Capricorn and Aquarius

What does anyone think of this combination?
I am saying it is a 'no no' all the way.
Aquarius makes us feel 'inferior', and self-conscious, when we normally go our way, do what we think is the right thing, and refrain from interfering in anyone else's business, expecting to be treated the same.
Oh no, not with the aquarius. They criticize us all the way for things we do/not do.
They are out to change the world, and you are in the world, aren't you? so 'let's start with 'you''.
Never let an aquarius on a secret unless you want everyone to know about it in record time. Do not say anything bad about his mom or sister or friends ( and they have lots of those ), because next you know these are not talking to you, but worse yet, they are out shredding you to pieces and if you were unlucky to meet them anytime soon, you will be lucky to come back home just with the 'red eye', and no he ( your aquarius man) didn't cause this rupture, doesnt' know what you are talking about, you must be imagining things, you are crazy, etc.... and then he goes back to all these people and makes friend with them and you are out of their lives forever.
See what I mean?
Just a few of my no no warnings for the gullible capricorn who thinks being nice and good is a plus.

sensiblgrl,

It sounds like your aquarius had some issues with abusive behavior, and like he needed to be in control of things as well. I am sorry for your experience with this person, but I would not attribute all of theese issues to the signs basic behaviors as being typical of an aquarius.

My brother is an aquarius and I have never seen him act in the mannor as you describe above with anyone. There was alot more going on there than just what horoscope sign he is. I do hope you are not seeing him anylonger though for your health, safety and emotional well being.

TW2

Alot of what you say is true.
I am aquarius girl and I was with a cappy guy for nearly 2 years on and off.
The friends thing...yes....the world is our phonebook and it's not so much about being bored with someone...as the delight in there being so many different out people there to meet and talk to and learn from.
Caps are quite reserved and grounded - I learnt alot from this man in this regard...I am little Ms. Mary Make Believe and live in the land of bubbles....he brought me down to earth when I needed it....and burst my bubble:-) but he needed to learn to fly and I feel I did that for him.......
AS for critcizing...I don't think this is an aquarian trait so much...I don't give a damn really what way others want to live their lives...the more "out there" the better.....:-)
But I can see that this man has hurt you to the core....I actually don't like aquarian men to date.....don't allow any more physical abuse....he's entitled to one mistake......fool me once, shame on you....fool me twice, shame on me.......
Has he got a drink problem—

Anyway, good luck - and remember as Atlantic Myst says...it's all about head-games with aquarians.....that's their aphrodisiac.....

A x

With the few replies I got I realized that my 'aquarius' was probably not the norm, but rather the exception, at this time.
I can add that he was abusive, and was into drinking, although I was not sure how much he drank as he pretended to not drink much or bring home his dirty laundryat; but I found a couple of sex magazines, and other 'hideous' stuff hiding under his shirts.
There also another aquariun who was married to a very close friend of mine, and he exhibited almost of the same traits above.
So, I hope someone else will add that this is NOT an aquarian trait per ce, and preferably, another capricorn, as they are the ones to suffer the most in this called 'relationship', or otherwise state that they are happy together....!

hi,
I am Aq,,of course,lol. my soon to be ex,,Capi. and I thought the relationship was wonderful. sometimes traits may not be the sign but other things included, like past family life. and I agree this is not a common trait with aquarians. that I am aware of. good luck.

huggs
Ak

Well, they say that Caps and Aquarius can be together successfully.

I had a roommate that was an Aquarius, and he was freaking great. I miss him now that he's gone. He did have one big drunken episode once one night where he smashed a glass on our coffee table while arguing with my other roommate, but things didn't get any uglier than that. Mostly he was great guy to be around, and an excellent friend. He was always generous. He was also very tidy and self-disciplined.

My youngest sister is also an Aquarius. She's also got a temper, and she's also a neat freak. She's generally agreeable, though, and fun to be with. She's also very loyal.

I think you should maybe read up on the Capricorn/Aquarius relationship. They are also partially ruled by Saturn, so they can't be all bad.

You know, there's something I didn't say about Aquarius':

They are supposed to be the 'best friends' of the zodiac if I remember correctly. They're very loyal and always on their friend's side.

seniblegirl: you said:
Never let an aquarius on a secret unless you want everyone to know about it in record time.

Aqurius males ARE very faithful to their friends.. and will stab anyone in the back that says anything wrong about one of their friends. be careful in this area.

Alana: You said:
Anyway, good luck - and remember as Atlantic Myst says...it's all about head-games with aquarians.....that's their aphrodisiac.

Maybe yes with Aquarius males. but us females.. me myself. I hate head games!!! it's to emotionally draining for me.

Aquarius female

Fair enough Jollyjas.....maybe I am the exception to the rule but for me I thrive on head games....I just adore and thrive on them....they are my aphrodisiac.
I know lots of people don't approve and say it's not correct....perhaps .....but just for me personally any man who can head-game it with me..almost has me:-)Probably the best head-gamer boys I have been with were the Caps and the Sags:-)

Keep jollyjas-in:-)

A x

I'm a Capricorn. I admit I've played head games, but generally I only play head games back to someone that's playing them with me. If someone's going to be that way then it's only fair to let them have it back.

I've been off and on with an Aquarius for about 5 years now. I'm a Capricorn....when I think about it, I'm not really sure why I found myself attracted to him. But here is what I know about them.

They just want to be "friends" Any other kind of relationship title will cause them to run. I haven't met one who really WANTS to have a deep committed relationship. They have a tendency to be condesending.......or treat you as though you're inferior. That's because they aren't as intelligent as they want others to believe. They lack ambition and they don't really know what they want out of life. They just kinda float around, like the air signs they are. They are best matched with a Libra. Because with a Libra they can be lazy, while she does all the work to create a healthy relationship.....a relationship that he'll continue to label as "Just Friends".

They are surprisingly a bit superficial. Gravitating towards women that they find beautiful in appearance, but their dominating side won't tolerate or handle a woman with a mind, because he thinks he knows everything. The trick is to make him believe that he's in control...but most of the time you'll end up doing all the work and expressing your feelings, while he takes 20 years to decide if he wants to be more then just friends. If you have the time, go for it.

Capricorn Mermaid - absolutely spot on with my ex-Aqua ......absof*@kinglutely right!

* takes a peek* Hmm... More stuff about other's relationship? Oh Goody! 😆

Well I was "best friends" with an Aquarius for 35 years. (We grew up together, lived down the street from each other, and the "friendship" endured through high school and college and beyond.)

About 2 years ago I "dumped" her. Why, you ask?

I found out that she was still talking about me behind my back, something that reared its ugly head when we were in elementary school and a few times after that. Aquarians are "everybody's friend" but NOBODY'S REAL FRIEND. (not shouting, just emphasizing the point) They spread themselves so thinly amongst all of their "friends" (most of whom are just acquaintances, in my experience Aqua's use the word very loosely), they can't really be there for anybody BUT THEMSELVES. They are a selfish lot sometimes, ALWAYS putting themselves first (which is healthy to a point but sometimes others should come first). They're very chatty and pleasant to talk to, but say something they don't like and they will hang up in your face. Also they are loathe to apologize when proven wrong.

Personally I had to learn the hard way not to trust them, and I make a point of staying the hell away from 'em!! They're way too superficial for me.

god, im a virgo... and seriously, im acting like a libra. and this aqua is giving me a side where i guess no one knows about it... the mean side... just batching on me all the time... its not even funny... and i call her she dont pick up or call back or even write back, we both know the only question in my mind is be my girl, i always call back tho when she calls... but i guess they are giving me a side where most ppl dont see lol... so my guess is right kinda... but its not even funny now days... god.... why couldnt i be all libra... if i was born few days later... this could have been match made in heaven. i just wish she is a capricon too... faith.

this aqua is giving me a side where i guess no one knows about it... the mean side...

and i call her she dont pick up or call back or even write back, we both know the only question in my mind is be my girl, i always call back tho when she calls...



sorry to hear that Candyman.... But ya u dont sound like a typical Virgo coz virgos dont pursue women who treat them bad or ignore them.... i personally think shes just not interested in you and u gotta move on.... When aquas dont answer your calls that means they are NOT interested......U definitely deserve better and this girl is not worth pursuing who doesnt appreciate ya....