Gemgal101
joined September 06, 2017
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  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by vixen14
    Posted by Gemgal101

    I never go with the flow yet everyone kept saying "go with the flow". It wouldn't last and I would always question him where are we going with this.
    I always got that he wasn't there yet. He wanted to be able to see other people. He didn't want to loose me and that I never knew what would happen in the future. He professed he loved me but not in love with me. I said I couldn't keep doing the intimate side unless it was exclusive. He said he couldn't do that so that's why I stopped and just became his friend to which he still says "anything can change in an instant. Never know what the future holds.

    I feel like I'm being held at arms reach for when he's finished doing what he needs to do and then MAYBE something will happen.

    I'm losing myself at the moment and I don't like it so I think I know what I need to do.
    Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all I guess?

    Thank u..


    That first bold part is classic and an obvious red flag. The moment a guy tells you he wants to see other women, is the moment he holds no liability for what happens with you (in their mind). It was a disclaimer to avoid guilt. All that other bullbutter he fed you under the bold and italics, was him throwing a bone hoping he’d keep you on a leash. A backup. Whenever he’d feel like he was losing you, he’d feed you another bone to keep you ‘alive’.

    The italic and underline is just you holding out false hope. That’s dangerous territory because the moment he comes back, you’d open the doors hoping it was different. Don’t do that. Cut him off and come to terms that he just used you as a backup and side chick. And while you sat there falling in love with him and feeding off his scraps, he was off trying to find the woman he wanted.

    It’s a tough pill to swallow, but learn from this. Don’t make the same mistakes. Don’t be ashamed for what you felt. Be ashamed for what you WILL do if he comes back. Learn from this and accept the truth so you can gain peace.

    ✌🏻
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    That was hard to read but i know it's the Truth and I appreciate u telling me something I've wanted to hear from someone else instead of making excuses for myself and him all the time.

    Thank u so much.
    I do really appreciate it..
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Cap/Aqua cusp.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by vixen14
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by saggurl88
    Hmmmm. I'm a Sag, so I will just voice my opinion. Why do you guys care what's going on in his love life?

    It's no ones business but his own. Unless he's having sex with one of you and playing you, you shouldn't be too involved in what he's doing. He;s a grown man and the women involved will figure out what they want/ need from him and go from there. He won't be able to keep up the lie for long.

    You guys are just 2 friends that should be accepting him as he is, not where he puts his dick at. That's his to worry about. If he's lying to you, it just means he doesn't want you in his business. He's gonna do what he wants and doesn't need to hear grief about it from his 2 best friends. He's avoiding the drama of it all.

    Are you guys his friend or the 2 women that he's seeing? The women will figure out what's going on, they always do. It will be your choice whether you want to lose a friend over his private matters.


    Truth be told...
    I was the first woman but now have removed myself intimately. The Sag is not the other.


    Thought so, you need to butt out.

    Sorry I know I'm harsh, but really for your sake, I would stay uninvolved.


    Ok. Like I was saying.i no longer care what it's about. When u ask someone over and over the same question and they deny it but cannot bet that answer on their child's life, they are treating me with no respect because they are not being honest and assume we are Too stupid to know otherwise and believe the bs.


    Here's the thing, he owes you nothing. You are a former fwb from what you have said in this thread, of course he isn't going to tell you because again he doesn't NEED to tell you. You are talking about respect etc,, but you have zero respect for his privacy or boundaries. Do you not see the drama you are creating?
    People will hold back because they don't want to hurt others or deal with drama.


    Maybe you are right but I asked him that if he was seeing someone else that I would want to know and he said he would tell me.

    At the moment I've had enough of everything and everyone. I don't give 2 f# $ % s anymore about what is going on. I'm not asking for sympathy or people to back my side. I just want opinions and I appreciate everyone's input.
    I would never consider what I had with him just a fwb. Almost 2 years of seeing each and going away together. Sharing secrets. Being given false hope by him as to when he would come out and tell everyone about us. A decent amount of time that I feel deserves respect and honesty that's all.


    I know you don’t want to see it as a FWB, but unless there was an actual convo at some point between the two of you regarding commitment to which both of you agreed, then you were NOT in a relationship and just fk buddies. It hurts but it’s the truth.

    Furthermore, he’s in no obligation to tell you his private life. His reluctance to do so, should have been an indicator of where he placed you in his life along with the reluctance to commit to you. Take it as a life lesson to at some point, stop going with the flow and ask where the hell youre going.
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    I never go with the flow yet everyone kept saying "go with the flow". It wouldn't last and I would always question him where are we going with this.
    I always got that he wasn't there yet. He wanted to be able to see other people. He didn't want to loose me and that I never knew what would happen in the future. He professed he loved me but not in love with me. I said I couldn't keep doing the intimate side unless it was exclusive. He said he couldn't do that so that's why I stopped and just became his friend to which he still says "anything can change in an instant. Never know what the future holds.

    I feel like I'm being held at arms reach for when he's finished doing what he needs to do and then MAYBE something will happen.

    I'm losing myself at the moment and I don't like it so I think I know what I need to do.
    Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all I guess?

    Thank u..
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by tiziani
    I beg you to just stop please changing the story and be straight. You made your friend sound controlling as hell just by going the long way around getting to the real matter.

    You said you don't care for pages, and now you do. No shame in that and not going to knock you for it.

    Just try to go about it in a less controlling way is the only two cents I can offer.

    He considers his private life a priority over his relationship with you. There will be people who share the same priorities as you but he isn't one of them right now.


    I'm not changing the story.
    I came here to talk about getting my Sag friend and Aqua friend back together as friends.
    I never wanted this thread to include me but I guess enough people asked enough questions to help them fill the gaps. If I had said I can't say what the lying is about, no one would be interested In helping out cos it would be too vague for them to give a solid opinion or advice
    I just wanted an overall opinion on how I could fix a friendship.
    I seriously don't care about me. My head is beyond f# $ ked and I can't do any of this anymore.
    I always just want to help everyone else..
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by pisceswoman123
    So let me get this straight.

    You are the first woman and he has being with someone else at the same time but you were never officially together.

    I can understand you are not happy about it but he can do that because he is not exclusive with you.

    Now is about what you want. If you want a relationship with him then talk about it and become exclusive and move from there.

    If he says that he doesn’t want you to go maybe he is ready to commit if you forgive him for not being honest about it.

    You just have to decide what you want and is best for you and take the necessary steps.


    Had the talk. Can't give me exclusivity so I've stopped the intimate side.
    I was with him for about 16 months then the other came along.

    I'm happy to forgive but he would never admit being dishonest.

  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by justagirl
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    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by saggurl88
    Hmmmm. I'm a Sag, so I will just voice my opinion. Why do you guys care what's going on in his love life?

    It's no ones business but his own. Unless he's having sex with one of you and playing you, you shouldn't be too involved in what he's doing. He;s a grown man and the women involved will figure out what they want/ need from him and go from there. He won't be able to keep up the lie for long.

    You guys are just 2 friends that should be accepting him as he is, not where he puts his dick at. That's his to worry about. If he's lying to you, it just means he doesn't want you in his business. He's gonna do what he wants and doesn't need to hear grief about it from his 2 best friends. He's avoiding the drama of it all.

    Are you guys his friend or the 2 women that he's seeing? The women will figure out what's going on, they always do. It will be your choice whether you want to lose a friend over his private matters.


    Truth be told...
    I was the first woman but now have removed myself intimately. The Sag is not the other.


    Thought so, you need to butt out.

    Sorry I know I'm harsh, but really for your sake, I would stay uninvolved.


    Ok. Like I was saying.i no longer care what it's about. When u ask someone over and over the same question and they deny it but cannot bet that answer on their child's life, they are treating me with no respect because they are not being honest and assume we are Too stupid to know otherwise and believe the bs.


    Here's the thing, he owes you nothing. You are a former fwb from what you have said in this thread, of course he isn't going to tell you because again he doesn't NEED to tell you. You are talking about respect etc,, but you have zero respect for his privacy or boundaries. Do you not see the drama you are creating?
    People will hold back because they don't want to hurt others or deal with drama.


    Maybe you are right but I asked him that if he was seeing someone else that I would want to know and he said he would tell me.

    At the moment I've had enough of everything and everyone. I don't give 2 f# $ % s anymore about what is going on. I'm not asking for sympathy or people to back my side. I just want opinions and I appreciate everyone's input.
    I would never consider what I had with him just a fwb. Almost 2 years of seeing each and going away together. Sharing secrets. Being given false hope by him as to when he would come out and tell everyone about us. A decent amount of time that I feel deserves respect and honesty that's all.


    You do deserve better. I'm not sure what you gain continuing to be his friend other than a false sense of hope thats gonna prolong the hurt. Cut him off like your sag friend did.
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    I know that's what I need to do...we are just friends but my heart is still with him and I know either way (whether I stop talking to him or whether I stay friends) it will hurt and he said to me if I disappeared, he would be devo (and he said this with tears in his eyes)..
    Thank you..i need to really consider what is best for me at the end of the day..
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by saggurl88
    Hmmmm. I'm a Sag, so I will just voice my opinion. Why do you guys care what's going on in his love life?

    It's no ones business but his own. Unless he's having sex with one of you and playing you, you shouldn't be too involved in what he's doing. He;s a grown man and the women involved will figure out what they want/ need from him and go from there. He won't be able to keep up the lie for long.

    You guys are just 2 friends that should be accepting him as he is, not where he puts his dick at. That's his to worry about. If he's lying to you, it just means he doesn't want you in his business. He's gonna do what he wants and doesn't need to hear grief about it from his 2 best friends. He's avoiding the drama of it all.

    Are you guys his friend or the 2 women that he's seeing? The women will figure out what's going on, they always do. It will be your choice whether you want to lose a friend over his private matters.


    Truth be told...
    I was the first woman but now have removed myself intimately. The Sag is not the other.


    Thought so, you need to butt out.

    Sorry I know I'm harsh, but really for your sake, I would stay uninvolved.


    Ok. Like I was saying.i no longer care what it's about. When u ask someone over and over the same question and they deny it but cannot bet that answer on their child's life, they are treating me with no respect because they are not being honest and assume we are Too stupid to know otherwise and believe the bs.


    Here's the thing, he owes you nothing. You are a former fwb from what you have said in this thread, of course he isn't going to tell you because again he doesn't NEED to tell you. You are talking about respect etc,, but you have zero respect for his privacy or boundaries. Do you not see the drama you are creating?
    People will hold back because they don't want to hurt others or deal with drama.
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    Maybe you are right but I asked him that if he was seeing someone else that I would want to know and he said he would tell me.

    At the moment I've had enough of everything and everyone. I don't give 2 f# $ % s anymore about what is going on. I'm not asking for sympathy or people to back my side. I just want opinions and I appreciate everyone's input.
    I would never consider what I had with him just a fwb. Almost 2 years of seeing each and going away together. Sharing secrets. Being given false hope by him as to when he would come out and tell everyone about us. A decent amount of time that I feel deserves respect and honesty that's all.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by Wineaux15
    Are you the “Sag friend” or the other woman?


    The first woman.

    I've asked the Sag if she treetrunked him and she said no.
    I asked the Aqua ages ago if he was interested in seeing the Sag. He said he wasn't attracted to her physically.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Gemgal101
    He is seeing someone and has been for months on the quiet. She got out of a marriage and less than 6 months they are together..he was seeing someone else at the same time prior and that person asked and was told nothing was going on

    My Sag friend does not give too hoots about the context of the lies. It's the fact that he lied to her face knowing she hates liars and so does he and she has proof he is lying.

    I can see where u are coming from but I think initially it was the fact that he was doing this to the first woman because she is good friends with her. The second woman was friends with the Sag ages ago but the Sag broke contact because she betrayed her trust and I think she feels the guy is blinded by this second woman and her character and that she is bad news.

    Perhaps he knew if he let the Sag know what was going on, she would break friendship with him because of her ability to break trust in friends but now the friendship is gone purely because of the extent of the lies.


    Truth be told...
    I was the first woman but now have removed myself intimately.


    So now that we have all the info it seems pretty obvious. Sag is mad on your behalf that he started seeing someone else and didn't give you the gf crown. She also is mad he's seeing this other woman whom she, personally, doesn't like. She sounds like a controlling ass cookiemonster. Good riddance. Looks like their 2 year friendship wasn't that strong after all.

    And you say they (2nd woman and Aqua) were dating while you were still involved with him because you know they had play dates together. You don't ACTUALLY know they were dating at that time. Its entirely likely that it started off as playdates for their kids, they found they had a connection...and it evolved from there.

    You kinda treetrunked up by venting to your Sag friend and putting this in her head. Makes sense you feel like you need to fix their friendship seeing as how you helped drive the wedge. I get it. You were mad that another woman was moving in on your man. Only he was never your man...he was fwb.

    Moral of the story? Don't treetrunk your friends.
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    Ok. A secret is a secret and if the don't want to tell u what's going on fine!!
    When u ask someone a direct question to their face to which they give a bs answer - that's lying!!
    I'm not stupid but lying to my face is treating me like an idiot. For the importance I was told I was to him, lying shows u have not enough respect for someone to be honest to them.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by saggurl88
    Hmmmm. I'm a Sag, so I will just voice my opinion. Why do you guys care what's going on in his love life?

    It's no ones business but his own. Unless he's having sex with one of you and playing you, you shouldn't be too involved in what he's doing. He;s a grown man and the women involved will figure out what they want/ need from him and go from there. He won't be able to keep up the lie for long.

    You guys are just 2 friends that should be accepting him as he is, not where he puts his dick at. That's his to worry about. If he's lying to you, it just means he doesn't want you in his business. He's gonna do what he wants and doesn't need to hear grief about it from his 2 best friends. He's avoiding the drama of it all.

    Are you guys his friend or the 2 women that he's seeing? The women will figure out what's going on, they always do. It will be your choice whether you want to lose a friend over his private matters.


    Truth be told...
    I was the first woman but now have removed myself intimately. The Sag is not the other.


    Thought so, you need to butt out.

    Sorry I know I'm harsh, but really for your sake, I would stay uninvolved.
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    Ok. Like I was saying.i no longer care what it's about. When u ask someone over and over the same question and they deny it but cannot bet that answer on their child's life, they are treating me with no respect because they are not being honest and assume we are Too stupid to know otherwise and believe the bs.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Gemgal101
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    Posted by Gemgal101


    Because he always spoke so highly of her and her of him. They are like 2 peas in a pod. They care about each other immensely and I can see how much this is hurting her. He hasn't spoken to me about the break in friendship with her and I haven't disclosed to him I know. She thought he was a true and trusted friend and because he hasn't attempted to salvage it, she feels now that he never truly cared about her.


    Well she's the one who ended it, so she's gonna need to be the one to suck up her pride and talk to him, if she wants him back as friend. smh.

    Why would he chase if they were fine before and she got mad and let go of him? What sense does that make?

    Things will be back to normal if she accepts him as he is and reaches out since she's the one who put the distance between them.


    So I shouldn't get involved??
    I think he's waiting for her to come and talk and she's waiting for him.
    Both very stubborn..


    You can let her know my perspective, but as far as getting involved, nope. We both are stubborn, but eventually one will break if the friendship was that strong.
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    I figured one would break but just needed to give it time. It's been less than a week. I believe the friendship was that strong but I guess time will tell....
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by pisceswoman123
    Posted by saggurl88
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    Posted by Mr_Pinchy
    Curious, but what is he lying about?


    Thought someone would ask.
    He is seeing someone and has been for months on the quiet. She got out of a marriage and less than 6 months they are together..he was seeing someone else at the same time prior and that person asked and was told nothing was going on.
    Sure, maybe it's not anyone's business but there are children involved who have been taught to lie or to just keep their mouth shut.


    Hmm I'm confused, so aqua guy is seeing two people at the same time? While being married or?
    And the children are seeing the women?

    If so, yes that's bad business


    Not married. He has child. She has children. And another woman in the mix yes.



    Maybe they have an open relationship? Or he is afraid to tell you guys what's going on because you wouldn't understand.
    Did you talk to the woman in the mix? What was her view?
    You can't really judge a situation of you don't have all the details.

    Anyway, if he is you and your Sag best friend he should be honest and open about everything otherwise he's not a real friend.


    I don't think she is aware there is a woman in the mix and the woman in the mix is upset because she has fallen for him.
    He is not ready for a relationship and I'm sure both women know that and that is why it's on the quiet. I do know the whole situation but it's the lying more than anything and my Sag friend is devo. She misses him but he hasn't attempted to apologise for his lying.


    “He is not ready for a relationship and I'm sure both women know that “

    So he is not really in a relationship with anyone of them?


    This is true and I'm sure they both know that.
    But I never said relationship. Seeing each other, yes but that's it but it's more the lying. No one cares what's going on anymore because it's been so long that it can't be hidden. It's the pile of lies being told and I thought Aquas didn't lie??

    I am sorry I just don’t understand it.

    If a friend of mine has to lie to me because he doesn’t want me to find about his private life I wouldn’t be upset about it. I will respect it and understand his reason for it.


    I can see where u are coming from but I think initially it was the fact that he was doing this to the first woman because she is good friends with her. The second woman was friends with the Sag ages ago but the Sag broke contact because she betrayed her trust and I think she feels the guy is blinded by this second woman and her character and that she is bad news.
    Perhaps he knew if he let the Sag know what was going on, she would break friendship with him because of her ability to break trust in friends but now the friendship is gone purely because of the extent of the lies.

    I can understand why he didn’t tell the sag friend. She wouldn’t understand him. He can have sex with whoever he choose if he is not in a relationship with anyone.


    What do you mean by a Sag wouldn't understand him?


    Not a sag but THAT sag.
    She is really judging. He wouldn’t be comfortable telling her his personal stuff.
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    He always said to me he talks to me about certain thing's and talks to her about other certain things..she says it how it is but he liked that about her..
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Gemgal101


    Because he always spoke so highly of her and her of him. They are like 2 peas in a pod. They care about each other immensely and I can see how much this is hurting her. He hasn't spoken to me about the break in friendship with her and I haven't disclosed to him I know. She thought he was a true and trusted friend and because he hasn't attempted to salvage it, she feels now that he never truly cared about her.


    Well she's the one who ended it, so she's gonna need to be the one to suck up her pride and talk to him, if she wants him back as friend. smh.

    Why would he chase if they were fine before and she got mad and let go of him? What sense does that make?

    Things will be back to normal if she accepts him as he is and reaches out since she's the one who put the distance between them.
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    So I shouldn't get involved??
    I think he's waiting for her to come and talk and she's waiting for him.
    Both very stubborn..
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by 2Moon
    Aquas are stubborn

    Once they start showing bad traits it's almost too late... Their dark side is exhausting..

    Just ignore him / stay away from liars


    Stubborn he is yes...I know he has a bad side but he has a huge heart too...he knows I have thought about removing myself from his life but every time I distance myself, he comes back.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by saggurl88
    Hmmmm. I'm a Sag, so I will just voice my opinion. Why do you guys care what's going on in his love life?

    It's no ones business but his own. Unless he's having sex with one of you and playing you, you shouldn't be too involved in what he's doing. He;s a grown man and the women involved will figure out what they want/ need from him and go from there. He won't be able to keep up the lie for long.

    You guys are just 2 friends that should be accepting him as he is, not where he puts his dick at. That's his to worry about. If he's lying to you, it just means he doesn't want you in his business. He's gonna do what he wants and doesn't need to hear grief about it from his 2 best friends. He's avoiding the drama of it all.

    Are you guys his friend or the 2 women that he's seeing? The women will figure out what's going on, they always do. It will be your choice whether you want to lose a friend over his private matters.


    Truth be told...
    I was the first woman but now have removed myself intimately. The Sag is not the other.


    So now this makes more sense. The Sag is probably upset that he did this to you then. If she's loyal to you, of course she would be upset about what he did.

    But we are loyal and will always accept friends back that want to be in our lives so, just leave it. If she wants to be friends with him again, then she will.

    You sure she wasn't sleeping with him, huh? She shouldn't be this upset over it. If she didn't know that you guys were sleeping together, she probably was sleeping with him and keeping it to herself. I'm not the type to have a male best friend and not sleep with him. Friendship and sex is the best. This is the main reason I can't be friends with men. I'm too curious about sex lol




    She knew I was sleeping with him cos he told her about 6 months in. She swears she never slept with him and I believe her. She is a straight shooter and says it how it is. I did question her several times but she's never faulted.


    I agree that if she knew you were sleeping with him, she wouldn't of gone there. She must just be upset about the way he treated you then.

    Why do you want her to be friends with him again?
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    Because he always spoke so highly of her and her of him. They are like 2 peas in a pod. They care about each other immensely and I can see how much this is hurting her. He hasn't spoken to me about the break in friendship with her and I haven't disclosed to him I know. She thought he was a true and trusted friend and because he hasn't attempted to salvage it, she feels now that he never truly cared about her.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by saggurl88
    Hmmmm. I'm a Sag, so I will just voice my opinion. Why do you guys care what's going on in his love life?

    It's no ones business but his own. Unless he's having sex with one of you and playing you, you shouldn't be too involved in what he's doing. He;s a grown man and the women involved will figure out what they want/ need from him and go from there. He won't be able to keep up the lie for long.

    You guys are just 2 friends that should be accepting him as he is, not where he puts his dick at. That's his to worry about. If he's lying to you, it just means he doesn't want you in his business. He's gonna do what he wants and doesn't need to hear grief about it from his 2 best friends. He's avoiding the drama of it all.

    Are you guys his friend or the 2 women that he's seeing? The women will figure out what's going on, they always do. It will be your choice whether you want to lose a friend over his private matters.


    Truth be told...
    I was the first woman but now have removed myself intimately. The Sag is not the other.


    So now this makes more sense. The Sag is probably upset that he did this to you then. If she's loyal to you, of course she would be upset about what he did.

    But we are loyal and will always accept friends back that want to be in our lives so, just leave it. If she wants to be friends with him again, then she will.

    You sure she wasn't sleeping with him, huh? She shouldn't be this upset over it. If she didn't know that you guys were sleeping together, she probably was sleeping with him and keeping it to herself. I'm not the type to have a male best friend and not sleep with him. Friendship and sex is the best. This is the main reason I can't be friends with men. I'm too curious about sex lol


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    She knew I was sleeping with him cos he told her about 6 months in. She swears she never slept with him and I believe her. She is a straight shooter and says it how it is. I did question her several times but she's never faulted.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by saggurl88
    Hmmmm. I'm a Sag, so I will just voice my opinion. Why do you guys care what's going on in his love life?

    It's no ones business but his own. Unless he's having sex with one of you and playing you, you shouldn't be too involved in what he's doing. He;s a grown man and the women involved will figure out what they want/ need from him and go from there. He won't be able to keep up the lie for long.

    You guys are just 2 friends that should be accepting him as he is, not where he puts his dick at. That's his to worry about. If he's lying to you, it just means he doesn't want you in his business. He's gonna do what he wants and doesn't need to hear grief about it from his 2 best friends. He's avoiding the drama of it all.

    Are you guys his friend or the 2 women that he's seeing? The women will figure out what's going on, they always do. It will be your choice whether you want to lose a friend over his private matters.


    Truth be told...
    I was the first woman but now have removed myself intimately. The Sag is not the other.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Gemgal101
    Posted by vixen14
    I don’t get this?

    So your aqua is a male who has been lying about who he’s dating?

    How’s that anybody’s business?

    As an aqua, I don’t care how long we’ve been friends or if we’re tied to the hip, if I don’t want to divulge certain details of my life then I won’t. It doesn’t give you an automatic right to know every detail simply because we’re friends.


    True. But would you happily lie to your close friend knowing they hate lying and the aqua has always said that he can't lie and hates liars?
    If the roles were reversed, he would have dusted the Sag off for lying.


    How do you know he’s happy while lying?
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    I don't believe he is and I believe he is starting to feel guilt.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by vixen14
    I don’t get this?

    So your aqua is a male who has been lying about who he’s dating?

    How’s that anybody’s business?

    As an aqua, I don’t care how long we’ve been friends or if we’re tied to the hip, if I don’t want to divulge certain details of my life then I won’t. It doesn’t give you an automatic right to know every detail simply because we’re friends.


    True. But would you happily lie to your close friend knowing they hate lying and the aqua has always said that he can't lie and hates liars?
    If the roles were reversed, he would have dusted the Sag off for lying.
  • Gemgal101
    female
    Posted by SpaceBird
    No they care. They are also great at letting you know ..other people care about you too ..

    I have a sag friend ..she always is telling me ...no only am i important to her ..but ..so and so cares a lot for me ...and so and so worries about me ...


    My Sag friend does exactly the same..love her to bits..