capricorn guys

I am so glad that I found these boards. I met a cap at the end of March and we went out a couple of times. Initially things were great - lots of communication, seeing each other regularly then it all went quiet. I was beginning to think that I had done something wrong until I found these boards and realised it was him not me. We still keep in touch but not as much. Reading posts made me realise that he will slow things down and they will go at his pace. Any advice for me?

Any thoughts on why a male capricorn, who knows a romantic relationship is not possible, would try to stir up old feelings by telling me that he loves me ... and then the next day, back peddles and retreats to his shell ... almost in hiding?

I care about him a lot and i am very patient and understanding of him (without effort), but him telling me he loves me has left me a little bit baffled. I am not sure how genuine his words.

Sherob, it's what they do. He knows you can't move forward so after a proclamation like that, it's natural for him to disappear.

The question is, if you know you can't be with him, why do you still have him around and are being patient and understanding of him? If you can't be with him despite that connection, let him go for his own sake.

Thanks you guys. The reason i am still in the picture is because not only do i enjoy him and all his little quirks, but we work for the same company ... him in the UK and me in Canada. I am patient because i believe we are worth patience. However, LeowithCap i do see your point and that is a something to think about.

His disappearing i can deal with, but i've allowed my judgement to be clouded by the fact that i have read so many different opinions, i have started to question were his words genuine or was he testing me.

CapGal, amen to that.

I think the newbies should turn tail and run. Rarely does one catch the Cap man in a short time. Good luck with that, ladies.

my cap guy friend who is smart, witty, talented plus extremely good-looking and sexy once told me that he has never asked a woman out. all the women that became his gfs made the first move and pursued him. despite his being a great catch he is so afraid of being rejected. i think this is a very capricorn thing. i want to know if it's possible to re-kindle a cap guy's interest in you after his getting a wrong signal from you that you are not interested in him.