Capricorn man born 12/26/1979 is very confusing, need advice.

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I met this great Capricorn man on Pof.

He is everything I want in a man

And I am everything he wants in a woman (he told me this)



I did a relationship chart with our birthdays and it came up the perfect match.

We have a lot in common too..I never met no one like him.

What bothers me he talks a good game



But his action is not matching up with his words.



We haven't met and he keep saying he wants to see me to meet but is not making the effort to meet me. I am moving from NC to move back to the ATL.

We both live in NC 45 min away from each other

We have been chatting on pof since March 6th.

And we still haven't met up with each other.

One time we were planning to meet up.

And he stopped talking to me.

2 weeks went by and I contacted him because I thought something bad happened to him..because during our planning to meet he was gone abruptly

So after I contacted him to check up on him.

He hit me back up likr everything was okay.

I address him not hitting me back he just flaked off.

He basically confirmed that he flaked off because he was having car problems and his intentions were good and he wanted to meet me.

I told him I understand aND he could've communicate that with me just flaking off.

He said he has issues and that he love me for being understanding.

We finally exchange number and it was me initiating it.

I.am always the one contacting him

What is wrong with him?

I am running out of patience

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Posted by RamOnFire1
I think he's not so much into you. Sorry to say hun.

2 weeks no word. wow!

Just imagine that this is only the begining...

They may be slow but not when they're interested in someone. Use your judgement and do whats best for you.


Yes, and I ended up texting him the other day

I called him fake threw up the peace sign emoji and said im done.

We were in a middle of texting and 2 hours went by while I was waiting on a response back from our conversation.

He tried to explain himself why it took him long blaming it on bad signal but it mighty fun how all of a sudden he have signal when I said he is fake and im.done.

You are right he wasn't into me at.all.
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Posted by pinkbird03
He's interested, which is why he still talks to you. But he's not that interested, which is why he's not putting any effort into it. Might be because you're moving.

Also, not meeting right away is normal. I started talking to a cap last mid April online and we didnt meet until June.


I.agreed with your post.

He swore up and down it because I have high standards and he felt like he can't measure up right now because his credit is not that and he still lives at home. But I told him.that i.will.work.with him because I like a lot other stuff he has going on such as he is 1 year older than me, tall 6"3, fine, dredhead like me, woke, stable meaning he has been on his job for 13 years, own 2 cars, and no kids. He is working on his credit and so am i. He is i everything I want in a man, he just lack 1 thing his own place but he is working on it. He is goal oriented just like me and he is working on them.

He did say he have issues and problems.

Crazy thing he said no black women wont take a chance on him because of his situation..I told him in so many ways that in.interested and he doesn't bite. He is very confusing..and I can't deal with it no.more.

We have so much in common it is crazy and we think so much alike.

But he still confused me..so I told him.im.done and thst he acts too fake.basically full.of shhiit!

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Posted by pinkbird03
He's interested, which is why he still talks to you. But he's not that interested, which is why he's not putting any effort into it. Might be because you're moving.

Also, not meeting right away is normal. I started talking to a cap last mid April online and we didnt meet until June.


I.agreed with your post.

He swore up and down it because I have high standards and he felt like he can't measure up right now because his credit is not that and he still lives at home. But I told him.that i.will.work.with him because I like a lot other stuff he has going on such as he is 1 year older than me, tall 6"3, fine, dredhead like me, woke, stable meaning he has been on his job for 13 years, own 2 cars, and no kids. He is working on his credit and so am i. He is i everything I want in a man, he just lack 1 thing his own place but he is working on it. He is goal oriented just like me and he is working on them.

He did say he have issues and problems.

Crazy thing he said no black women wont take a chance on him because of his situation..I told him in so many ways that in.interested and he doesn't bite. He is very confusing..and I can't deal with it no.more.

We have so much in common it is crazy and we think so much alike.

But he still confused me..so I told him.im.done and thst he acts too fake.basically full.of shhiit!

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I can totally relate. I thought this other guy was perfect for me in every way. Met him online too. Dated for over a month and then he pulled the same bs behavior. Done with him. I moved onto another guy that I like more! That's what you gotta do.

Personally I think there's too many options online for guys and most of them don't want to settle on just one girl.
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01/07/1980 12:00 Julian day 2444246.00

Timezone -0.00 ST 19.05 Lat 0.00 Long 0.00

12/26/1979 15:18 Julian day 2444234.14

Timezone -0.00 ST 21.36 Lat 0.00 Long 0.00

01/07/1980Aspect12/26/1979Orb/ValueMercuryConjunctionSun3.46249MercuryTrineJupiter2.1467VenusSextileMercury0.27122VenusSextileNeptune1.2049VenusTrinePluto2.0844MarsConjunctionMars1.5826MarsConjunctionJupiter4.3878JupiterConjunctionMars2.54103JupiterConjunctionJupiter0.14130SaturnConjunctionSaturn0.07113UranusConjunctionUranus0.3494NeptuneConjunctionMercury1.18116NeptuneConjunctionNeptune0.2685NeptuneSextilePluto0.2246PlutoSextileMercury1.5040PlutoSextileNeptune0.5838PlutoConjunctionPluto0.1079 147901479


capricorn and aquarius
Capricorn and Capricorn... If her birthday is 1/7 she's another cap.

It sounds like he's either cat fishing you like someone else mentioned or married. Lol


lol yeah it's capricorn and capricorn i've just seen it
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Yes we both are Capricorn