@ConsiderableMyth
8 YearsLibra
Do all cap men tend to ghost on their crushes?
Do Capricorns Men Tend to Ghost on Their Crushes
Capricorn men may ghost due to their cautious nature and difficulty expressing emotions. They often prioritize work and personal goals, which can lead to withdrawal if they feel overwhelmed or unsure. However, not all Cap men behave this way, and individual differences play a significant role.
No, if they truly like you. They'll never leave you alone
Cap i met at work pursued me endlessly until we were together every day
Posted by miriyahhh
No, if they truly like you. They'll never leave you alone
figures. i'll take the hint and move on.
They don’t like to be bothered when they’re pursuing their goals, but they don’t stay away for long. If it’s weeks then i would think he’s not that interested
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
Super long distance "relationship". Not really - mostly just talking and trying to get to know each other. which is difficult in and of itself since cap men are awkward over text. he's ghosted a couple times before and i let it be known i didn't appreciate it. he says he's got a lot on his mind with work, which i actually sort of believe except he's on instagram all the time.im not the type that gets antisocial when work is occupying my mind, but that doesn't mean no one is.
why do y'all ghost on people? i dont get it. i always thought it was bad manners to just stop all communication without at least saying something about it.
what's his deal?
The women do it too!
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i'm wondering when he'll reappear like they like to do. act like nothing happened. blows my mind.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
They don’t like to be bothered when they’re pursuing their goals, but they don’t stay away for long. If it’s weeks then i would think he’s not that interested
last night he tried to make some short conversation by asking what i've been up to. i understand not everyone is a multitasking aficionado such as myself so im giving him his space.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
They don’t like to be bothered when they’re pursuing their goals, but they don’t stay away for long. If it’s weeks then i would think he’s not that interestedlast night he tried to make some short conversation by asking what i've been up to. i understand not everyone is a multitasking aficionado such as myself so im giving him his space.
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They wouldn’t bother texting back if they had no interest. Maybe you should give him some space and let him come to you but don’t over think it when he’s gone, live your life.
Posted by DeadInside
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i feel like you could be him by some of the things you post. lol.
Posted by Leowwwww
Super long distance means what?An ocean between you two?
I didn't experience the " ghosting."
If he's behaving so early on.. I'd pay attention to that.
like a good 1500 miles between us. he lives in florida and here i am in texas. being a libra, im a hopeless romantic so distance to me is nothing if 2 people really like each other.
Posted by Leowwwww
Super long distance means what?An ocean between you two?
I didn't experience the " ghosting."
If he's behaving so early on.. I'd pay attention to that.
like a good 1500 miles between us. he lives in florida and here i am in texas. being a libra, im a hopeless romantic so distance to me is nothing if 2 people really like each other.
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He might just need a bit of space to himself or is busy with other things. Give it bit and contact him again
As long as he doesn't completely stop talking to you/responding to you then you're fine.
One other thing - i know he's in the process of starting his own company. so... i guess maybe he could be telling the truth.
Posted by Lala1393
No. They don't.They're very consistent with people they love/like.
And will always keep you posted if they're busy.
I have a Cap ex that STILL contacts me and keeps me posted. We haven't been together for years amd have 2 oceans separating us.
I'd say move on with this one. And be happy he's showing you his true colours.
I'll definitely keep that in mind.
Posted by ufo
I used to be friends w/ my childhood friend who is a cap and he liked a girl so much he stopped texting her out of fear and she ended up w/ someone else and he just longed for hera true idiot
oh no! don't tell me that! we facetimed regularly for a long while and he always texted me after and said he really liked talking to me. my job requires me to basically entertain people.
Posted by DeadInside
👻👻👻👻👻i feel like you could be him by some of the things you post. lol.
so what sign are u
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Libra. By default libras and caps don’t mesh very well. We have similar interests and... I’m ashamed to say... he’s gorgeous and I don’t think he really knows that.
Ive had one pop back in like eight times now since November... He gets no sex, money, etc when he pops back. Chases me, makes effort to see me at my job, doesn't ask for sex nor try ...then poof, gone again.
Every time he ghosts I delete his number and think I'll never hear from him again then bam, there he is texting I miss you, thinking of you or the like chasing. Longest hes gone is 31 days.
We finally saw each other in quiet a while two weeks in a row, hes was very open, happy, affectionate, etc. I saw a whole new side to him... I thought progress... nope, now hes ghost again!
I dont pressure him, text him, etc, Im just go with the flow get to know ya thing so I dont understand him. We have wicked chemistry and things in common...
I dont know if Im not interested in someone to dont go back...
I just go live my life, date, etc, if it was meant to be it will.
Posted by Sagaqua
Ive had one pop back in like eight times now since November... He gets no sex, money, etc when he pops back. Chases me, makes effort to see me at my job, doesn't ask for sex nor try ...then poof, gone again.Every time he ghosts I delete his number and think I'll never hear from him again then bam, there he is texting I miss you, thinking of you or the like chasing. Longest hes gone is 31 days.
We finally saw each other in quiet a while two weeks in a row, hes was very open, happy, affectionate, etc. I saw a whole new side to him... I thought progress... nope, now hes ghost again!
I dont pressure him, text him, etc, Im just go with the flow get to know ya thing so I dont understand him. We have wicked chemistry and things in common...
I dont know if Im not interested in someone to dont go back...
I just go live my life, date, etc, if it was meant to be it will.
See, I’m the same way. I’m pretty good at reading between the lines so I duck out before I look foolish. I’ve read caps like to “test” people. In the past when he’s ghosted I made a big deal about it, but I’ve only mentioned he’s been very quiet lately. He might be looking to see if I’m going to freak out again. But.... he’ll be waiting for a long time because I won’t do that again. Lol.
The annoying part is I think I’m only physically attracted to him, aside from some minor personality attraction. But he’s awkward. Uses baby words like “otay”. Which I think is odd for a 31yr old male.
Posted by Sagaqua
Ive had one pop back in like eight times now since November... He gets no sex, money, etc when he pops back. Chases me, makes effort to see me at my job, doesn't ask for sex nor try ...then poof, gone again.Every time he ghosts I delete his number and think I'll never hear from him again then bam, there he is texting I miss you, thinking of you or the like chasing. Longest hes gone is 31 days.
We finally saw each other in quiet a while two weeks in a row, hes was very open, happy, affectionate, etc. I saw a whole new side to him... I thought progress... nope, now hes ghost again!
I dont pressure him, text him, etc, Im just go with the flow get to know ya thing so I dont understand him. We have wicked chemistry and things in common...
I dont know if Im not interested in someone to dont go back...
I just go live my life, date, etc, if it was meant to be it will.
See, I’m the same way. I’m pretty good at reading between the lines so I duck out before I look foolish. I’ve read caps like to “test” people. In the past when he’s ghosted I made a big deal about it, but I’ve only mentioned he’s been very quiet lately. He might be looking to see if I’m going to freak out again. But.... he’ll be waiting for a long time because I won’t do that again. Lol.
The annoying part is I think I’m only physically attracted to him, aside from some minor personality attraction. But he’s awkward. Uses baby words like “otay”. Which I think is odd for a 31yr old male.
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I never even freaked on him or was confrontational about the ghosting/ignoring me. I did call him out on it though in a nice way saying I didnt appreciate it in person on one of our meets.
At this point he knows me enough by now to know Im not going to freak on him and I'll talk logical/non confrontational to him... I know he knows deep down Im good and very chill.
I'll never understand popping back in chasing me, being So affectionate, talk about his life, family, goals, invite me to his home, etc, then bounce... Caps just dont open up to anyone...
The baby words are odd. haha
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
Super long distance "relationship". Not really - mostly just talking and trying to get to know each other. which is difficult in and of itself since cap men are awkward over text. he's ghosted a couple times before and i let it be known i didn't appreciate it. he says he's got a lot on his mind with work, which i actually sort of believe except he's on instagram all the time.im not the type that gets antisocial when work is occupying my mind, but that doesn't mean no one is.
why do y'all ghost on people? i dont get it. i always thought it was bad manners to just stop all communication without at least saying something about it.
what's his deal?
says he's got a lot on his mind with work, which i actually sort of believe except he's on instagram all the time....
Enough said! You have your answer! You just denying the obvious...unless he is a security guard...but he can talk to you instead of instagram...dismiss him!
Posted by Sagaqua
Ive had one pop back in like eight times now since November... He gets no sex, money, etc when he pops back. Chases me, makes effort to see me at my job, doesn't ask for sex nor try ...then poof, gone again.Every time he ghosts I delete his number and think I'll never hear from him again then bam, there he is texting I miss you, thinking of you or the like chasing. Longest hes gone is 31 days.
We finally saw each other in quiet a while two weeks in a row, hes was very open, happy, affectionate, etc. I saw a whole new side to him... I thought progress... nope, now hes ghost again!
I dont pressure him, text him, etc, Im just go with the flow get to know ya thing so I dont understand him. We have wicked chemistry and things in common...
I dont know if Im not interested in someone to dont go back...
I just go live my life, date, etc, if it was meant to be it will.
See, I’m the same way. I’m pretty good at reading between the lines so I duck out before I look foolish. I’ve read caps like to “test” people. In the past when he’s ghosted I made a big deal about it, but I’ve only mentioned he’s been very quiet lately. He might be looking to see if I’m going to freak out again. But.... he’ll be waiting for a long time because I won’t do that again. Lol.
The annoying part is I think I’m only physically attracted to him, aside from some minor personality attraction. But he’s awkward. Uses baby words like “otay”. Which I think is odd for a 31yr old male.
I never even freaked on him or was confrontational about the ghosting/ignoring me. I did call him out on it though in a nice way saying I didnt appreciate it in person on one of our meets.
At this point he knows me enough by now to know Im not going to freak on him and I'll talk logical/non confrontational to him... I know he knows deep down Im good and very chill.
I'll never understand popping back in chasing me, being So affectionate, talk about his life, family, goals, invite me to his home, etc, then bounce... Caps just dont open up to anyone...
The baby words are odd. haha
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Lmao I know! The first time he said it I was like... whhhhat?? Oh well. Too much headache trying to keep up with his moods.
Posted by ufo
I used to be friends w/ my childhood friend who is a cap and he liked a girl so much he stopped texting her out of fear and she ended up w/ someone else and he just longed for hera true idiot
I think about this alot
Posted by ufo
I used to be friends w/ my childhood friend who is a cap and he liked a girl so much he stopped texting her out of fear and she ended up w/ someone else and he just longed for hera true idiot
I think about this alot
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Me too, now that someone’s seen it happen in real life.
I always thought that stuff only happened in the movies.
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Super long distance "relationship". Not really - mostly just talking and trying to get to know each other. which is difficult in and of itself since cap men are awkward over text. he's ghosted a couple times before and i let it be known i didn't appreciate it. he says he's got a lot on his mind with work, which i actually sort of believe except he's on instagram all the time.
im not the type that gets antisocial when work is occupying my mind, but that doesn't mean no one is.
why do y'all ghost on people? i dont get it. i always thought it was bad manners to just stop all communication without at least saying something about it.
what's his deal?