Cap gave me a gift

Sigh...yesterday was such a great day. I talk to my guy friend/cap crush, on a daily basis and we usually meet up every 9 or 10 days. (I live an hour from him but commute every day for school to the city he lives) If you've read any of my prior posts, they are about this man. Anyway, out of the blue he messages me that he has something for me, and if I have any time, to let him know so we could meet up. I tell him I'm free after school and he's like, Awesome! Let me take you out for lunch! So we met up and he gave me a beautiful handcrafted wooden box with intricate details etched in it. There was also a book wrapped up inside, but he grabbed it and said he needed to fix something with it, and he'd give it to me next week.

We sat and talked about everything, like usual and he was taking pictures of random things (he's a photographer and cinematographer) to add to his "memory bank", and he incorporated a couple of pictures with me in them too. At one point we were talking about "my criteria" for dating, and he was asking me what it took to be someone I would actually see. (I haven't dated since I got out of a relationship, over 18 months ago.) But he gets so hyper when we talk, that the conversation veered off to another topic. We ended up walking back to my car and visiting for a while before he had to leave to pick up his kids. We took a couple of pictures together, and I'm still on cloud 9.

I know Caps are hard eggs to crack, but am I wrong in thinking he might actually have a thing for me the way I do for him?

No, I'm pretty sure he bought it. In any case it was a meaningful gift that he gave me, just because.

If this were any other sign, I would know he was into me, but this Cap... well we know how confusing and differently they think.

He likes you.

Posted by Smil3


He takes you out to lunch, gives you a thoughtful gift, takes pictures of you and pics of you together.

It's obvious he likes you.



"There was also a book wrapped up inside, but he grabbed it and said he needed to fix something with it, and he'd give it to me next week."



So isn't that another date/meeting?



"At one point we were talking about "my criteria" for dating, and he was asking me what it took to be someone I would actually see. But he gets so hyper when we talk, that the conversation veered off to another topic."



lol Gemini moon? Too adorable.

It's my first instinct to think he's "feeling me" the way I feel him. I was just worried that I was reading too much into something because of wishful thinking.

Oh jeez this is the most off-balanced I've been about anyone. I feel like a schoolgirl. haha

Posted by NostalgicCappyy
He likes you.

I'm meeting his kids either next week or the week after. I'm excited and nervous.. I do well with kids because I've raised my own, but it's just nerve wracking. Should I just let things happen, from this point? I don't want to do anything to spook him.. He really means a lot.

Posted by TaurusMom41

Posted by NostalgicCappyy
He likes you.

I'm meeting his kids either next week or the week after. I'm excited and nervous.. I do well with kids because I've raised my own, but it's just nerve wracking. Should I just let things happen, from this point? I don't want to do anything to spook him.. He really means a lot.


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That is adorable, as well as a huge sign. We are very private people, and will not bring someone around our family or friends unless we can potentially see a future with them. I'm like that even with my social media, and adding people. The fact that he's bringing you around his kids, says a lot more than you realize. Also, spending his money on you.



Let things happen, but be consistent.

I'm excited for you guys, sounds like a start to a happy relationship.

Our dynamic has totally shifted and I'm seeing it. It's a good thing though. He's on my facebook and I posted about how my energy has been so high and positive, but then it dropped when I opened my door. (my Aries ex showed up demanding information about my cap), and this morning he (cap) responded to my post in a fierce and protective way. I feel very cared for.