Caps what makes you now want to date someone?

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Greentea
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It's hard to say really, depends on the person.

One time, I was talking to this guy, just dating.. I liked him for the most part but one night we went out to a party amd he got shit faced and was acting stupid, and that what he was doing/acting like just turned me off.

It doesn't have to be anything major, sometimes we don't even know until it's presented. I just knew that I really didn't like how he gets when he drank, and I would not be able to deal with that long term.
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Personally, if I don't see a future or me gelling (sp?) with that person. My tolerance and energy level is low, meaning I can't deal with different personalities for too long, AND I'm a difficult person to deal with. I get moody, deal with anxiety, shut down, am off/on, stubborn so sometimes I save people and sometimes I save myself. I know with me, what you see isn't always what you will get all the time. I make decent first impressions, so I steer clear of people that fall for the impression I've made.

Plus it's isn't always about someone liking us, but us liking them as well.

Mostly though, I think many Caps know they can be a bit difficult so it's takes a certain type of person. Just my opinion.
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Could be anything - it's just a feeling. The person may like me and I may even like them, but if it doesn't feel right, then it's a no.
Seriously. Isn't everybody like this?
^^^What I was thinking.
Judging by the other answers, I guess she means what our dealbreakers are, but you hafta date first to find a lot of those things out.
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Yeah. I wouldn't even go out with them without having a somewhat good feeling about them.. And then come the dealbreakers....which could be pretty much anything.
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Posted by HappyCapper
Posted by cheekyfaerie
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Posted by HappyCapper
Could be anything - it's just a feeling. The person may like me and I may even like them, but if it doesn't feel right, then it's a no.
Seriously. Isn't everybody like this?
^^^What I was thinking.
Judging by the other answers, I guess she means what our dealbreakers are, but you hafta date first to find a lot of those things out.
Yeah. I wouldn't even go out with them without having a somewhat good feeling about them.. And then come the dealbreakers....which could be pretty much anything.
For real. I don't care how together your life seems, if you smack when you eat, I'm outta there. 😄
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Exactly!😄