Capricorn in love

how much do you talk about it? him? her?
do you volunteer the personal info about your feelings to friends?
do you think anyone would ever know it without you saying anything?

re. cap femmes... there are several of us cap women consistently around here on the boards and i never hear anything about our romantic dealings... very very rarely. at least nothing much discussed about on the cap board.

there's a cap female that i used to work with... kind of out of nowhere one day we had this great 2 or 3 hour conversation about the guys we'd had our hearts pining for and previous to the convo... you'd just never know because neither of us really talked much about it, granted it is the work place and yet a very social work environment. we talked about the way we are when in love, coming into it, falling out of it... the immense feelings and dealings with them. It was pretty intense and it made me realize how little i ever talk about that kind of thing to anyone... far aside from astrological trait ...the real and actual feelings regarding a specific person. honestly, i rarely go that indepth with my best friend.

"They few times I have talked about my relationships with people, I almost immediately wished I kept my mouth shut."

Same thing goes for me. Same exact thing. I always wanna try to be a more inviting and open personality, but those personal things... well, they have that name for a reason i guess, right?! *smacks herself* When I was younger I was more free with speaking up about my inner life only because it helped me deal and think things through, but now... c'est la vie, man. Life is all over the place and I'm done feeling the need to talk about it every time it changes. I guess I feel the same way about love (the romantic kind)... until it becomes a constant in my life, the 'here to stay' kind of constant, I dont want to shout anything.

"As for the cap ladies on this board, except for a handful, most do talk about their relationships. Just not on the cap board I guess."

Ya, I've caught some gab here and there on other boards. I suppose that kind of discussion would go to said object of affections zodiac sign board

CP, pretty neat to have such a comfortable heart to heart!

i think i'm different when im in a secure relationship though... my last serious relationship, i was open about it. when i'm really happy, it escapes me and i have no problem with that in solid committment.

but see... even in this thread that has directly broached the topic... not one of us has mentioned a specific sweetheart or our feelings for them... hehe. could be too early yet.
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You not need to tell everyone, My love is a cap woman, and I just know and feel she loves me even if she doenst show, I see behind. Im just smiling now, almost crying of joy, because I love her so much. So its deep, very deep, but even I cant explain.

For me even if she tell?s me, nothing changes. All past is past. Love is now. sorry if im disturbing :p

"CP, pretty neat to have such a comfortable heart to heart!"

YA! omg, it was awesome... it was nice to share something like that with someone who truly understood because they'd been through it.

"I've never seen any protest their love for anyone."

Scrutinizing when it comes to developing feelings and gaurded about letting it be known when I do. The last time I loved someone, it took me a few months to realize it and a few months to come out and say it. That's a long time in my book. What a ride. It's pretty agonizing when you have those feelings and just can't bring yourself to say it. Is it mysterious? Cowardly? or just uptight? Bah!

"as we age, we are far more open to talk about our feelings."

Well I think I can do that now in a vague and detached way... much like this discussion, but getting to specifics can be like pulling teeth with me. I like my teeth right where they are... in my mouth, lips sealed! lol I can dance around the subject and talk about it, you know in that round about way, but answers to
'who,' 'what,' 'how,' 'why' ...maaaaaybe on a good day.

You know... i dont really even like saying this much, but i will to make my point. 😛

"Well, I thought we are sticking to the topic here"

We absolutely are! Which you can usually count on on the cap board! 😉 But I'm just thinking, on any other board, I imagine we'd have heard someone bring something personal up as perhaps an example or anything.

K, now I'm gonna go hide. lol

"No. LostPisces. You are not disturbing. DXP is an open forum for everyone. You Pisces men are really sweet. Too bad I don't know many in real life ."

Yep yep!

errr, ok... now i'm gonna go. 😛

*scampers off*

I never knew a cap woman before too (I think), and she didnt met many fishes either. It seems we had gone in diffrent ways, but Im sure if I have met her before she would protect me and I would love her at first time I saw her as I did. Besides our differences, we are both reserved and shy.

If you see a person with a stupid smile, not cappable of talking straight with you, shy, hands shaking, its probable to be a pisces.

k, im done hiding again.

"If you see a person with a stupid smile, not cappable of talking straight with you, shy, hands shaking, its probable to be a pisces."

actually, the pisces guys i've known are the exact opposite. goes to show any sign can run a full spectrum. still just as lovable with very sensitive cores. there is a lot of adoration that seems to fill the spaces between cap females and pisces males from what i hear and have even experienced. it's tender and protective. the one's i've known definitely have their fun loving wild sides, but romantically, from what i gather you'd never have to question their loyalty and fidelity.

Not corny at all MsPisces 🙂 It's an excellent and feasable goal. And I'm not trying to say that I dont or have a hard time showing affection like this, but when it comes to that grand feeling of love for that one person... phew, that's when it's tough! But I like where you are going with this idea... this is good
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"I find the cap board to be so different from the other sign boards, in that, the discussions here are always so open and frank. The other boards are loaded with trivial bantering about nothing. Forgive my seeming bias, but just wanted to state my observation"

CapGal, i couldn't agree more ... lol.

Aww creepypants, I use to talk about romantic topics all the time. Hahaha, most of my posts were about relationships and why I was so bad at them LOL!!!

Hi SB!

Long time no chat missy 😉 Yep, Brandon's right -- I don't have the internet anymore. I moved into an apartment a month ago. My roommate wants the internet, but she needs to find another job before we can even talk about adding another bill.

CapGal, i am in agreement with you regarding the cappie authors here.

will return.. later.

I shall have the internet fairly soon I hope -- it will be nice to do my work in the apartment for a change.

AHHHH!!! Really? Congradulations! You've worked hard, I know you have 😄 I just received my first degree about two weeks ago. I'm working on my next one now.

whoa cappysweetie!!!! long time, sweetie... where ya been!? up to no good right? 😉 😛 good to see ya in here 🙂

Hi Creepy!!!!! 😄

How are you — Haha, yes I've been up to no good, but I swear none of it's actually my fault LOL!!!

I've been doing okay -- I've been a busy little goat. Hahaha, good thing I'm part saggie -- having four legs comes in handy let me tell ya 😉 I will explain more later, my boss has some huge meeting right now and I don't want him to catch me online chatting 😉

But I strongly agree with you. We cappies need to express the love emotion alittle more. It's just so darn difficult you know?

Hahaha, I need a pisces in my life. *cries* I want a picses guy LOL!!! Hahaha did you see what I wrote on the Pisces board? Haha, I don't want anymore earth men! Nope nope nope!

Thank you for the congrads SB 😄 😄 😄 I missed that yesterday ... I was scrambling like crazy. Kinda like today.

I've always been a scrambler but now I'm use to it so it doesn't bother me as much

sagigoat... your pic is adorable. i wanna name it Pudge and put it in my pocket. lol

are you sagicorn? or caprittarius?

AHHHHHHHHHH! ok 😛 well... cool! you are still SG! 🙂

crazy, but it is difficult to talk about. would rather do it.

scopiogoat? YEAH! I remember you 😄! You had to delete your original account ——? What in the world :O