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Im on my phone.

I was trying to ask if anyone ever gotten a verbal lashing from a Cap before?

If so, did it break you down? Build you up? No affect?

I ask because two seconds away from snapping on someone out of anger. Like just straight exploding. I can no longer hold it in.

However, if I do I want it to build them up instead of break them down further. Like I want to get my anger off my chest, but I want there to be a positive outcome. Is that possible?

I want them to know what I think of them.as a person, which isnt good, but its going to be truth. I want them to see themselves for who they are.

I also consider myself blessed, and dont want to mess up my blessings by going there, but its getting hard for me contain.

Posted by lnana04
I want them to know what I think of them.as a person, which isnt good, but its going to be truth. I want them to see themselves for who they are.

I also consider myself blessed, and dont want to mess up my blessings by going there, but its getting hard for me contain.

Tell us what the flaw is (or at least how you see this person) and maybe we can help with the wording?

As far as I know anything I say that is remotely negative is like the sky fell down. People just take it so much harsher coming from me rather than someone else. I think the sincerity and our lack of expression plays into that. It's like we don't say much and when we do it being something negative has that much more gravity.

Imagine someone always chattering away, sometimes positive and sometimes negative. If they had an opinion you'd like be like meh, ok you have 1000 opinions.

But imagine someone who hardly says much and then that one time they do and it's negative then you might put a lot more weight on it.

I was reading 48 laws of Power and one of them is " say as little as possible"... so it makes your few words more powerful.