Posted by ForeverlovemeLol how would you do that? Playing devils advocate? Everyone keeps saying I should but this is why I won't ask him to go out for a drink because he knows how I feel and hasn't asked me anything I know he is super busy and usually goes to be 8:30, 9 but he could clear and concisely ask me out right after work. Sigh
You are so lucky I don't work with you because you guys would've been hooked up by now!
I love reading your stories 🙂
We're usually good at picking up vibes that's why I prefer communicating in person. Also very observant. We can be intuitive, it's not discussed much. You can find it in some articles on Caps though
Posted by ForeverlovemePosted by ladylibra212 coworkers confirmed he was single but I'm sure he gets his dick wet from time to time he is extremely hansome but I don't know he is always telling me he just goes home and cooks then goes to bed. Or goes to visit family then comes home.Posted by Foreverloveme
& like I just mentioned it usually takes someone else pointing out to me "you can tell he likes you" because 90% of the time I'm in my own little world lost in my thoughts.
If you do decide to ask him, the worst he could do is say no. When he mentioned your mood, you could've slid it in like "well you taking me for drinks after work would make me feel so much better 😄"
Everyone says Cap men are traditional so ignore me & keep doing the coy lady thing that you naturally have going for yourself. He will step up to the plate when he's ready & sure of himself & you as well 🙂click to expand
As for ex's he has asked about mine but I haven't been able to ask about his in a natural way another co worker told me that when he had his bad accident a few years ago he was living with a girl and she broke up with him when he came home from the hospital he was on his back for a year.
He has to know I like him I sent him this 2 weeks ago:
I will never understand why such a beautiful person deprives him self of so much I know you are a proud man and enjoy your work and even find a majesty in it but that doesn't mean you aren't capable of enjoying or experiencing things that seem out of your grasp please don't take this as criticism I am merely pointing out that I see lots greatness in you but everyone needs a break and everyone is capable of experiencing what they want just don't work yourself in the grave.
His response:
Aw very nice. I only deprive myself of some things that I want to justify other things It is within my means to take a real vacation I choose to do other things. But it is instilled in my dna to be a workaholic and not take vacation (thanks dad)
Then we talked about depression and I sent him this:
I hope you know you can always talk to me about how you feel I don't like the idea of you being depressed besides I feel like you know all of my secrets and I know non yours and he never responded but was more warm and welcome the next time I saw him
Posted by tctayeah i know about emathy, same here, but it's gets one me, sometimes i get so much involved ,for example one time my ex cheated on me, told me the reason why, started crying and i felt like i was in her place and started crying 2, but not because i was destroyed but because i felt her pain, only after 2 days i realised what she has done , betrayed me, i left with no hard feels because i understood her when i was in that state, but i just didn't want a person like that with me you know 🙂
so @rakac - that was good but still, people can tell when someone they know is in different mood - they just shouldn't assume they know what that mood is and why is what I think you are saying ...
I'm not sure if it's because I have Cap Moon or not but I am a bit empathic and have had to tone that down so I don't absorb other people's energy - I learned that early on growing up in a dysfunctional family I think ...
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