Did it fail because I'm a Capricorn?

So I'm a young Capricorn girl, who recently broke up with a Virgo guy and I can't stop thinking about why our relationship failed, did he not love me enough? At first he was very sweet and attentive a gentleman, then he began to dissapear for 2 to 3 days without even responding my text messages (by the way we were in a relationship for 4 months in the same city, then I moved and we were in long distance relationship for 10 months) so I began to be sad and angry all the time, didn't tell him because I thought he'd get it. But he continued to act the same, so I sent him a message telling him that what was happening? Because I needed constant communication, not every 3 days. So he said he was busy with work and school, that I should stop listening to other people, stop being so negative, that everything was okay. So I continued with him, I tried to make it work but nothing changed so I ended the relationship. Could someone please tell me why he acted like this?

Posted by GoldenFlower
So I'm a young Capricorn girl, who recently broke up with a Virgo guy and I can't stop thinking about why our relationship failed, did he not love me enough? At first he was very sweet and attentive a gentleman, then he began to dissapear for 2 to 3 days without even responding my text messages (by the way we were in a relationship for 4 months in the same city, then I moved and we were in long distance relationship for 10 months) so I began to be sad and angry all the time, didn't tell him because I thought he'd get it. But he continued to act the same, so I sent him a message telling him that what was happening? Because I needed constant communication, not every 3 days. So he said he was busy with work and school, that I should stop listening to other people, stop being so negative, that everything was okay. So I continued with him, I tried to make it work but nothing changed so I ended the relationship. Could someone please tell me why he acted like this?

So he kept communicating with you every 3 days when you ended it?

No, in the relationship he texted me every 2-3 days, or even more. (I most mention that we had 2 similar situations in which we broke up) So I ended it and he wanted to talk about it but since it was always the same thing I didn't answer. After that he hasn't texted me anymore.

I guess it's finally over.

Posted by GoldenFlower
No, in the relationship he texted me every 2-3 days, or even more. (I most mention that we had 2 similar situations in which we broke up) So I ended it and he wanted to talk about it but since it was always the same thing I didn't answer. After that he hasn't texted me anymore.

I guess it's finally over.

What the same things?

So what exactly do you want here?

Posted by GoldenFlower
So I'm a young Capricorn girl, who recently broke up with a Virgo guy and I can't stop thinking about why our relationship failed, did he not love me enough? At first he was very sweet and attentive a gentleman, then he began to dissapear for 2 to 3 days without even responding my text messages (by the way we were in a relationship for 4 months in the same city, then I moved and we were in long distance relationship for 10 months) so I began to be sad and angry all the time, didn't tell him because I thought he'd get it. But he continued to act the same, so I sent him a message telling him that what was happening? Because I needed constant communication, not every 3 days. So he said he was busy with work and school, that I should stop listening to other people, stop being so negative, that everything was okay. So I continued with him, I tried to make it work but nothing changed so I ended the relationship. Could someone please tell me why he acted like this?

Your too dramatic

Ghosting all the time.

I just want to know if I'm to demanding or what did I do wrong for him to act that way.

And I thought I was the ONLY clingy Cap around.

Never hurts to know another one

Pro tip: Don't. Be independent and don't rely on anyone for extended periods of time. If he doesn't contact you, pretend he never existed and continue on that way until he knows that you exist and you need to be talked to.

Posted by youngali
Capricorns tend to think themselves out of a relationship...

Nothing is wrong with you. Try not to over analyze things. I do think you should've spoken up about what you expected from the very beginning, but going forward... never assume that someone will just "get it".

Can you call up my cap and tell him this Twin— Cause bruh.. They never speak up.. They think we're "mind readers.." Uhhh I gotta know what's wrong so that I can FIX it.. Shiiiiiiitt! =/

Posted by drxpxfJupiter
AND never ask other people if what you need/want is TOO much. If that's something that YOU want/need then how can other people tell you that it's too much? It may be too much for them but not for you and you will find someone who is on the same page as you. You just have to know exactly what kind of person you're looking for.

TRUST ME there are plenty men out there who need to communicate EVERY SINGLE day and taht is their standard for being in a relationship. THEN there are plenty of men AND women who think communicating every 2-3 days is perfect because they need to focus on other aspects of their lives etc.

So you see, every person has different standards of communication, relationship, etc and you WANT to find someone with the same belief system as you.

It's true what they say real love is not looking in each other's eyes but looking towards the same direction but find that someone who is looking at relationships, communication, & life goals as you.

True!

Posted by youngali
Capricorns tend to think themselves out of a relationship...

Nothing is wrong with you. Try not to over analyze things. I do think you should've spoken up about what you expected from the very beginning, but going forward... never assume that someone will just "get it".

This ^ you know if you like making it work. Nobody is perfect. You have to open up. Youngali is right (as usual :p)