Cap/Aqua Cusp

Does anyone know anything about this? how they are in day to day things, and also in love? Are they ok with with Gem/Cancer cuspers?

Posted by arianna
I know one aqua-cap cusp fellow. We have gotten very close in the last few years. He has a girlfriend and has admitted cheating on her. He felt guilty about it and mostly blamed her for coming on too strong. (like he had nothing to do with it?) He is secretive. He likes to be admired. It's his way mostly and likes to call all the shots. He likes routine. He might even be boring? As far as love, he seems calculating and manipulative. Slow to make any moves. Said he is used to being chased, not the other way around. Sounds like alot of work doesn't it?

when is his bday?

The one I just met is a Elephant that moves at the pace of a cheetah. Lots of arguements, annoyed people, starts shits, screams, yells, rants. Calm is a unknown word for her she was promtly hired then fired.

i read somewhere that cap/aqua cusps are the cusps of genius or weirdness or whatever.
didnt read much more into it, but did look up some cap/aqua cuspers. i've met some: very hard workers, loads of fixed energy, yet action oriented (starting things - like said in the other thread)

as for personality, not sure,since everyone looks at someone in a different perspective than say another person (someone who is close to them as opposed to someone who is just an acquaintance, coworker etcetera)

"jan 19"

I know two Cap guys with this bday and they both are wonderful men.

1. I dated years ago and he and I are still very cool til today. Very easy to talk to kind of men.

2. This one is my son's uncle his dads brother. Again down to earth and very easy to talk to. Workaholics both
of them. I am a Pisces so that gives it that makes it extra easy I am sure. But over all good guys..

"Striking, how was your relationship with him and why did it end?"

It was a nice relationship, mind you this was 18 years ago. I was in my early 20's and he was in his mid 20's. We didnt
have a serious relationship at that time. but it was peaceful, and mature what we did have. He always made time for me and vise versa. I never hounded him bout what he did and vise versa. We stop seeing each other because I felt he was not being honest with me about a situation, when he didnt really have to lie. We did not speak for over a year after that he went off and got married which that only lasted a short while. I never got those feelings for him back that I had he asked to be back with me so many times. But I wasnt into it anymore. He still tells me that he loves me he has been married twice and divorced. I can call him up right now and he will answer and always there if I need him. He feels like had I not broken it off with him back then we would have gotten married and he wouldnt have had two failed marriages..lol..Hope this helps..lol

Thanks guys. 🙂 was just asking bc my ex was this cusp and i never understood him well. It was fun to say. I'm a Gem/Cancer Cusp so we went well together, but he just decided to run off. :/ Time will tell if he comes back or not. 🙂

interesting im a cap/aqua jan 19 is my bday

i dont know the lying thing one thing i dont like and avoid doing

very slow starters we like assertiveness but dont rush it like a sprint relay

and we rather be chased though we pursue in a calculated way and then step back and observe you. if our eyes set on you its done. it could be yrs from now we date other people but as long as your still listed in our mind we will get back to you and try again.

once we have feelings for you we cant stop something extreme has to happen or someone steps in the picture that make us feel a stronger connection

Posted by arianna
There is a softer side to him though, he is very caring and giving when he wants to be, remembers everything you tell him about yourself, just out of nowhere will say the most romantic thing that is so touching and unusual, very punctual and never cancels dates -- this is if he is really into someone?

lol who is talking about manipulation!!! an aries!!cappys dont manipulate but the way. we are strait forward. you are trying to be a cappy expert by listening who is teaching "you" and observation. understand Fresku69"al"

Posted by oxlostxo
🙂 thanks arianna ...

It's like the last 2 times I saw him he was better than ever, he was finally being himself, finally! and it was great we were talking about anything, and the last time I saw him we spent the whole time giggling, we had such a good time, and then he went all quite and no contact after that. I don't see why ... doesn't make sense ..

I think cap/aqua is such a complicated combintation ... *sighs*

he is still a cappy by the way, but aquas are intelligent as well. 4/10?

Posted by arianna
jan 19

guilty as charged. im 19th jan cap, and i even feel that I deserve to be chased before even considering a guy....its true. Manipulative? Only when we don't care about the other person...
we worship ourselves...and we worship our loved ones even more.

I've got a birthday twin...who is so self-absorbed it gets to me...but the only difference is women hide it well...
We hate rejection so will never think of making the first move...
uhmmm....yeap.

Posted by arianna
Chance11, what about if he has alot of feelings for the girl and misses her alot, won't he swallow his pride?

If he misses her, but can go on without her...he wont say a word.
But the type of connection that gets capaqua cuspers to be proactive and take a chance is the connection we just cannot ignore. It has to be impossible for us to ignore it....then we know it is for real.

Pride? He'll swoop his pride aside if he knows its getting to the one person he cares about.