Cap Women Abusive to their S/O

Okay so the thread was just removed by the op and I was just leaving my comment.

As a cap woman, I do have a temper and I can be a lot to handle sometimes.

during my early twenties, I have initiated physical altercations with a couple of my exes. Both libras. Loved them to pieces. But they just made me so angry, calling me out of my name, emotionally abusing me etc. I felt like I was provoked.

Anyways, the first libra just backed off. The second one hit me back and we broke up. I don't recall smiling or laughing during this time though, quite the opposite. I actually cried and felt a little bad over this, especially the second incident.

I remember listening to an interview with Eminem's (libra) wife kim (cap) and she talked about how volatile their relationship was and how she wanted to kill herself over his music. But they're still together!

I've been in two more relationships since then and I have calmed down quite a bit.

I'm curious to know if this is a pattern with other cap women in their youth? Do y'all have bad tempers? Volatile relationships?

Lolz. No one pushes me around, don't care if they're man or woman. I don't know about you. But I'd look check with other Cap women who are close friends.

Not in general... my Pisces ex husband accused me of being abusive when he got mad and would lock me in a closet and I fought back. Same ex who woke me in the middle of the night to ask me if I thought he could kill me in my sleep. Same ex who told my children he was going to burn the house down with everyone in it. Same ex who called me horrid names because I wouldn't cancel my daughter's bday party as he decided not to go. Same ex who would drive me to tears and tell my kids I was crazy. The list goes on... but he never hit me - thus, I was the abusive one because I would physically be hitting and kicking trying to stop him from locking me in the closet...

Posted by Lucciferi
It was a joke thread.

Really? Or are you just doing a take back lol

Seriously?

Posted by lildol
Not in general... my Pisces ex husband accused me of being abusive when he got mad and would lock me in a closet and I fought back. Same ex who woke me in the middle of the night to ask me if I thought he could kill me in my sleep. Same ex who told my children he was going to burn the house down with everyone in it. Same ex who called me horrid names because I wouldn't cancel my daughter's bday party as he decided not to go. Same ex who would drive me to tears and tell my kids I was crazy. The list goes on... but he never hit me - thus, I was the abusive one because I would physically be hitting and kicking trying to stop him from locking me in the closet...

Wow. That's what I'm saying. Its like we can take but do much emotional abuse. Maybe your a better woman than me, I lashed out. The last incident was about five years ago. I don't anticipate this happening again.When i get into it with my bf now, I just remove my self from the same room or just let it go. Of course, after I get my point across.

Lol. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!!! Blegh

Posted by caliber
Great. Everyone thinks I'm a man beater.

-_-; no dinner foh yew

Maybe that's why you got kicked out of the kitchen 😉

Creative Cap, I have a temper as well and I can definitely get physical if I feel my other tactics aren't working. You're not alone _—_—_??

Posted by PrettyQueenBee

Creative Cap, I have a temper as well and I can definitely get physical if I feel my other tactics aren't working. You're not alone _—_—_—

Thanks for having the courage to answer honestly. So many regular contributors hide behind a mask. I think it is more interesting for people to be candid even when it puts them in a bad light.

Posted by Gobshite

Posted by PrettyQueenBee

Creative Cap, I have a temper as well and I can definitely get physical if I feel my other tactics aren't working. You're not alone _—_—_—

And that's something to be proud of?!

*smh*

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I don't understand this. She is just opening up about her personal life. Why hide in shame? Why are people so uncomfortable talking about domestic violence or abusive relationships?

Maybe.

I am very patient and calm most of the time but i am still aware that im like a dormant volcano.Therefore, i avoid situations that i feel may get out of hand.i make my partners aware of what i like and dont and personally i dont like to argue I make that clear screaming and shouting cause distance you can feel it inside no matter how close you are to someone. if something is wrong talk to me don't start an argument dont shout at me as i will just shut up and let you caring on . i pretty much shut down emotionally and get cold at times i would get up and leave.

I violence is never the answer know Ur limits ( my view) never allow anyone to get you to that place.

I thought it was a serious thread.

A few people didn't think it was serious. I gave my two cents. But to justify domestic violence, I don't know.

Posted by CreativeCap

Posted by PrettyQueenBee

Creative Cap, I have a temper as well and I can definitely get physical if I feel my other tactics aren't working. You're not alone _—_—_—

Thanks for having the courage to answer honestly. So many regular contributors hide behind a mask. I think it is more interesting for people to be candid even when it puts them in a bad light.

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I already have on one mask (my makeup) *sarcasm* lmfao so there's no need to wear multiple masks. I am who I am. I embrace all of me wholeheartedly. I'm nowhere near as calm, patient, and tolerant as most Capricorns are. I have a tendency to have a quick temper .. And I genuinely believe it's due to all of that Fire blazing in my chart. I try to distance myself from situations where I know I will flip. Because I don't talk shxt or sit there and threaten people. I'll just get physical.

And I don't fight fair AT ALL. So since I KNOW this, I absolutely try my best not to get involve in situations that will tempt me to "go there." Luckily, I've never been to jail. _—_??

And just because someone admits a fault or flaw, does not mean they are "proud" about it. I put the _—_— faces at the end because unlike other people, not only can I openly admit my fault or flaws, I can also laugh at myself.

Now if I would have said "I love beating people's asses and getting violent" THEN you could accuse me of being proud of it. But simply admitting and telling Creative Cap she's not the only one does not equate to being "proud." No one should be "proud," of getting violent but hey, shxt happens. You get over it, laugh at it and move on.

People on dxpnet love to put words in other's mouth. Lol

Oh and to answer your question Creative Cap, yes ! As a young Cappy, I do have a bad temper. With my Sagittarius rising AND moon, it makes it 40X worse than the average. But I can see a dramatic change. It's definitely not as bad as it used to be when I was a teenager. I'm 25 now.. I don't want to and don't have the time to resort to violence. But if I absolutely need to, I will. Lol

PrettyQueenBee, you're awesome! Your a fresh of breath air to the cap board. All of the ladies have their own personality, but I really like your take no prisoners approach. Good stuff.

You kinda inspire me. I mean that too. Keep being yourself!

Posted by CreativeCap
PrettyQueenBee, you're awesome! Your a fresh of breath air to the cap board. All of the ladies have their own personality, but I really like your take no prisoners approach. Good stuff.

You kinda inspire me. I mean that too. Keep being yourself!

Totally agree 🙂

I'm very passive aggressive. Angrier I'm, quieter I get. One can't extract one word out of me.

Posted by Sn1p3r187
A few people didn't think it was serious. I gave my two cents. But to justify domestic violence, I don't know.

Came off as serious. I don't think she was justifying, just being forthright. I wouldn't know anything about DV though...

Let me be clear, I wasn't speaking on physical altercations with a SO. I was just speaking on bad tempers and physical violence in general.

Posted by CreativeCap
PrettyQueenBee, you're awesome! Your a fresh of breath air to the cap board. All of the ladies have their own personality, but I really like your take no prisoners approach. Good stuff.

You kinda inspire me. I mean that too. Keep being yourself!

^___^ Thanks girly

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Posted by CreativeCap
PrettyQueenBee, you're awesome! Your a fresh of breath air to the cap board. All of the ladies have their own personality, but I really like your take no prisoners approach. Good stuff.

You kinda inspire me. I mean that too. Keep being yourself!

Totally agree 🙂

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:-)