Dam............... I got trapped! Should I share w

A couple nights ago I was invited to a social evening by a friend that I hung out with a few times....no kissing, no hugging....you know my standard crabby nerd rule...cepting my guy of course....*big grin*

anyways....so about 8 mo's ago I made it a point to tell my guy friends that I was dating someone serious and wanted to make sure they our friendship was just that and would be no more....this may seem tacky...but you gotta know men just think that is always a possibility...and I gotta keep telling'm so I dont get cused of leading on...

anyways....this declaration of my loyalty was made AFTER they were told in no uncertain terms that I was not interested in anything romantic....just fun friendship..cespting my guy which was read the same riot act and thought he's still try to melt the ice....and he landed one very outwardly shy crabby for his skilled undaunted efforts....*big grin*

so back to my dilema...this friend called me about biz and during out mtg he says...hey we are having a dinner and it would be a great place for u to make some biz contacts.....now this is right AFTER we just got done talking bout what a great guy my cap is...and he tells me he has a serious long distance gal too...so I'm thinking....yea that should be a great time to make some new contacts and he's just acknowledged and even said he knows I'm not intersted in anything with him..and he just want me to meet some good folks...

so I went and i get there....and i'm thinking....OMG! he's the only one here....that was cause everyone had been told to come later....so I still don't panik showing my confident outward crabby self....we just visited for a while until more folks started showing up and he intro me to everyone there....only they start telling him he should dance with his gal! and calling me his date and I'm just like...OMG.....I didn't wannoo embarass him by saying...well no we are not dating...i'm just here to make biz contact....God....then I decided to dance with some gals and we had great fun....shaking booties....and laughing...so then ppl start saying...we have to have you guys out to our place sometime...and i'm thinking...OMG!.....

to finish it.....when the night finally came to an end....I decide to bid goodnight and he follows me....he know i have a strict no kiss no touch rule...and he start to lunge for me and i tried to move sideways like a boxer seeing the right fist coming and he landed it on my cheek...i quickly scampered away and drove home thinkin....OMG!

Should I tell my guy about this or will it just make him jealous and come across like i'm trying some head game..uuugghh I hate women that give women a bad name with game playing...this would be easy if i knew he would take it as face value real stuff....I don't want him to think I would ever keep anything from him....and in the completely one in a million chances he finds out...."i went on a date" with someone else.....


what do you think—?


Heeelllpp......Gulp... *upper lip is shaking a little* I don't know what I should do...

*second cup of latte....hmmmm....what should I do?*



slrrrrp

Dam!! I forgot to mention...I also found out he is a CAP!!! OMG!!!!

*little crab is really worried*

I'm glad to hear that...I guess I am really sensitive in "do not do onto others as you would not do on to self" and I want to make sure I come across as up and up...no secrets....well....none of this kind of secret anyways....but I can't decide if I would want him to tell me if he felt trapped into same sit.....I think I would...an then again...I guess I am confident enough in "us" that I would be fine with it if he didn't and someone else told me....

actually that did happen...Someone told me that he was a good dancer as he had danced w/a lot of gals at a party he went to at his home town...so I guess...it should be cool..still a little nervous though....I just have this feeling that this other cap is going to try the old "you tell em no so they try harder"...

Actually counting my dad and a biz assoc....five!

Thanks cgwl, ***** also counting my mom, my dog and two girl frans, I guess I'm drawn to caps too...they are the best in my world.

Now...as for scorps.....*foot tap...tap....tap* they are a little slow in the mornings if they take a higher dose pill and before they have three alien lattes....but they are all so fun too....Schoene...DB and Auntie...

🙂

WHAAAAA

my math skills HAVE increased btw

I can now do long division! (just as long as there are no decimals involved)

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHDECIMALS!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOO

*glucks more milk*

AHHHHH

tharwe gooo

I like your pic star!!!

all that milk really didya good!

I knowd it, I knowed it, he just called and asked me to a picanic at a park next week!!! Aghhh. why does this always happen....I try so hard...*little crab is getting crabby✨

itsnot yer fault woman!

cap man can't resist your crabby charm 😉

whered that star come from anyways...ya don't put cute stars when you are "crabby✨

Ughhh

thanks girlfran .... I'm feeling flustered....sneaky cap....I think this is what he had in mind all along....*crabby is getting paranoid now*

"think this is what he had in mind all along"

his long distance "girlfriend" is really a stripper working 15 miles out of town- lol!

not your cap- the sleazy one

just don't let him make you feel guilty

'cause you did NOTHING wrong


easier said than done though...

I have the problem of letting people rent too much space in my head

*knocks on noggin*

GET OUT of there!!!

yeah!!! sleezy sneak anyways...so tell me girlfran....what you packing for...
DB asked ya and I didn't see your response...where u going?

Oh

TRIANGLE PIECES

hehe

lol!


moving

AGAIN!

sheesh

I lose a little more crap with each move though...so this one should be pretty easy

SHOULD be

Isnot ma fault....isnot ma fault.....Aaarrgh! *smacks own head* I'm so dam gullable!

Thx Auntie!!

Yeah...I told this second cap guy that the picanic would not be a good idear and I am still undecided about whether to make an "issue" by discussing it with my guy....I might just move on and give it no more "rent in my head" as schoene very keenly described. It's does make me mad at muyself bc it does make me feel a little dumb for not seeing it coming....the ol gullible streak in me just kills me..