@FieryAries9108
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Does this Capricorn woman like me?
(continued form last post).
Also does her Capricorn sun and Cancer moon cause her to be more at odds with her own feelings?
Also how do we get along synastry wise? what are some compatible aspects of our chart?
All I can say is don't pay much attention to the hug. I remember when I first met this Libra guy I hugged him, and he talked about that for a while, but it was nothing more than breaking the ice and releasing some of my nervous energy, plus hugs is a thing we do where I'm from.
Also, I think it can be common for some of us to focus on the people we talk to, even in a group. It's easy to tune others out and focus on the person I'm talking to, so that can just be a Cap thing.
It's hard to say what her signals are. I know usually, for me, if I really like someone I'm a nervous wreck around them, and I'm also ice cold. There's no warmth to me and it's just how I naturally react to the people I'm head over heels for.
Anyway, it sounds like your feelings are kind of based on what you think she feels about you. If that's the case, maybe you should keep what you feel close until you REALLY like her and don't care about how she feels, if that ever happens. Right now, it's hard to say whats going on cause some of us can naturally be a bit flirtatious depending on the mood.
She likes you. Just don't blow it by getting into her pants too soon or too late.
He's an Aries. He'll accept the challenge.
Posted by lnana04
All I can say is don't pay much attention to the hug. I remember when I first met this Libra guy I hugged him, and he talked about that for a while, but it was nothing more than breaking the ice and releasing some of my nervous energy, plus hugs is a thing we do where I'm from.Also, I think it can be common for some of us to focus on the people we talk to, even in a group. It's easy to tune others out and focus on the person I'm talking to, so that can just be a Cap thing.
It's hard to say what her signals are. I know usually, for me, if I really like someone I'm a nervous wreck around them, and I'm also ice cold. There's no warmth to me and it's just how I naturally react to the people I'm head over heels for.
Anyway, it sounds like your feelings are kind of based on what you think she feels about you. If that's the case, maybe you should keep what you feel close until you REALLY like her and don't care about how she feels, if that ever happens. Right now, it's hard to say whats going on cause some of us can naturally be a bit flirtatious depending on the mood.
But I can tell she does treat me a lot different th idien anyone else, she just seems to care about what I say and do a lot where I notice she doesn't do that with other people.
And as I said she tries to act really nice and sweet when she talks to me/ flirts and I can tell that she really thinks over everything she says to me, also she really seems to study my face to see if she can figure out what I'm saying and she always tried to adjust her emotions to mine.And what do you mean? I do like her a lot that's why I care about how she feels, I am an aries and I usualy ignore people. I dislike.
Also she sometimes acts really cold, especially if I am close.
Posted by NotaNewbie
She likes you. Just don't blow it by getting into her pants too soon or too late.
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Why do you think she likes me and my pisces mercury makes me a little more rational about things.
Posted by thxbutnothx
her mars is in aries and venus in fire also. you may be her type so i say be persistent for a little longer and your confusion may subside
By persistent do you mean just tell her how I feel? Or should I continue to react carefully to how she feels? Sorry I have very littlr experience with Capricorn.
Well she actually pays attention to you. And adjusts her moods to yours. She's trying to please you. She gets cold when you are going to fast and she is still unsure about you. She's protecting her heart.
Posted by NotaNewbie
Well she actually pays attention to you. And adjusts her moods to yours. She's trying to please you. She gets cold when you are going to fast and she is still unsure about you. She's protecting her heart.
Uhh so what should I do my impulse is to just tell her how I feel and come on strong, what do you suggest my next move to be? I want this to work out since we are in a work environment, what can I do to please her/ feel more sure/confident about me?
Posted by thxbutnothx
now you are confusing me - your "pisces mercury" makes you more rational ir irrational? lol 😛mars position in a woman's chart tells what her finds attractive in a man so your ariesness is attractive to her. you have mars in pisces so that may tick her off when it's activated tho lol
I meant to say that my Mercury in pisces makes me more sensitive to women's feelings which is a good thing so I don't steam roll. Over them,
So you suggest staying true to my arian nature?
ask her to lunch and chat and then eventually take her out to do things and just inch into her life. Of course she might just want you to grab her and do things to her. 🙂. Capricorns do go either way. It;s you though, not her.
Posted by thxbutnothx
her mars is in aries and venus in fire also. you may be her type so i say be persistent for a little longer and your confusion may subsideBy persistent do you mean just tell her how I feel? Or should I continue to react carefully to how she feels? Sorry I have very littlr experience with Capricorn.
take your time and give her time. don't push too hard but be confident around her and show her it's you that she wants lol. you don't need to tell her too much but you need to show your persistence and consistency.
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Okay but what does this persistence and consistency exactly entail action wise? Sorry if I am being blockheaded, as an Aries I need to show how I feel through action in away or I feel restless, she seems so hard on her self and very self reliant, I wad thinking of saying something like you can rely on me a little If you ever need the help, but that's only if you need it because it seems like you can handle things with ease.
Posted by NotaNewbie
ask her to lunch and chat and then eventually take her out to do things and just inch into her life. Of course she might just want you to grab her and do things to her. 🙂. Capricorns do go either way. It;s you though, not her.
Umm okay but what do you mean by either way? Temprement wise? And what do you mean it's me? Is it me causing the confusion? Also I forgot to mention she is young in her mid twenties.
Posted by thxbutnothx
her mars is in aries and venus in fire also. you may be her type so i say be persistent for a little longer and your confusion may subsideBy persistent do you mean just tell her how I feel? Or should I continue to react carefully to how she feels? Sorry I have very littlr experience with Capricorn.
take your time and give her time. don't push too hard but be confident around her and show her it's you that she wants lol. you don't need to tell her too much but you need to show your persistence and consistency.
Okay but what does this persistence and consistency exactly entail action wise? Sorry if I am being blockheaded, as an Aries I need to show how I feel through action in away or I feel restless, she seems so hard on her self and very self reliant, I wad thinking of saying something like you can rely on me a little If you ever need the help, but that's only if you need it because it seems like you can handle things with ease.
sounds sweet to me but i have pisces mars lol. regardless, you should be yourself just don't rush. you'd want her to like the real you anyway
you ask many questions kinda cute 🙂. i wish you the best of luck!
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Alright thank you for your help!
Does anyone have any kore advice for me? Please =)
If she knows for sure you like her, she'll warm up and probably take charge of making plans with you. It might take a while, be patient. That's how I am, but I have to be confident first so I know I won't be rejected. Don't push it or you might scare her off. But don't be too slack either. You'll know when the time is right. Listen to your gut instinct.
As for how to let her know for sure, well....idk.
I like the lunch date idea.
Posted by truecap
If she knows for sure you like her, she'll warm up and probably take charge of making plans with you. It might take a while, be patient. That's how I am, but I have to be confident first so I know I won't be rejected. Don't push it or you might scare her off. But don't be too slack either. You'll know when the time is right. Listen to your gut instinct.As for how to let her know for sure, well....idk.
I like the lunch date idea.
Alright thanks for the good advice.
Posted by lnana04
All I can say is don't pay much attention to the hug. I remember when I first met this Libra guy I hugged him, and he talked about that for a while, but it was nothing more than breaking the ice and releasing some of my nervous energy, plus hugs is a thing we do where I'm from.Also, I think it can be common for some of us to focus on the people we talk to, even in a group. It's easy to tune others out and focus on the person I'm talking to, so that can just be a Cap thing.
It's hard to say what her signals are. I know usually, for me, if I really like someone I'm a nervous wreck around them, and I'm also ice cold. There's no warmth to me and it's just how I naturally react to the people I'm head over heels for.
Anyway, it sounds like your feelings are kind of based on what you think she feels about you. If that's the case, maybe you should keep what you feel close until you REALLY like her and don't care about how she feels, if that ever happens. Right now, it's hard to say whats going on cause some of us can naturally be a bit flirtatious depending on the mood.
But I can tell she does treat me a lot different then with anyone else, she just seems to care about what I say and do a lot where I notice she doesn't do that with other people.
And as I said she tries to act really nice and sweet when she talks to me/ flirts and I can tell that she really thinks over everything she says to me, also she really seems to study my face to see if she can figure out what I'm saying and she always tried to adjust her emotions to mine.
And what do you mean? I do like her a lot that's why I care about how she feels, I am an aries and I usualy ignore people. I dislike.
Also she sometimes acts really cold, especially if I am close.
Posted by thxbutnothx
she is nervous when you are close? maybe she stopped breathing when you were too close so she had to not acknowledge your existence in order to not lose it lol?good news lol
Yea at first she went out of her way to flirt with me but now she seems to act really cold around me, she has ignored me when I was talking with others, but if she is talking with others she always tries to get my attention, and the more I look away the more she looks at me/ tries to get my attention.
So is it really true that Capricorn act more serious around you because they are scared to make mistakes/ are realizing that their feelings are getting deeper for you.
And yea they closer i get the more tense she gets, it seems like she is really trying to control herself, the other day I was distracted and she said my name quite loudly to get my attention, but now for the last couple days she has gotten more serious
I am thinking about making more of a move tomorrow, what should I do, I am serious about pursuing her, It's just very hard for someone like me with my Arian nature to be so patient......
and she always seems to be studying me from a distance I forgot to mention that one time, I was feeling upset about something and I was sitting down lost in though, and she almost literally sat on the table in front of me to get my attention.
Alright thank you so you think that I will be okay if i go for it?
Alright thank you and I would never blame you, you aren't responsible for my actions, and you have given me such good advice.
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First off here is my chart:
Sun Aries 19??14'29 in house 10 direct
Moon Aries 0??55'34 in house 10 direct
Mercury Pisces 29??24'51 in house 10 direct
Venus Taurus 9??16'11 in house 11 direct
Mars Pisces 25??46'52 in house 10 direct
Jupiter Scorpio 12??19'52 in house 5 retrograde
Saturn Pisces 8??12'02 in house 9 direct
Uranus Capricorn 26??08'57 end of house 6 direct
Neptune Capricorn 23??16'43 in house 6 direct
Pluto Scorpio 27??39'37 in house 5 retrograde
True Node Scorpio 24??11'47 in house 5 retrograde
Ascendant Cancer 26??37'09
and here is her chart:
Sun Capricorn 23??59'27 in house 10 direct
Moon Cancer 19??39'50 in house 3 direct
Mercury Capricorn 25??15'19 in house 10 direct
Venus Sagittarius 7??08'24 in house 7 direct
Mars Aries 4??19'49 in house 12 direct
Jupiter Pisces 19??51'45 in house 11 direct
Saturn Sagittarius 16??51'09 in house 8 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 24??22'56 in house 8 direct
Neptune Capricorn 6??11'53 in house 9 direct
Pluto Scorpio 9??44'22 end of house 6 direct
True Node Aries 15??18'58 in house 12 retrograde
Ascendant Taurus 12??04'46
She acts like she likes me but I have never been in a serious relationship with a Capricorn before, I only met her just recently in late January/early February, Anyway she is kinda of hot and cold with me, but she consistently goes out of her way to get my attention, She one time needed help with something, and I went out of my way to help her, and she really seemed to appreciate it, she continually brings up how I helped her and every time she does she gives me this very sweet smile, I remember after I helped her she randomly hugged me it was so unexpected... Also she goes out of her way to constantly to get my attention, and anytime I talk when we are in a group of people she goes out of her way to focus on me, she just singles me out and she always praises me. But anytime I seem to try to express my feelings it's liked she tries really hard to control herself around me, but if I'm not paying attention to her she instantly notices... I have no idea what to do/ how to flirt with capricorn women, should I just straight up tell her how I feel? I heard that capricorn need to confirm someone likes them to move any further, also I heard that they like to take things slowly, How should I show that I like her? Should I just be up front about how I feel or would that scare her away? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Also does her Capricorn sun a