Cancer ditched by Capricorn

Started talking to cap male a week ago. Talked everyday since then. He would always compliment me and even sent me a video of how great of an uncle he is to his niece and mentioned that if we got to that point my daughter would love him! I really thought
  • Started talking to cap male a week ago. Talked everyday since then. He would always compliment me and even sent me a video of how great of an uncle he is to his niece and mentioned that if we got to that point my daughter would love him! I really thought he was interested in me, like there wasn’t a doubt that he wasn’t. Last night we were texting and because it took me 3 minutes to respond he texted me AGAIN rewording the question he had asked. He told me he wanted to take me to one to one of the brunch spots in the city. We made these plans Tuesday. Sooo anyway after texting him that last night around 11 pm asking what Time he would like to do brunch I’ve received no response. He has been online and I know he’s read my text. I don’t get why he did this. I guess made me think he was so interested and then ditch me last minute. I’m a cancer by the way. Im debating whether or not to just delete this guy because I’m probably wasting my time. But I don’t know how cap guys are. I just figure any guy regardless of the sign if they are interested hey wouldn’t ditch the plans without even communicating. Then again I do understand that no response is also a response. I don’t know him well enough, but feeling as if maybe I should delete him from social media. Can’t imagine this being another test.
  • UnicornSag
    🌞, ♀️, ☿ ♐🌙♈♂️♏🌄♓-🦄inside - ENTJ/ENTP
    female
    Then again I do understand that no response is also a response.
    This has always been my thought as well and I learned it's right to go with it also thanks to a Cap. I can't tell you why they do this but they just do. Has been written in many threads here, by many different people, seems like all have experienced this at some point. Why they do it only they know. My only advice is to not tolerate such behavior, call him on it, don't let it slide like nothing happened if he does come around.
  • confuzzledcap
    Yes, I loved Caprisun drinks as a kid. Moon: Gemini Venus: Pisces Rising: Aqu
    Caps can be flaky sometimes, and some of us will test you and play games to see how you react. I think it is best that you call him out on it. However, don't be clingy as I know some caps who immediately runs away when they sense clinginess. I don't know why some of us play games like this, I personally don't partake in these games as I try to be more straightforward.
  • Posted by confuzzledcap
    Caps can be flaky sometimes, and some of us will test you and play games to see how you react. I think it is best that you call him out on it. However, don't be clingy as I know some caps who immediately runs away when they sense clinginess. I don't know why some of us play games like this, I personally don't partake in these games as I try to be more straightforward.


    How exactly should I call him out on it? I should send another text despite that he didn’t respond to the last text.
  • confuzzledcap
    Yes, I loved Caprisun drinks as a kid. Moon: Gemini Venus: Pisces Rising: Aqu
    Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24
    Posted by confuzzledcap
    Caps can be flaky sometimes, and some of us will test you and play games to see how you react. I think it is best that you call him out on it. However, don't be clingy as I know some caps who immediately runs away when they sense clinginess. I don't know why some of us play games like this, I personally don't partake in these games as I try to be more straightforward.


    How exactly should I call him out on it? I should send another text despite that he didn’t respond to the last text.
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    Oh if you already sent a text, best to just leave it. To show him that you're busy and that you won't wait for him.
  • Posted by confuzzledcap
    Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24
    Posted by confuzzledcap
    Caps can be flaky sometimes, and some of us will test you and play games to see how you react. I think it is best that you call him out on it. However, don't be clingy as I know some caps who immediately runs away when they sense clinginess. I don't know why some of us play games like this, I personally don't partake in these games as I try to be more straightforward.


    How exactly should I call him out on it? I should send another text despite that he didn’t respond to the last text.


    Oh if you already sent a text, best to just leave it. To show him that you're busy and that you won't wait for him.
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    Yeah, I sent a text last night around 11:50 asking what time he wanted to meet for brunch today. And he never responded. When he’s the one who wanted to take my to best brunch spot in the city. I mean why not be honestly. If you’re not interested, why act like you are and communicate with me everyday and then when the time comes to follow through with plans you basically ditch them. That to me is what doesn’t make sense, but maybe it’s just not for me to make sense if it.
  • confuzzledcap
    Yes, I loved Caprisun drinks as a kid. Moon: Gemini Venus: Pisces Rising: Aqu
    Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24
    Posted by confuzzledcap
    Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24
    Posted by confuzzledcap
    Caps can be flaky sometimes, and some of us will test you and play games to see how you react. I think it is best that you call him out on it. However, don't be clingy as I know some caps who immediately runs away when they sense clinginess. I don't know why some of us play games like this, I personally don't partake in these games as I try to be more straightforward.


    How exactly should I call him out on it? I should send another text despite that he didn’t respond to the last text.


    Oh if you already sent a text, best to just leave it. To show him that you're busy and that you won't wait for him.


    Yeah, I sent a text last night around 11:50 asking what time he wanted to meet for brunch today. And he never responded. When he’s the one who wanted to take my to best brunch spot in the city. I mean why not be honestly. If you’re not interested, why act like you are and communicate with me everyday and then when the time comes to follow through with plans you basically ditch them. That to me is what doesn’t make sense, but maybe it’s just not for me to make sense if it.
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    Some people may want to lead others on to feel in control or they might send mixed signals without knowing? either way sounds like you should find another guy, got no time for people who play games and waste your time you feel?
  • LadyNeptune
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    So you haven't met in person yet? I wouldn't rule out catfish. Cause how easy is it to steal someones video and send it as bait. Js.
  • LadyNeptune
    🌵🍋🌿
    Its only a week in. I know you thought there was a connection there, and there may be one. But still, don't let your emotions get involved yet. Protect yourself. Pace yourself.

    Words and promises and planning are just noise. It costs him nothing to say butter. Wait and see if there is follow through.
  • Posted by sticky
    Did you meet in person?
    I haven’t... we were supposed to meet today
  • You made actual plans and he didn't follow through. Keep moving.

    When someone shows you who they are, believe them. He showing already, hes not reliable.

    Id only call him on if he reaches out, if not go on with your life.
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