags or Not discuss things that bother you but I noticed Earth signs that you guys can be obsessed about timing and sometimes a relationship can be too structured leaving more room for a bigger letdown In the end.

"everytime I think the person is different...turns out they aren't."

i feel like a broken record : check what planets in your 12 house and which house your neptune is in.

Until recently, i tend to be overly seriously in relationships and put in a lot of expectations, do a lot and expect the same from my exs. Think the many disappointments have gotten me to realise, i out in what i want and shouldnt expect the same of my partner. Whatever he gives is a bonus, if he doesnt then it boils down to how much r u willing to take in.....

I know a couple, yeah.

Posted by KrissyTheCappy36
Is it me or does every relationship end up disappointing? Any other cappies feel like this lately? Its hard for me to even get interested in someone so when I do and I end up in a relationship its rare so I try my hardest to value it. but for some reason.... things always start great..they're going great...good....its alright and then shit hits the fan and I still try to make shit work but in the end the relationship fails. Its like I'll never be in a good relationship I've always been taken for granted or cheated on and everytime I think the person is different...turns out they aren't. *Rant Over* and yes Ive done self evaluation. Im a cap I over analyze everything even breakups.

I feel that way too. Except I have never even found someone right enough for me to actually get into a relationship with them. It sucks. I've never been in a relationship ever.