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Let's discuss this, since it seems to a major thing everyone get's obsessive over.

First, how would describe control.
Next, describe a controlling person.
Then, on a scale of one -ten, one being not controlling at all to ten being very controlling all the time, how controlling would you rate yourself?


I'll start.
Control to me would be manipulating a situation, environment, event or person to doing actions or creating outcomes that go along with your will/desire.
A controlling person would be a person who will try forcing others to do things there way, only concerned about people doing what they say and refusing to take other things into account, like how they feel about being bossed around.

I can't really rate myself well, I want to say 5, but honestly I can range from 1-10 depending on the situation. 10 for me, being I'll just handle it myself and just tell the rest to go do something else.
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Posted by FrenchKpricorn
what i learn in life its people who i have spit on my face, gave me the best gift ever. Hate, hate is the best motivation ever. people who help you are the worst thing who can arrive in your life, being dependant on someone, not being able to do your thing by yourself, un handicapé.
Careful man, using emotions for fuel for success is great.

However hate is poisonous to the soul.
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Posted by FrenchKpricorn
there is a dude, i definitly hated, so i helped him, i let him be on group with me, but i've done all the work, for almost one years then i split. this fool think that i helped him but now, he 's not even engageable by enterprise, he can do nothing, and me i can do the work for a team but solo, i was died a long ago, and the best at the end of the story he thinks that i'm his friend, lol! i'm the man who stabbed him
i mean "he was dead a long ago"

"i" and he have the same resonnance in french errtime i'm making mistake.


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Posted by FrenchKpricorn
what i learn in life its people who i have spit on my face, gave me the best gift ever. Hate, hate is the best motivation ever. people who help you are the worst thing who can arrive in your life, being dependant on someone, not being able to do your thing by yourself, un handicapé.
Careful man, using emotions for fuel for success is great.

However hate is poisonous to the soul.
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hate is the best motivation ever !

u will the, one day a dude will come and tell you "Sirhorns you are a piece of shyt", you'll work hard at a point just for stole his job or make him vired.





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Please, if one dude did, I'll simply take off the kid-gloves and show him what happens when a Capricorn wants something.
He'll have hooves marks all over him and mental scars he'll never recover from. A Pisces or Cancer will have to teach him to walk and love again.
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Posted by FrenchKpricorn
I dont want scars, i want him die, i want him definitly die, and dont him to recovers anything. i'm still a student, but my enemies i will do everything for their die, a punch in the face is not enough, and want later, come in BUGATTI VEYRON 16.4 with my new ROLEX, and come as their face, and i want them to be hobo.
Mental Scars. They'll need a Water sign to comfort them after getting demolished without mercy.
I hear what you're saying. You want they strain their necks to see how better off you are in comparison to them, right?
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Posted by FrenchKpricorn
nah i want him die, your thread was manipulation, and i will force the person i hate to do the worst choice indrectly to his mind.
imagine you got exam the final exam, if i was your real ennemy and you doesnt know it, i will revise hard as fuck the night, without even slipping and the day, i will play with you at blazblue, give you the limited edition pack . and probably at the exam, you'll fail, but and me succes, and the question how the fuck he did it ? and the worst at this i will still be your friend for the gift i gave you, alors que i've been the dude who killed you !
HA, That requires your target to have their proprieties not be in order for it to work.'
SO yeah, wouldn't get me, but I know you would get quite a few with that method. Careful that you don't do it too often, it could ruin your reputation if any catch wind of it.
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Posted by SirHorns
Let's discuss this, since it seems to a major thing everyone get's obsessive over.

First, how would describe control.
Next, describe a controlling person.
Then, on a scale of one -ten, one being not controlling at all to ten being very controlling all the time, how controlling would you rate yourself?


I'll start.
Control to me would be manipulating a situation, environment, event or person to doing actions or creating outcomes that go along with your will/desire.
A controlling person would be a person who will try forcing others to do things there way, only concerned about people doing what they say and refusing to take other things into account, like how they feel about being bossed around.

I can't really rate myself well, I want to say 5, but honestly I can range from 1-10 depending on the situation. 10 for me, being I'll just handle it myself and just tell the rest to go do something else.
I'm not controlling, I just like to have things done a certain way. My methods make sense (to me) and I'm particular about my things, my itinerary, my life.

🙂
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Posted by Chance_11
Control seems to be mostly about insecurity relating to the fear for the unknown. Many would relinquish control in most situations if they realized how little of it they actually have.

It's fairly difficult to change behavior even if you've rightfully given someone the answer to outcomes. You see it on these boards. People will normally follow an inclination based on how they've been conditioned regardless of the benefit of a more correct choice.

Caps, and other earth signs, have to be careful about assuming too much responsibility. Becoming overly involved will sometimes lead a cap to blame themselves while it is someone else's issue.

Also, frustration can set in as a Cap often knows a way that works. Its just that that might not be a viable option for someone who operates in a vastly different fashion.
Very valid.
I agree.

And, I've missed your insight around here, Chance.