Capricorn Mixed signals or not interested.

Hello to all, thanks for taking the time to read.

I'm strongly attracted to this Capricorn, but don't know if I should proceed. I believe I already may have pushed him away with my emotional and being bipolar and what not we started talking on facebook and easily became amazed by each other.. I left my number and he texted me that morning, we sent text back and forth for about a few days then he stopped, we met for the first time and the physical attraction was strong, even though I played hard to get but I was open. That morning he left hickies and asked him in a text saying was it official and he replied saying you're mine. So I thought we were dating. Next meeting was with his cousins again and he was a bit affectionate and had me like wow... Third time he didn't show it.. Well in the backseat it got intense biting and touching... My lip was bleeding afterwards, he called to check on me. After that he's been distant and ask why he said he didn't know, but then I got too pushy and ask straight forward were we in a relationship or friends zone. He replied saying we are not in a relationship and that he was talking to someone. Then I got an text saying "we can be friends I don't care but I just don't wanna talk to you like that". I'm confused.

I remembered that he invited me and his cousins to his best friends party, so I asked he said yeah I can still come, and his cousins were going to.
We text to say about getting me a ride and when it was time, he didn't reply, almost like he flaked...

If he wasn't interested would he have said already? Or is he considering me an option or just friends.. Please help..
I'm a cancer, and I know I can be controlling at times but I don't like when my emotions get played with.
Any help would be nice...

You need to take it slow with him and back off. Cap men don' t like to be rushed into a relationship. He don't know you well enough yet. You cannot be controlling with him. Why was your lip bleeding i don't get it? Did you guys have sex?

Thanks for replying. I believe it was a little foreplay while he was biting my lip I started to bleed. We didn't have sex.

So even tho he said he's talking to someone, you think I still have a chance?

What are you confused about? He said he doesn't like you like that.

And, by the way, hickies are tacky. It advertises to the world that you're eady.

*easy*

Thanks I guess the next question is should I even remain being his friend?

Why would you want to?

IDK, to be honest even though he said what he said there was a strong connection, like we connected with each other. The hickies, yes I do know they make you look easy, that's why I had told him that he couldn't do that and he got mad, saying he wasn't gonna leave any marks. He still try to though.

Plus I noticed that sometimes when I gave him space, he started texting me again, then he'd invite me to chill with his cousins , I can tell his cousins did like me

Why are Capricorn men like that?? Wishy washy?

Thanks for that insight. I do believe he was teasing me. So should I stop talking to his cousins and just disappear? ‚

We all met at the same time, BTW I forgot to mention he still has my favorite hat! Does that mean anything?

I agree with Cheeky

Posted by trioeffect
We all met at the same time, BTW I forgot to mention he still has my favorite hat! Does that mean anything?

omg!
Stop reading into it. He TOLD you he doesn't like you.

Besides. He's an inconsiderate jerk who left hickies on you after you told him not to. He will screw you if you Let him, but that's all it will ever be.

Sorry if I was reading into it... It doesn't feel good to know cuz I don't take rejection very well.. As far as the hat goes, I just want the hat, to move on... Any ideas or just keep moving forward?

Okay thanks...

Posted by trioeffect
Thanks for replying. I believe it was a little foreplay while he was biting my lip I started to bleed. We didn't have sex.

So even tho he said he's talking to someone, you think I still have a chance?

A chance to have sex or a relationship? When capricorn men are committed they will cheat but he won't leave the other women 4 you!!! You would have to do everything rigth with him to have the slightest chance and that more than likely wont work. From some of the things you already stated this man is not for you. Trust me!!! He bit you lip— Thats some crazy intense stuff!!! Leave him alone while it's still early! I've been off and on with my cap friend forever and our relationship is not going anywhere. He wont allow.

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Posted by trioeffect
Thanks for replying. I believe it was a little foreplay while he was biting my lip I started to bleed. We didn't have sex.

So even tho he said he's talking to someone, you think I still have a chance?

A chance to have sex or a relationship? When capricorn men are committed they will cheat but he won't leave the other women 4 you!!! You would have to do everything rigth with him to have the slightest chance and that more than likely wont work. From some of the things you already stated this man is not for you. Trust me!!! He bit you lip— Thats some crazy intense stuff!!! Leave him alone while it's still early! I've been off and on with my cap friend forever and our relationship is not going anywhere. He wont allow.

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Yeah I was thinking so,

Turns out he flaked on me when he said I could still come to his best friends party. His best friend too me that. I'm just like wow. It is what it is tho