Capricorno

I used to have a 'fling' with this capricorn guy for quite awhile. I had feelings for him but I had to cut it off with him because it didn't seem he wanted a relationship. Though he still tried to get me back. He'd still text me every now n then to wish me happy holidays or ask about my life. Now it's been 2 years since I ended our 'affair' n I know throughout that time he was in a relationship with this girl, though he told me he didn't love her n she was crazy about him so he had to end it. Now I'm happy my feelings are gone for him n I'm able to sustain a friendship with him. I got a new job through his help and I think he wants something more than that. I can see he's a great guy but I'm still not really over my ex boyfriend I recently broke up with... But I've figured he's sort of trying to pursue me in subtle ways but not too obvious... I'm not sure if he's interested in me or whether he still likes me after it's been awhile....Can u hold feelings for someone as long as that nd even if you get in relationship with someone else you'd still try to get back with someone from ur past?

Thanks CappyLuv 🙂

Nah I was just curious... I don't want a relationship with him not interested in him like that anymore. Just have a feeling he's into me and don't know, could be mistaken of course... 🙂 Its just he's always complimenting me, flirting with me... I feel he's assuming I'm into him, but that's not the case, I'm still not over my ex boyfriend. Idk of course I can be wrong with my assumptions. Just wondering why after it's been 2 years he'd still want to keep a contact with me, if it's usual with capricorns...

Posted by QuietSt0rm

Posted by CappyyLuv30

Until the words out of that man's mouth are "I want you to be my serious, exclusive girlfriend"....then consider it only a friendship or a FWB and nothing more. Actions must ALWAYS match words.

Yeah, Gya... in my early twenties I dated another cap on & off for about 5 years but then he moved away.. we remained friends, while we both dated other people. He would disappear then reappear again whenever he got lonely or around holidays. Still, to this day, he STILL calls me to check up on me and asks to take me out every once in a while, and I have not even seen him in probably 4 years or more. (I'll talk to him, but I don't make myself available to go out with him anymore)

But the point is, they always come back around if you let them. But it doesn't necessarily mean they want anything serious either.

Find out what his intentions are before you let him back into your world again.

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Thanks QuietStorm,

yeah I didn't make any expectations about anything with him bc I don't even think I could ever trust him. I was just wondering why he's back in my life like he'd want me again even he seems to play it off like he just wants to be friends. I've already moved on long ago even though I was madly in love with him. lol and recently he was like my backup plan when things between me and my ex boyfriend didn't go well, I'd go out with him for a drink and even invited him over to my party. But I wasn't being a cheater just felt like rekindling the old friendship between me and capricorn that never really existed. Actually didn't expect this but we had really great conversation when we met again after 2 years. And yes, I left him because I felt I was becoming clingy to the person I didn't have a right to cling on. Even we never discussed our feelings or status before when we were still 'seeing' each other back in the days. I always believed silence spoke loudly enough. But yeah I know nothing would work out, he's not really my type and its just like trying to fix a broken thing you know is already useless for life.