Capricorn will hangout with his ex?!!

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hamptonslee
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I just found out my cap bf will hangout with his ex when she'll be in town.They're really good friends and they used to do things in the past and i'm very paranoid now 😢I know he loves me cause he writes me everyday and he told me he loves me but i'm afraid that him meeting up with his ex will lead to them hooking up.I'm just so distraught right now and I don't know what to do with myself.Should i be okay with him hanging out with her?
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Are you a troll? I'm beginning to wonder just based on the last 3 posts I've seen from you. Hell, you've written FIVE in the span of FOUR days. Reminds me a lot like Faith when she first came here. :/

Seriously, you have the same IP as this user as well- https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/is-this-cap-shy-3506754/#3506755

Is this why you created the new username? People were calling you out on inconsistencies?


If you are actually serious-

You sound very insecure and are letting your estrogen get ahold of you. You come across as the typical female that guys run from- obsessive, clingy, and insecure. Out comes the crazy!

Calm the hell down already. You'll be okay. Like I said, the penis is not a form of life support. There is absolutely no reason that you should be this obsessed over every little thing over a guy. You will survive while he's out of town, and your incessant worrying over little things while he's gone WILL eventually cause a rift in the relationship and it WILL crumble if you don't get a grip.
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ome more inconsistencies to those that were pointed out in that thread-

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/why-would-he-act-so-unemotional-after-not-3516243/#3516269<BR>
Posted by hamptonslee
Okay,this happened a while back,but it still bugs me to this day.I didn't see my cap for 8 months straight.We'd text and skype for the whole 8 months and saying how we cant wait to see eachother.



https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/please-please-help-me-understand-this-capricorn-3511713/#3513918<BR>
Posted by hamptonslee
We've been dating for 2 months and I am super confused as to how he feels for me.it's like one minute he loves me....
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One month, two months, five months, eight months, etc.

I'm finding it hard to even take you seriously in any of your posts. Just seeing a whole hell of a lot of crazy. :/
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Posted by aqua86

aw, she just sounds young. i can't imagine dealing with a hot-and-cold cap when i was an insecure teenager. (i don't know if she's a teenager, but it seems likely.)

i mean, who knows, maybe she's 40 years old. i agree that she should probably get a grip, but that gets easier as one gets older, lord knows. : p



She said she was 24 in another thread.

I'm calling bullshit. She's too inconsistent in her stories and two of her threads are basically posing the same question but she's expecting different answers.

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Posted by Nala13
Good ole Faith. Welcome back. I am going to take your Leo card you no longer deserve it. IP addresses don't lie.

Hey Rocky,

Me and you need to open a detective agancy. Hell we have enough clients from DXP alone to become rich.



I don't think she's Faith. She just reminds me of her. The IP shows her as another user who was slinging around multiple threads about a Cap guy, but she kept changing her story about how long they had been dating. She was called out on it and then this name started popping up and she started all over again.

Whatever she wants to do, but it just seems strange.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Let me add some more inconsistencies to those that were pointed out in that thread-

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/why-would-he-act-so-unemotional-after-not-3516243/#3516269<BR>
Posted by hamptonslee
Okay,this happened a while back,but it still bugs me to this day.I didn't see my cap for 8 months straight.We'd text and skype for the whole 8 months and saying how we cant wait to see eachother.



https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/please-please-help-me-understand-this-capricorn-3511713/#3513918<BR>
Posted by hamptonslee
We've been dating for 2 months and I am super confused as to how he feels for me.it's like one minute he loves me....



One month, two months, five months, eight months, etc.

I'm finding it hard to even take you seriously in any of your posts. Just seeing a whole hell of a lot of crazy. :/
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I've noticed this too. I'm confused as well. Either way, her emotional insecurity is going to run him off, if she's not careful.
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Posted by 88NPISCES
she is young, & is experimenting with DXP at the same time. lol
but she could be telling the truth about her stories & is asking many many questions, maybe she just has not gotten the answer she is looking for, or worse yet she doesn't want to accept the guy is not respecting her and she needs to let go.



I think she's changing the story because she's trying to get a specific answer she wants to hear from everyone but isn't getting it.

I don't think she wants to accept the reality of the situation, either. The experienced lot here is telling her what she needs to do and she just wants to stay in lala land, be a doormat, and look for what isn't there. Inexperienced or not, she needs to listen. I didn't have much guidance either at that age and I WISH I'd had someone to tell me these things that we're all telling her now. The sad part is that she's NOT listening.

But whatever. If she's going to play games with everyone here, create multiple names and tweak her story several times over, she can just stfu. You can't help that kind of bs.