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Common relationship problems experienced by Caps?
Common Relationship Challenges for Capricorns
Capricorns often face issues like emotional distance, control tendencies, or high expectations. Understanding these patterns can help improve communication and intimacy in relationships. Recognizing areas for growth allows Caps to build stronger, more balanced partnerships by addressing underlying concerns and showing vulnerability.
This is a very interesting question how would you want your partner to approach these issues.
Foreveloveme said it!
I always wonder how much my cap likes me because he doesn't share his feelings with words! He's always busy! No clue if we're official. We are monogamous even though we haven't even had sex yet. He moves soooooo slow!
But he's a really sweet guy! I still adore him 🙂
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Cap wants to know how he can be a better partner.1. What are some common complaints about Caps in relationships?
2. In hindsight, what might you have done differently or better in past relationships?
aren't you the one that should know what you need that he might not be fulfilling or am I getting this all wrong ? I mean if things are good, tell him - he wants to know if there is anything more he can give you that he isn't already giving you ...
Posted by pinkbird03
Foreveloveme said it!I always wonder how much my cap likes me because he doesn't share his feelings with words! He's always busy! No clue if we're official. We are monogamous even though we haven't even had sex yet. He moves soooooo slow!
But he's a really sweet guy! I still adore him 🙂
You best be behaving as if you both are official 😉 if ya know what I mean.
Posted by Foreverloveme
Ok in your opinion where do you see problems in your relationship?To answer your questions anyway
1. Common complaints
-he/she is too busy & we hardly see each
-don't express feelings enough
-don't know if we're official
-don't know if they're truly interested
*Based on what I see on the Cap board
2. Nothing because I'm as close to perfection as you're gonna get 😄 lol
Okay honestly, set more boundaries, took less crap.
Caps typically give everything they have & put their all into relationships & making them work
Thanks Foreverloveme!
For us, I supposed the first 2 you listed:
- works too much so we only see each other on weekends.
- doesn't express feelings or concern enough
I'm having a talk with him today so want to be able to give him some concrete things he can do.
Posted by MysteriousPresence
What's his moon and venus?
His moon is Aqua, venus is Pisces.
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Cap wants to know how he can be a better partner.1. What are some common complaints about Caps in relationships?
2. In hindsight, what might you have done differently or better in past relationships?
aren't you the one that should know what you need that he might not be fulfilling or am I getting this all wrong ? I mean if things are good, tell him - he wants to know if there is anything more he can give you that he isn't already giving you ...
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We're having a talk later today as I told him he wasn't giving me what I needed last week.
He wants to work at it so here we are. I want to be able to give him realistic and practical ways he can do things differently.
Posted by ladylibra21
This is a very interesting question how would you want your partner to approach these issues.
I talked to him no holds barred. Very straight up and no sugar coating anything.
Not sure if he liked it haha
Posted by MysteriousPresence
I'll say it out straight - I went through hell with my wife before we got married, she's a Cap sun, Aqua moon and Sag Venus. My main issue with her was her roving eye. I'm a Pisces sun, Scorpio moon and Taurus venus, and I was having none of that. So I gave her an ultimatum the one day saying that it's either me or that, and she seemed to have chosen me. There are other things which irritate me about her, although I won't get into detail about that. But, all in all, I love her, and she loves me, and that's all that really matters at the end of the day.
Tell us the juicy details
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Cap wants to know how he can be a better partner.1. What are some common complaints about Caps in relationships?
2. In hindsight, what might you have done differently or better in past relationships?
aren't you the one that should know what you need that he might not be fulfilling or am I getting this all wrong ? I mean if things are good, tell him - he wants to know if there is anything more he can give you that he isn't already giving you ...
We're having a talk later today as I told him he wasn't giving me what I needed last week.
He wants to work at it so here we are. I want to be able to give him realistic and practical ways he can do things differently.
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oh ok well that's a good thing - but what is he not giving you ? we could shed light from that perspective as well - I am out for the weekend after this ...
Were not all trolls sweet, just ignore them, don't allow them to bother you x
I'm an Aquarius moon,, sag mars and Pisces sun, my hubby has the same sort of issues as you— Strange, but loves me to death, but I would never know unless hes in the mood to show it, not often ?
I don't really have a roving eye, I'm more respectful than that, its very rare someone will catch my attention, its ok to glance momentarily but its when they start touching, you need to worry!
My grandmother, cousins (male and female respectively) and a guy I knew when i was younger.
Of course, their natal placements are not synonymous.
If I could sum up their personality in one assessment in the realms of love, it's this:
Caps
They're very disciplined and reserved on the surface, but there is a lot going on underneath. You're not unfolding any layers to their personality, it's just cracking one hard shell to get to the core of their hearts. Their wisdom comes through experience, and somehow most of them matured a lot faster than their counterparts. It comes across as cold, but it's actually a protective nature, burdened by the weight of taking care of their close family members. So the relationship is treated in the same manner during the initial stages of courtship. It's more about 'action' and 'doing' rather than 'expressing' and 'feeling.' It's not intentional, the territory is just unfamiliar.
If your Cap is still enclosed, perhaps you're not observing enough, or you're not that comfortable in your OWN skin. I notice every Cap I have encountered have lowered their defenses when they are laughing hysterically, and you're actually having a good time being in their presence. They respond well to good hospitality and people who are seeking their advice. They give great advice by the way. They also take pride in their accomplishments, appearance and ambitions. They do appreciate the recognition. Not in the stereotypical 'arrogant' way Caps are known for, but in a candid, genuine type of way...RESPECT.
Example: I respect your views on family, and I think you're very ambitious and kind, it's quite admirable vs Look at your fly clothes, cars, oh my gosh, you look so good.The first half would bring out the best in Cappy, the latter will bring out the worst.
For the women I have encountered, A man who is going to lead in the relationship without suppressing her own ambition, a silent partner, a gentleman, but someone to open her heart to many emotional possibilities.
For the men, a woman who exudes femininity, is headstrong, has her own ambitions and own mind, but this woman knows not to overstep her boundaries. She's subtle, unassuming, flirtatious...some maternal characteristics. If she' s funny, and great in the sack, even better!
Posted by MysteriousPresence
I'll say it out straight - I went through hell with my wife before we got married, she's a Cap sun, Aqua moon and Sag Venus. My main issue with her was her roving eye. I'm a Pisces sun, Scorpio moon and Taurus venus, and I was having none of that. So I gave her an ultimatum the one day saying that it's either me or that, and she seemed to have chosen me. There are other things which irritate me about her, although I won't get into detail about that. But, all in all, I love her, and she loves me, and that's all that really matters at the end of the day.
that's so weird to hear a man say it.
it's usually the woman who is getting pissed off at the man for the ROVING eye.
your dynamic seems reversed.
edit - watch out, if she goes see Tatum Channing at the male strip tease club. lol
omgosh.....psychic...... he's married to a Sagittarius woman.
Posted by MysteriousPresence
I'll say it out straight - I went through hell with my wife before we got married, she's a Cap sun, Aqua moon and Sag Venus. My main issue with her was her roving eye. I'm a Pisces sun, Scorpio moon and Taurus venus, and I was having none of that. So I gave her an ultimatum the one day saying that it's either me or that, and she seemed to have chosen me. There are other things which irritate me about her, although I won't get into detail about that. But, all in all, I love her, and she loves me, and that's all that really matters at the end of the day.that's so weird to hear a man say it.
it's usually the woman who is getting pissed off at the man for the ROVING eye.
your dynamic seems reversed.
edit - watch out, if she goes see Tatum Channing at the male strip tease club. lol
omgosh.....psychic...... he's married to a Sagittarius woman.
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she has sag venus aqua mars (masculine) and he is all water and earth without any air / fire (feminine). the only saving grace would be if her jupiter is in water / earth. otherwise as a woman with all her love planets loving adventures and spontaneous, she is going to find his all water & earth energy boring, restrictive and naggy.
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Cap wants to know how he can be a better partner.1. What are some common complaints about Caps in relationships?
2. In hindsight, what might you have done differently or better in past relationships?
At home these are the following complaints by mom -
1) Works too much, overexerts him self.
2) Unresponsive when (mom is) throwing a tantrum or hurt.
3) Too dismissive and judgmental, critical
4) Too much helping nature. To the point where it feels like he's easily fooled but he's not which is weird.
5) miserly 😄 waste a single penny and ...? Restricts mom's extravagant tendencies - the have serious fights here ?
6) doesn't like to go outside. Mom approaches him "lets go out - shopping or somewhere ?", dad = ? "what do you want to buy now, you want go without a reason? / too much traffic on that road / parking is a problem". He can be a TOTAL wetblanket on her fire 😛
7) wants logic behind things.. Asks too many questions when my mom is readily jumping to do something(mom is fire dominant) - he slows her impulsive tendencies but it irritates mom who is in the heat of the moment. Dad is like cold iceberg. Mom is in raging flames.
8) wants to cook sometimes but dirties the kitchen :p
9) is forgetful - painfully forgetful regarding little things - we call him Professor 😄
I hope my dad doesn't change at all! He balances mom.
Posted by MysteriousPresence
I'll say it out straight - I went through hell with my wife before we got married, she's a Cap sun, Aqua moon and Sag Venus. My main issue with her was her roving eye. I'm a Pisces sun, Scorpio moon and Taurus venus, and I was having none of that. So I gave her an ultimatum the one day saying that it's either me or that, and she seemed to have chosen me. There are other things which irritate me about her, although I won't get into detail about that. But, all in all, I love her, and she loves me, and that's all that really matters at the end of the day.that's so weird to hear a man say it.
it's usually the woman who is getting pissed off at the man for the ROVING eye.
your dynamic seems reversed.
edit - watch out, if she goes see Tatum Channing at the male strip tease club. lol
omgosh.....psychic...... he's married to a Sagittarius woman.
she has sag venus aqua mars (masculine) and he is all water and earth without any air / fire (feminine). the only saving grace would be if her jupiter is in water / earth. otherwise as a woman with all her love planets loving adventures and spontaneous, she is going to find his all water & earth energy boring, restrictive and naggy.
Strangely enough she's quite content being at home, during the week and over the weekends. She's a real homebody. At times it's the reverse, where I find her quite boring, where I feel the need for adventure. But, we compliment each other in many ways. Could astrology be wrong?
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but you're already complaining, even BEFORE you two married.
that's what me and icloud have noticed.
you have irritants about her but you make excuses for her later when we come out and say something to notice your frustrations.
you are both fixed in personal relationships.
we don't even have to SEE the personal planets, it's your complaints and frustrations.
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Cap wants to know how he can be a better partner.1. What are some common complaints about Caps in relationships?
2. In hindsight, what might you have done differently or better in past relationships?
At home these are the following complaints by mom -
1) Works too much, overexerts him self.
2) Unresponsive when (mom is) throwing a tantrum or hurt.
3) Too dismissive and judgmental, critical
4) Too much helping nature. To the point where it feels like he's easily fooled but he's not which is weird.
5) miserly 😄 waste a single penny and ...? Restricts mom's extravagant tendencies - the have serious fights here ?
6) doesn't like to go outside. Mom approaches him "lets go out - shopping or somewhere ?", dad = ? "what do you want to buy now, you want go without a reason? / too much traffic on that road / parking is a problem". He can be a TOTAL wetblanket on her fire 😛
7) wants logic behind things.. Asks too many questions when my mom is readily jumping to do something(mom is fire dominant) - he slows her impulsive tendencies but it irritates mom who is in the heat of the moment. Dad is like cold iceberg. Mom is in raging flames.
8) wants to cook sometimes but dirties the kitchen :p
9) is forgetful - painfully forgetful regarding little things - we call him Professor 😄
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lol
sounds like my brother in law and my sister.
except she is the breadwinner, but she can't handle money that well, so she turns it all to him.
he's not a good money maker guy, works only phone sales, but he's reliable and responsible, and good with money. it's like his DESTINY to be with a woman who makes good money and can handle the finances. It's like he is her bookkeeper.
I don't know any cappy relationships, only my mother in law but she is single, and my grandmother who is a cappy passed away. but she was very frugal.
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Cap wants to know how he can be a better partner.1. What are some common complaints about Caps in relationships?
2. In hindsight, what might you have done differently or better in past relationships?
At home these are the following complaints by mom -
1) Works too much, overexerts him self.
2) Unresponsive when (mom is) throwing a tantrum or hurt.
3) Too dismissive and judgmental, critical
4) Too much helping nature. To the point where it feels like he's easily fooled but he's not which is weird.
5) miserly 😄 waste a single penny and ...? Restricts mom's extravagant tendencies - the have serious fights here ?
6) doesn't like to go outside. Mom approaches him "lets go out - shopping or somewhere ?", dad = ? "what do you want to buy now, you want go without a reason? / too much traffic on that road / parking is a problem". He can be a TOTAL wetblanket on her fire 😛
7) wants logic behind things.. Asks too many questions when my mom is readily jumping to do something(mom is fire dominant) - he slows her impulsive tendencies but it irritates mom who is in the heat of the moment. Dad is like cold iceberg. Mom is in raging flames.
8) wants to cook sometimes but dirties the kitchen :p
9) is forgetful - painfully forgetful regarding little things - we call him Professor 😄
lol
sounds like my brother in law and my sister.
except she is the breadwinner, but she can't handle money that well, so she turns it all to him.
he's not a good money maker guy, works only phone sales, but he's reliable and responsible, and good with money. it's like his DESTINY to be with a woman who makes good money and can handle the finances. It's like he is her bookkeeper.
I don't know any cappy relationships, only my mother in law but she is single, and my grandmother who is a cappy passed away. but she was very frugal.
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aww what signs are your sis and bro-in-law?? 🙂
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Cap wants to know how he can be a better partner.1. What are some common complaints about Caps in relationships?
2. In hindsight, what might you have done differently or better in past relationships?
At home these are the following complaints by mom -
1) Works too much, overexerts him self.
2) Unresponsive when (mom is) throwing a tantrum or hurt.
3) Too dismissive and judgmental, critical
4) Too much helping nature. To the point where it feels like he's easily fooled but he's not which is weird.
5) miserly 😄 waste a single penny and ...? Restricts mom's extravagant tendencies - the have serious fights here ?
6) doesn't like to go outside. Mom approaches him "lets go out - shopping or somewhere ?", dad = ? "what do you want to buy now, you want go without a reason? / too much traffic on that road / parking is a problem". He can be a TOTAL wetblanket on her fire 😛
7) wants logic behind things.. Asks too many questions when my mom is readily jumping to do something(mom is fire dominant) - he slows her impulsive tendencies but it irritates mom who is in the heat of the moment. Dad is like cold iceberg. Mom is in raging flames.
8) wants to cook sometimes but dirties the kitchen :p
9) is forgetful - painfully forgetful regarding little things - we call him Professor 😄
lol
sounds like my brother in law and my sister.
except she is the breadwinner, but she can't handle money that well, so she turns it all to him.
he's not a good money maker guy, works only phone sales, but he's reliable and responsible, and good with money. it's like his DESTINY to be with a woman who makes good money and can handle the finances. It's like he is her bookkeeper.
I don't know any cappy relationships, only my mother in law but she is single, and my grandmother who is a cappy passed away. but she was very frugal.
aww what signs are your sis and bro-in-law?? 🙂
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aries sun/Taurus moon (my sister) with her husband libra sun/pisces moon.
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Cap wants to know how he can be a better partner.1. What are some common complaints about Caps in relationships?
2. In hindsight, what might you have done differently or better in past relationships?
At home these are the following complaints by mom -
1) Works too much, overexerts him self.
2) Unresponsive when (mom is) throwing a tantrum or hurt.
3) Too dismissive and judgmental, critical
4) Too much helping nature. To the point where it feels like he's easily fooled but he's not which is weird.
5) miserly 😄 waste a single penny and ...? Restricts mom's extravagant tendencies - the have serious fights here ?
6) doesn't like to go outside. Mom approaches him "lets go out - shopping or somewhere ?", dad = ? "what do you want to buy now, you want go without a reason? / too much traffic on that road / parking is a problem". He can be a TOTAL wetblanket on her fire 😛
7) wants logic behind things.. Asks too many questions when my mom is readily jumping to do something(mom is fire dominant) - he slows her impulsive tendencies but it irritates mom who is in the heat of the moment. Dad is like cold iceberg. Mom is in raging flames.
8) wants to cook sometimes but dirties the kitchen :p
9) is forgetful - painfully forgetful regarding little things - we call him Professor 😄
lol
sounds like my brother in law and my sister.
except she is the breadwinner, but she can't handle money that well, so she turns it all to him.
he's not a good money maker guy, works only phone sales, but he's reliable and responsible, and good with money. it's like his DESTINY to be with a woman who makes good money and can handle the finances. It's like he is her bookkeeper.
I don't know any cappy relationships, only my mother in law but she is single, and my grandmother who is a cappy passed away. but she was very frugal.
aww what signs are your sis and bro-in-law?? 🙂
aries sun/Taurus moon (my sister) with her husband libra sun/pisces moon.
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Ooooh. Aries-Libra pair!
How long have they been married 😄 ..are they truly opposite as it is said? 🙂
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Cap wants to know how he can be a better partner.1. What are some common complaints about Caps in relationships?
2. In hindsight, what might you have done differently or better in past relationships?
At home these are the following complaints by mom -
1) Works too much, overexerts him self.
2) Unresponsive when (mom is) throwing a tantrum or hurt.
3) Too dismissive and judgmental, critical
4) Too much helping nature. To the point where it feels like he's easily fooled but he's not which is weird.
5) miserly 😄 waste a single penny and ...? Restricts mom's extravagant tendencies - the have serious fights here ?
6) doesn't like to go outside. Mom approaches him "lets go out - shopping or somewhere ?", dad = ? "what do you want to buy now, you want go without a reason? / too much traffic on that road / parking is a problem". He can be a TOTAL wetblanket on her fire 😛
7) wants logic behind things.. Asks too many questions when my mom is readily jumping to do something(mom is fire dominant) - he slows her impulsive tendencies but it irritates mom who is in the heat of the moment. Dad is like cold iceberg. Mom is in raging flames.
8) wants to cook sometimes but dirties the kitchen :p
9) is forgetful - painfully forgetful regarding little things - we call him Professor 😄
lol
sounds like my brother in law and my sister.
except she is the breadwinner, but she can't handle money that well, so she turns it all to him.
he's not a good money maker guy, works only phone sales, but he's reliable and responsible, and good with money. it's like his DESTINY to be with a woman who makes good money and can handle the finances. It's like he is her bookkeeper.
I don't know any cappy relationships, only my mother in law but she is single, and my grandmother who is a cappy passed away. but she was very frugal.
aww what signs are your sis and bro-in-law?? 🙂
aries sun/Taurus moon (my sister) with her husband libra sun/pisces moon.
Ooooh. Aries-Libra pair!
How long have they been married 😄 ..are they truly opposite as it is said? 🙂
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I don't know really, it's hard to say as i'm not living there and am not able to decipher their relationship deeply lol
I just know what they tell me and what my parents tell me because they were there a lot 4 days a week taking care of the children when they both go to work,
oh and I observe too a little, so definitely NOT my type of relationship though. He goes grocery shopping and is basically the "woman" in the relationship. but that's not a bad thing ok?? because they love their dynamics.
he makes less than her of course and before he was a stay at home father. but now his income helped them go further at least to buy a home even if he only gets hourly. He is very responsible.
edit - he is raised by a Capricorn sun mother btw.
Your post got cut off Lisa 😢
Hm...thanks for your response though (: .. I think libra-Aries is a great pairing :p
Posted by lisabethur8
oh and I observe too a little, so definitely NOT my type of relationship though. He goes grocery shopping and is basically the "woman" in the relationship. but that's not a bad thing ok?? because they love their dynamics.he makes less than her of course and before he was a stay at home father. but now his income helped them go further at least to buy a home even if he only gets hourly. He is very responsible.
edit - he is raised by a Capricorn sun mother btw.
Hmm. Yes, if they both are responsible to each other, that's all that matters! (:
Thanks for sharing..
Posted by RumiL
Your post got cut off Lisa 😢Hm...thanks for your response though (: .. I think libra-Aries is a great pairing :p
well all 12 sun signs I've seen work great. lol
but I do NOTICE that aries/libra is always in the chart even if it's not in the sun.
it's the opposite attracts thing going on.
Posted by RumiL
Your post got cut off Lisa 😢Hm...thanks for your response though (: .. I think libra-Aries is a great pairing :p
well all 12 sun signs I've seen work great. lol
but I do NOTICE that aries/libra is always in the chart even if it's not in the sun.
it's the opposite attracts thing going on.
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Do you have any opposite with your husband??
I love opposite pairing! 🙂 ..although I dont understand how Libra and Aries are opposite or similar.. :p
Posted by RumiL
Your post got cut off Lisa 😢Hm...thanks for your response though (: .. I think libra-Aries is a great pairing :p
well all 12 sun signs I've seen work great. lol
but I do NOTICE that aries/libra is always in the chart even if it's not in the sun.
it's the opposite attracts thing going on.
Do you have any opposite with your husband??
I love opposite pairing! 🙂 ..although I dont understand how Libra and Aries are opposite or similar.. :p
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i'm just having brunch right now, lol so .... let's see, yes, leo/aqua is there with me and my husband.
I hope you too find a good opposite for you, RumiL, someone with libra in their planets, you can help eachother.
I know you want to find a good man who is good with computers.
Posted by RumiL
Your post got cut off Lisa 😢Hm...thanks for your response though (: .. I think libra-Aries is a great pairing :p
well all 12 sun signs I've seen work great. lol
but I do NOTICE that aries/libra is always in the chart even if it's not in the sun.
it's the opposite attracts thing going on.
Do you have any opposite with your husband??
I love opposite pairing! 🙂 ..although I dont understand how Libra and Aries are opposite or similar.. :p
i'm just having brunch right now, lol so .... let's see, yes, leo/aqua is there with me and my husband.
I hope you too find a good opposite for you, RumiL, someone with libra in their planets, you can help eachother.
I know you want to find a good man who is good with computers.
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Ahh nice.
Hahah, these days it's rather rare to find one that is not good with computers...exceptions being you n me :p
Hopefully! (:
Posted by RumiL
Your post got cut off Lisa 😢Hm...thanks for your response though (: .. I think libra-Aries is a great pairing :p
well all 12 sun signs I've seen work great. lol
but I do NOTICE that aries/libra is always in the chart even if it's not in the sun.
it's the opposite attracts thing going on.
Do you have any opposite with your husband??
I love opposite pairing! 🙂 ..although I dont understand how Libra and Aries are opposite or similar.. :p
i'm just having brunch right now, lol so .... let's see, yes, leo/aqua is there with me and my husband.
I hope you too find a good opposite for you, RumiL, someone with libra in their planets, you can help eachother.
I know you want to find a good man who is good with computers.
Ahh nice.
Hahah, these days it's rather rare to find one that is not good with computers...exceptions being you n me :p
Hopefully! (:
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yup. we're both bad, well I know I am. well then it should be easy peasy for you to find a guy out there.
Foreverloveme, I PM'd you. Please let me know if you received it. I've been having some trouble with sending/receiving messages.
Thank you.
Posted by Foreverloveme
Ok in your opinion where do you see problems in your relationship?To answer your questions anyway
1. Common complaints
-he/she is too busy & we hardly see each
-don't express feelings enough
-don't know if we're official
-don't know if they're truly interested
*Based on what I see on the Cap board
2. Nothing because I'm as close to perfection as you're gonna get 😄 lol
Okay honestly, set more boundaries, took less crap.
Caps typically give everything they have & put their all into relationships & making them work
Yes, yes and yes
For me and Caps I dated, we tend to shun away and be in our own "shells" when we get stressed up. I would love for myself to change and trust my partner enough to share the good and bad. Not to burden him but let him "cheer me on", provide support in that way....
Posted by Foreverloveme
Ok in your opinion where do you see problems in your relationship?To answer your questions anyway
1. Common complaints
-he/she is too busy & we hardly see each
-don't express feelings enough
-don't know if we're official
-don't know if they're truly interested
*Based on what I see on the Cap board
2. Nothing because I'm as close to perfection as you're gonna get 😄 lol
Okay honestly, set more boundaries, took less crap.
Caps typically give everything they have & put their all into relationships & making them work
Yes, yes and yes
For me and Caps I dated, we tend to shun away and be in our own "shells" when we get stressed up. I would love for myself to change and trust my partner enough to share the good and bad. Not to burden him but let him "cheer me on", provide support in that way....
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Why do you think this is so hard? Mine started opening up in that way then took a serious step back.
Well he ain't mine but one can be optimistic lol
Posted by Foreverloveme
Ok in your opinion where do you see problems in your relationship?To answer your questions anyway
1. Common complaints
-he/she is too busy & we hardly see each
-don't express feelings enough
-don't know if we're official
-don't know if they're truly interested
*Based on what I see on the Cap board
2. Nothing because I'm as close to perfection as you're gonna get 😄 lol
Okay honestly, set more boundaries, took less crap.
Caps typically give everything they have & put their all into relationships & making them work
Yes, yes and yes
For me and Caps I dated, we tend to shun away and be in our own "shells" when we get stressed up. I would love for myself to change and trust my partner enough to share the good and bad. Not to burden him but let him "cheer me on", provide support in that way....
Why do you think this is so hard? Mine started opening up in that way then took a serious step back.
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Its about trusting someone more than ourselves and thats innate.....dont think theres anything you can do but build trust, cant change overnight
i'm just having brunch right now, lol so .... let's see, yes, leo/aqua is there with me and my husband.
I hope you too find a good opposite for you, RumiL, someone with libra in their planets, you can help eachother.
I know you want to find a good man who is good with computers.
click to expandOoohhh leo/aqua in which planets? My venus aqua opp someone I m dating leo mars. Very strong attraction, but I m not sure if that will eventually snap. His moon conj my venus aqua....
Posted by MysteriousPresence
I'll say it out straight - I went through hell with my wife before we got married, she's a Cap sun, Aqua moon and Sag Venus. My main issue with her was her roving eye. I'm a Pisces sun, Scorpio moon and Taurus venus, and I was having none of that. So I gave her an ultimatum the one day saying that it's either me or that, and she seemed to have chosen me. There are other things which irritate me about her, although I won't get into detail about that. But, all in all, I love her, and she loves me, and that's all that really matters at the end of the day.
that's great - I love it - people who work together stay together ... it truly is all about understanding, compromising, communicating, working on things, wanting to make it work, doing the work, understanding that people are unique and not all things can change and accepting them for the way they are, and then the profits - oh the profits ...
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