Are Capricons indirect with EXPRESSING?

Okay. I have told you guys on this board before that I am "UNDERDEVELOPED" when it comes to expressing my emotions. However I have been working on being a tad bit open. Well here is the deal. I feel very strongly for my Capricon friend and I feel that he does too. TO ME..and I stress TO ME its like we both SHARE the same feelings. But of course with my slight insecurity, sometimes I wonder if its in my head. Well anyways the last couple times I've seen him has said things like "This wasn't supposed to happen"....But he didnt say exactly WHAT...then one time he said "I didn't plan on this SOFTY"...One time we were having a conversation and I was talking about how a platonic male friend of mine had started to act strange...he said "Maybe he likes you"..I said "um.I dont know"....he said"Well me neither, I just know how I feel." long **SIGH**...I mean with him being the man, a Capricorn man, if he feels for me, Will he EVER come out and say it directly? I just cant read between these lines.

I mean we've NEVER verbally declared ANYTHING for each other,,I think that is where I get confused with his statements.

from my experience with cap males is that they can be like this if they're into u but they probably have logical reasons holding them back from it becoming a reality. they will go ater what they want if everything is planned, analyzed, and fits conveniently into their life. if everything isn't just right then they will wait. they can be almost irritatingly patient with love matters. if they're really head over heels it will be a most pain staking sight. they will worry, fret, sweat it out. they want so desperately to give in but they won't. the only thng with u is that urs is verbalizing it. mine wouldn't dare say a word but would speak clearly through actions... and through the eyes.

my advice to u is... just don't go there. i know where ur headed and with a cap man u must tread lightly. if he isn't going after u directly then keep a level emotional head. u will end up delving right in and he will let u down. u may have to wait for a long time (possibly years) before he's ready for u. with him ur gonna have to be cool about it. keep urself busy and doing ur own thing. don't appear needy or clingy. always let him know that he's loved and appreciated and that ur there for him if needed. yet don't be too available. this is like a testing point for them. if ur in it for the long haul they want to know ur completely devoted. u will have to give in to his patience. however, if ur anything like me, u will just eventually let go of the whole thing. i won't compromise myself and i live for the "now" and not the future. the future isn't guaranteed. i may try to forge a path but life doesn't always follow our plans. i wanna be with someone who also has the kind of view on life... and i found him!

Thanks Ninja. That was great. I wont give into it, not because I dont want to or because you warned me not too. I'm way tpp scarey to open up THAT MUCH without me having a CLEAR understanding of how you feel. I'm just wondering why he goes that far to verbalize, but not elaborate. I mean I dont like speculating. It is my fauult for being a chicken shit though...Because when he said, I just know how I feel....I shouldve said "HOW DO YOU FEEL?...and I shouldve said "you didnt plan on WHAT happening"...Instead I sat there in silence.

Thank you Cusp.....Next time I see him I will attempt to open up the lines. But I'm pretty sure he will say something that I can piggyback off, which will make it easier.

I am going to do my best Magic...

Thats funny Shaks because I feel that he is alot like me in that arena too.

Truthfully when I like someone I can feel fireworks in side...but it is every HARD for me to express it. Thats me.

softy - are you a cap too?

ima cancer warholian

Not so good expressing in words, but in action is very expressive

Posted by Shaks
Ive said this before and I'll say it again, caps are exactly like cancerians when someone has made an emotional impression on them.

Can you elaborate Shaks?

Where is Shaks?

Oh my MC...You'll get your chance again. Don't write the letter...Wait for eye to eye contact again...just be prepared so you dont clam up. I'm still waiting for my opportunity. Im thinking I might see him this weekend and I'm pretty sure he will open the door again...And this time I will walk in (:

Hi Shaks (:

We wanted you to elaborate on this

Posted by Shaks
Ive said this before and I'll say it again, caps are exactly like cancerians when someone has made an emotional impression on them.