Cap Girls/Ladies/Woman...

At what point do you start referring to yourself as a lady or woman? Or when do you refer to yourself as a girl? Is this a mood thing? Changeable?

Which do you identify with more??


In general when i think of us cap ladies... I feel as though we are in fact more ladies than anything else.

As for myself... I really cant pick one. 40% woman, 40% lady, 20% girl... When i think of it. I really dont like referring to myself as a girl.

I think it depends on the situation, who you're with and how you feel at the time.

I'm also in between referring to males - men or guys. Interchangeable.

I never feel comfortable saying woman. Ever. Lady is what I consider myself as well. I'm more comfortable with girl than woman.

ITS LIKE BILLY SAYS IF SHE IS A CAP (SHE'S ALWAYS A WOMAN TO ME).

Freak in the sheets, and lady on the streets...LOL 🙂

I think woman sounds more independent and powerful... just to expand on this a little, my daughter refers to me as "Lady" or "Woman", if she's being smug and knows I'm right she'll say "Alright Lady!" if she's taking a stance against me she'll say "WOMAN! Blah, blah, blah..." (as I've said before, she's a Cap too - she considers herself a woman as in "I'm a grown woman and can do what I want!"). I will in turn refer to her as "Girl!" She just smirks LOL But, when talking about other women, it would depend on how they carry themselves and present themselves - a prim and proper type would be a "Lady", someone who carries themselves with confidence and certainty would be a "Woman", younger or immature a "Girl", and one with an attitude a "FUCKING BITCH!" 🙂

^^^ lol *applauds* your daughter sounds great

to elaborate more on my op... i do refer to myself as a girl all the time, but i feel like i should identify myself more as a woman, and so i dont like that i still consider myself i girl.

with other women it's different... if another lady refers to herself as a girl... i see a chick comfortable enough in her own womanhood and also sassy enough in her feminine wiles to refer to herself as a girl.

whereas when *I* refer to myself as a girl... i feel like i'm not being as mature as i should.

... i hope this makes sense. 😛 ...self deprecating sag cusp.

I understand you perfectly. Im not comfortable with the title woman because of where I feel in terms of maturity.....and maybe more than anything, its in terms of emotional maturity.

A guy will display emotions before I will, and its uncomfortable territory in general that I dont like to tap into. When I think of the word "woman" in my mind its someone thats comfortable with displaying this part of themselves, and many women are comfortable, and it radiates frim within. Its a different power.

How can I be a woman with this part of myself locked? Arent women known for being emotional creatures? Im emotional.....in an angry way.

On the flip side, Im a little edgy, but also dainty and feminine. Thats why I think lady fits me personally.

I was just thinking of that the other day. Heck yeah im a big kid inside. If im ever in the mood to play, I usually will get out and play the most.

We all LOVE to laugh too. Love it...if its funny of course lol.

On a side note: I've ALWAYS used Ms. as opposed to Miss. which I think corresponds more with the term Woman vs. Lady or Girl.

I don't think I've ever been a (little) girl...

😭 *stomps around throwing a tantrum*

This is a little off subject, but my Sag friend plays that cutesy-wutesy little girl card sometimes. It's annoying as hell!!!!

TO LIONESS
CAPWOMAN
LILDOL
THEY ALL FIT INTO THIS THREAD

SHE CAN KILL WITH A SMILE, SHE CAN WOUND WITH HER EYES
SHE CAN RUIN YOUR FAITH WITH HER CASUAL LIES
SHE ONLY REVEALS WHAT SHE WANTS YOU TO SEE
SHE HIDES LIKE A CHILD BUT SHES ALWAYS A WOMAN TO ME
SHE CAN LEAD YOU TO LOVE, SHE CAN TAKE YOU OR LEAVE YOU
SHE STEALS LIKE A THIEF, BUT SHES ALWAYS A WOMAN TO ME
SHE'LL PROMISE YOU MORE THAN THE GARDEN OF EDEN
SHE'LL CARELESLY CUT YOU AND LAUGH WHILE YOUR BLEEDING
SHE'LL BRING OUT THE BEST AND THE WORST YOU CAN BE
BLAME IT ALL ON YOURSELF, CAUSE SHE'S ALWAYS A WOMAN TO ME.

LOV TATE

*blows Tate a kiss*

OH YAH YOU FIT RIGHT IN THERE I MUST BE KINKY TO LOV YOU.

yes yes ... my birthdate twin. i think we are probably much more womanly than we realize or think. at least that's what i secretly hope to myself lol

i definitely let my inner child out too. being goofy and innocent playfulness feels so awesome sometimes.

Posted by truecap
This is a little off subject, but my Sag friend plays that cutesy-wutesy little girl card sometimes. It's annoying as hell!!!!

... HATE this. I don't even know exactly what she's like, but I'm still cringing.

I've been a "YOUNG woman" since I was 11 or 12 and "GROWN woman" since I was 17, in college, and on my own". "Grown" but young at heart!

The Capricorn Woman:

"She can be ultra-feminine, flirtatious and charming enough to make a man feel like a giant grizzly bear who can protect her from the cold, cruel world."


"There's a deep richness in her love that's more lasting than the brittle, scorching, demanding love of other women."