cappi ladies!

first of all i just wanna say that i love all the signs but there is just something about capricorn women i cannot seem to fathom.Ok i am a leo for those that dont know me here lol anyway.getting to the point.I always seem to attract capricorn friends.Could you believe i have 5 good capricorn gal pals lovely right!The only thing is that sometimes I feel that capricorn women have alot of insecurties.Ok for example this one capricorn friend i have her name is kim.She means well but i know deep down she is absolutely jealous of me and even my other friends can sense it.Like if we go out to a party and most of the time im not gonna lie i always seem to outshine her she acts really weird toward me.And now its gotten to the point to where home girl dont even check for me no more.This is a pattern with most of my cappi gal pals its like they wanna be the center of attention but i guess they feel i steal there shine but i dont mean to.I mean dam i cant help if im witty funny social i mean dam.I just wanna know what some of you capricorn women feel about this cause this is crazy.And the thing is i love cappi girls i think yoy guys are really fun to be around but whats up with the jealousy and insecurity issues.Its like why cant you have a friend thats on your same level.i have to say im still holding on to one capricorn friend and we been cool since we were like eight.but the rest are still a little fake to me but its all good

I never been envious of females or anybody else (I only get jealous with my lover if given a reason). I always attract attention although I don't like it most of the time & when I'm with friends I always try to share the spotlight with them. I don't understand how someone can be jealous (envious) of another when in a friendship but I know it happens. Usually if I hear of someone's success that inspires me to reach my full potential and I feel happy for them (unless they schemed their way to the top). Most people have insecurities, others are conceited or normal. In most cases, having insecurities does not make you an insecure person regardless of sign. Leos have insecurities too, e.g. Leos have a need to feel important to someone else besides themselves. This insecurity results in the Leo needing constant attention, flattery or acknowledgement. The insecurity is hidden by an outward display of arrogance & superiority. This site explains it better:

This is just a generalization on the negatives of a Capricorn-Leo relationship: Capricorns don't *need* attention like Leos do (unless they got some leo, aries or libra in their chart). Caps are turned off by attention-seekers and aren't the type to flatter others. They prefer hanging with Leos that recognize all women (of all signs) can potentially be Queens. They prefer humble, down-to-earth Leos & people. Caps & Leo are both strong personalities and both like to be in charge so this could potentially be the problem. I don't know you or your cap friends personally to tell you if those girls are jealous or not. Maybe they are jealous and insecure and being outshone makes them feel worst around you. They probably think you're competing with them & that turned them off. Or maybe they are hoping you'd share the spotlight with them. All I know is evolved Capricorns are not jealous& don't care if they are the center of attention or not. In general, females of all signs are competitive with each other and some are prone to jealousy. I think the best thing is to discuss this with your Capricorn friends & not assume its jealousy, it may be something else.

The website I mentioned is http://www.astrologyinsights.com/sott_archive_2000/leo.html

Cappywench gave good advice.

nah what im saying is that i need attention from anyone because i always have had confidence.neither am i insecure.i just know when im being hated on for no reason.as i leo i will ride or die for my friends are you crazy leos are loyal to the fullest.we are always there for our friends.i give mt friends money love and care and suppory and i think im a dam good friend.its just a pattern ive noticed in cappi women period.at the end of the day i know how i feel.and to be honest leo's could care less if we dont get attention whats makes us happy is for us to be happy within ourselves.i mean come on our planet is the sun.

sorry typo mistake!i meant to say is that i dont need attention form anyone because i always have confidence!

im not gonna kiss no ones behind screw that its there loss.but i did ask my friend kim what was up with all the distance between us.i see her at parties with other people enjoying herself i be laughing and enjoying myself too.im just gonna basically move on there the ones with the issues.but thanx for the feedback guys

Well for me...especially around Leos.. my mom is a Leo and so are 3 of my very close friends. It's not so much being insecure around you all it's just that (for me) I feel like it's just not that serious to fight for attention. I understand that Leos have to be the center of attention..if not it's almost like you are offended. For caps (for myself) I don't have to be the center of attention. I have one Leo girlfriend who asks if we want to go out and I never ask her what she's wearing I just get dressed then meet her at her home..but if i look better then she does when I get there she runs and changes clothes.. I chuckle inside because like I said it's just not that serious. I find this to be true with my mother as well. Like she's competing for who is prettier. She even sends me e-mails of pictures of herself that says "don't hate me cause I'm beautiful"... (in a loving fashion) but still...illll!!! Come on!

I've always had a particular problem with Leos just because the whole "stuck on yourself thing...and the whole "everyone wants to be like me" thing. It's just irritating and when us Caps get around that it may seem like we are jealous but it's not jealousy you detect it's like a feeling of someone running their fingers across a chalk board..just irritating.

I think the only area I'm a little insecure in is when I'm in love. Love scares me and its a gamble...and Caps hate to gamble..we like sure things. But love never is...a sure thing. However as far as looks or confidence.... no insecurity there. We are usually quiet and draw a different crowd then the fire signs... seems you all have to be in the spot light, but I've never been that way. The spot light makes me nervous.

I've detected that Leos seem secure with their looks but really I don't think that's so.
One little criticism and you all break down into a defensive battle... when you're sure about yourself you don't have to defend what you know to be true. Your core seems hard and structured and secure but from what I've seen your softies on the inside and just as insecure as any other sign. It's all in the presentation... how you're perceived.

"ore that they like to talk about themselves and their needs"


I know this to be very true... when I talk to my mom she doesn't mind talking if we are talking about her and her needs or her happiness...but when I start to tell her about something good that's going on with me she's ready to get off the phone. She doesn't even pay attention. Same with my Leo girlfriends. When we got a flat screen plasma they were all jealous and one when out and got a bigger so called better one to show me up.

Just seems like the constantly talking about yourself and thinking that others want what you have bothers us. It bothers me. I don't think you do it consciously because I've brought it up to my mom before and she get really defensive. I think it's funny myself because no one person should need so much attention. I'm not sure if it's confidence or a constant need to be assured you are wanted, attractive, and "queen B".

nah ma i dont do none of that and im am not sensitive to criticism.not never.i get attention where ever i go but come on all that distancing from me is ridiculous.all my life i have been fortunate and humble and i always have good intentions.Like i said i share my money my love and and loyalty and im not gonna waste my time around people who arent sure of themselves.it anit my fault.Most of my cappi friends lean on me im basically there backbone.As a matter of fact the only one person i can really talk to is my mother and she is a scorpio so i get much support from her.But when i need my cappi friends man i might as well be talking to a brick wall.Thats one thing about me im not concerned with what the next person has.I have friends who have way way more than i do but do i get jealous no.Im proud of them.I over extend myself to peeps but i dont get no love back.but its all good if thats one thing i can say about leo's is that we feel with our hearts which is a blessing.And when somethung dont sit well with me it bothers me.but hey life goes on.I think ill be devoting my time to those who care so with that said thanx for responding

Hmm, I'm a leo and have no problem with my cap friends. I typically ask them for a rational and logical opinion on things and have since learned not to discuss any problems with friends of any other sign. I think the cap friends, in the past, have been entertained by the risks I take that they don't...but that's essentially it. Great friendships. Can't complain.

ok good for you dear nice to hear.

I don't know.. like I say every one is different even if they have the same sign.. however, the Leos in my life always refer to themselves as "beautiful" "gorgeous" and so on and so on. Nothing wrong with being confident but there's a thin line between that and being narcissistic. You're only pretty if you act it and when my Leo girls talk about themselves all the time it just seems like they are trying to boost up their own confidence. I still love them though...I just limit the time I'm around them..even my own mother.

LOL, Capywife! I usually hear that from Taurus and Scorpio women about how sexy they are, or how they looked upon seeing some dude, or whatever. Blah blah blah. Who cares, right? 😉 Small doses.

yeah but ma you keep saying"about our confidence and attention and what we need.that is in a leo's nature.our ruling planet is the star it comes from within.leo's are gonna shine no matter what.And to be honest i think some maybe a little intimidated because of the fact that we carry around our own confidence.and what the heck is wrong with being confident and loving yourself dam is that too much to ask for.so what if we brag about ourselves some people cant take it get over it.so what!im a leo to my heart.Lions have pride and ego hey we all know that so what.thats how astrology describes us.cant change it.my problem is cappi and there insecurities.ever since i started getting into astrology thats always been an issue with you guys.never being satisfied not in relationships or anything.Another cappi gal pal all the time used to say to i dont feel confident does my boyfriend love me stupid ass questions and im like girl where is your self esteem.None at all.

I have a "cappi" best-friend. HI, ALEXIS!! She's a total materialistic hussy. Oh, my best friend..What im I gonna do w/ her? She will ONLY love rich older white dudes. Such a gold-digger! But she is SO loyal to me! She's FEIRY!! WHOO! She can she kick some ass when provoked? Yes, ma'am. *salutes* Whoo-hoo!! Go Alexis, Go Alexis, Go Alexis..Get Down, mama! We have pet name for each other! I can her 'Miss. Pookie Bags'

"they are much nicer when they exhibit a little humility now and then. An overconfident leo is an immature leo. They just end up alienating people when they are too arrogant, but they then don't realise and sulk because people get distant.

By the way I like leos a lot but I don't like them thinking they are the best. Everyone is the best in their own way. Shouting youre the best doesn't make you any better than everyone else."

Valid point Cappywinch... There isn't anything wrong with confidence. s&it I have loads of it.. being a model and all...but still I am extremely humble. I think that Leos do tend to alienate people because of their arrogance not confidence. No one likes to be around someone who talks about their self all the time. I'm not knocking you for loving yourself...hell everyone should do that, however although it's true that Leos attract attention...just like it's true that Caps are destined for success... you still have to be able to channel yourself in the right direction. It's not all about attention and it seems like that's all Leos are worried about is who is getting the most attention or who is trying to steal your spot light. When some is distant from you it always has to be because they are jealous of you or want to be like you.... have you considered the fact that maybe it's not that they are admiring you but more so because they are tired of the self centeredness that can sometimes be portrayed.

Like I've continuously said and will always say everyone is not alike even though they share the same sign, be Cappy or Leo.

Mr. Cap,

You shouldn't feel discriminated. Most of the posts on here are dedicated to YOU, oh odd male cap.

you dont like leos thinking that they are the best and so what here we go again who are you to judge you cappi's can be very judgemental.leos alientaing people nah you got it twisted id never do that.didnt i just say that leos are loyal and we feel with our hearts we are compassionate people.oh well at the end of the day to each is own someone not gonna like somebody.never have i ever sulked because of a bad friendship lol what i may talk about it but never sulk lol thats sounds crazy lol.anyway thanx for the feedback

cappy wench calm down and your right it is only a post.just like people have questions ideas opinons about leos the same goes for capricorns.and when did i ever say i was disastified with my life ma do me a favor do not respond to my post cause i do not argue over the computer.and about getting dropped are you serious lol never.Some females are intimidated by others strenghts it anit my fault.Its just the facts of life.all i gotta say is that i justy never experienced certain things with other females like i have with capricorns thats all and thats my truth.so once again thanx for the feedback.nice conversation.

Maybe you experience what you do from Cappies because we don't like stuff like that. We are very grounded and humble so it's irritating to be around people who brag and have to be put on a pedestal. One thing you will not get from Caps is recognition when we feel we may not like you. It's hard for us to fake friendships or relationships....we are extremely loyal too, but if we feel like we are being placed on a back burner to someone's ego then we will eventually get fed up and give off an impression that we are becoming distant.

You should be asking your friends why they are being distant or acting funny. Usually if you ask a Cap straight up we are straight up with you. You best be ready for the truth though when you ask......

You say you're not worried about any friends or sulking over your friendships but if you was a real friend to these women you would be trying to fix the problem, and maybe they have issues they need to fix too, instead of being so eager and ready to dump them on the side of the road just because they are not acting accordingly.

You're a Leo, we all understand the attention thing...that will probably never change. You say that Leos just get attention all the time and that's an ora about you all, nothing wrong with that, however when you start acting like it's a must have and you have to be the center of it...that's when it becomes a problem. (when I say "YOU" I don't mean to direct that towards you...but to the Leo's it pertains to) But you asked for our opinions and I'm always sure to repeat that I don't judge because I don't know you or your situation well enough to do that, we are giving our opinions and it's based on a Caps perspective so it's probably right as it pertains to your situation.

From my experience Caps are not jelous perple only with a lover not friends..... You should talk to her true friendship is really hard to come by now a days.... Caps do not share there feellings you could have done something to her and she would never tell you unless you asked...

I have 2 close friends both jelous of me one is a Taurus the other a Virgo.... I keep them in my spot light when we go out.... Try to make them feel like they are just as good as I am because I feel that everyone is different but we are all equal.

Talk to her though dont loose a great friendship over something that could be totally stupid.....

Give her a chance....

thanx cappywife i understand.but ma seriously i really did talk discuss the hole thang im really a cool laid back kinda chick.people make the world go round.lol

Thanx gemimi_82girl but i be laughing cause i know its probably a lil jealousy.Like for example i am starting my real estate career and i told my friend kim whom is a capricorn and oh boy why did i tell her that.Like when i wasnt working and my money wasnt right she was right there by my side.But the minute i told her about my new coop apartment i would be purchasing thats when she started to distance herself and im like dam.What the hell aren't you happy for me.I have always been happy for my friends success.You got a new job lets go celebrate you feel me but me no nothing.I dont get none of that.So anyway back to this one particular cappi friend(kim is her name).When she was going through things with her man i was there up all night with her giving her my love and affection telling her things would be fine just pray.I mean i was there feel me.And im not gonna lie we were both going through a tough time in our relationships but i wised up.I got it together and the minute i could no longer share our misery it was like crazy.I guess she probably felt like dam how could she be so strong.My point i found god.And to top it off she has no type of spiritual connection or anything.I cant live like that i need something to fall back on when life gets to crazy.Im just being honest.I know some people who believe in astrology dont believe in god but sorry i do.Its just crazy like im moving on with my life.I mean i still say hello to my cappi ladies no hard feelings just differences.

"My point I found god. And to top it off she has no type of spiritual connection or anything. I cant live like that I need something to fall back on when life gets to crazy. Im just being honest. I know some people who believe in astrology don't believe in god but sorry I do."

Cherie, this is so great!! I too believe that the different signs tell a lot about a person, however I am a Christian as well and I believe that over all God has the very last say . I applaud you on this!!

I can tell you from experience with my Leo girlfriend that when she bought her town home and I was living in my apartment she was cool with me not having much, but as soon as I bought this great big house she ran out and sold her town home and purchased a 5 bedroom home. Just seemed strange to me because it's just her by herself whereas I have my kids so that's why we needed so much space. Just seemed like she was trying to top me. Which I know they say materialistic things are what Caps want but I don't find that to be true for me, maybe it's because the only Cap in my chart is my Sun sign other then that I'm basically Air and Fire. So maybe that explains why I don't view money the same as some Caps do.

Anyways... I guess I can see what you are saying, but let me try and explain how it may be going down. If your Cappy friend feels that when you got your new place...that you would see it as an accomplishment over hers then I can see why she would be a little jealous. We Caps are not the jealous types...but we don't like when someone achieves something and then it seems like they are bragging about it or in some way saying "I'm better then you"....now I know what you are thinking....You're thinking that's not what you was trying to do, and I believe you 100% . However, sometimes Leos give off a vibe that you are better and so she probably felt that when you got your place and all you wanted was someone to celebrate with.

I believe that your heart is in the right place. I'm also learning a lot about the Leo's compassion from this post because I believe all you truly wanted was a friend to say I'm happy for you. Still, the Leo ora is "I'm better, I'm the best" there isn't anything you can probably change about that, but there are some signs that aren't bothered by it and some that are. I can see that although we Caps may view you Leos as "attention seekers" in your heart it may be that is not always the case and sometimes when we think it is the case...we can be wrong.

i know email me capywife so we can chat more you seem cool