Posted by M
Me tonight. I'm pinning it on the moon moving into Cancer though.
Posted by ellessque
where is your mars and mercury? those are missing from your profile.
Posted by ellessque
where is your mars and mercury? those are missing from your profile.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
The question is, what are you doing to increase your chances of meeting more women?
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Looks like you've got it all planned out then, however..do you realise that with this plan and your current attitude you're making certain choices which limit the room for a "loving relationship" quite a lot? It doesnt have to be either A or B, Im pretty sure you can find activities with like-minded people where there's the kind of women you'd be attracted to.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I believe in the philosophy of building your own scene little by little, doesnt matter what it is about...if you love gaming, you can create your own little club of game-freaks and so on, that way you can meet both females and males who more often than not will be compatible with your own set of ideals. Create your own chances.
Posted by lnana04
I agree with Shaka there. We can have an "it will fall into my lap" along with "when it does, it will work around me" attitude at times. All of that sitting back and waiting, whether for the person or the opportunity, doesn't always work in our favor.
Posted by lnana04
*sigh*
This thread cursed me that quick. I just came back from a long stroll with my niece around a neighboring neighborhood, and confirmed, in my mind, that I want a house there. Older modeled "old money" type of homes, extremely quiet, well kept, cozy, well shaded(lots of trees) neighborhood. *sigh*i fell in love. So yeah, I thought about a small family for a second, but I even saw a smaller chic house if I was to be single.
I'm about to contradict myself, as usual lately, but my plan is to work my behind off, buy the home I want in that neighborhood hopefully, find a man that has his own home, and he can come and move in mine until we come together with a house we both want. Talk about unrealistic, but its my plan lol. If only it all can really happen within the next few years, *crosses fingers*
Posted by M
Caps are a varied specie indeed. But if anyone would understand it's another Cappy.
Posted by morningsb
Don't worry. Once you get a job and flash around in the BMW, no matter how nerdy you are, all these hot women would want you. Just because you drive a BMW. That saddens me though. I'm surrounded by men but I might as well not be. 😢
Posted by PecheressePosted by UsernameTaken
Remember that sticker that goes : dont hold strong opinions about things you don't understand?
That's what you should tell your ex's when they patronize you like that. They just project their shitty self esteem on you. You are probably just too good for them. Too much of a free thinker. Your friends got babies? Well, good on them. when my friends got kids, and friends of friends followed the trend and did the same, I was like hello? Talk about some achievement. You're only doing what society tells you to do.
The best things come to those who wait. Such truth in this saying, right? I'm cap rising so being on my own is okay. I've travelled around the world on my own, I'm quite an adventurous girl & I do what the hell I want to do. Of course it bothers some people, but it just confirms I make the right decisions! So just take your time...no need to rush.... 🙂click to expand
that's a really good point. actually, the majority of my friends got kids, either cuz of a "trend", although having a child should not be associated with a trend, this is a fucking baby, or it was because the baby was unplanned. People are just idiots. My scorpio ex used to bring up a topic of conversation all the time, saying how she doesnt like condoms, sex feels better without them, just pull out, i'm on birth control etc etc. you can bet your ass i wrapped my dick up TIGHT after that. She ended up getting pregnant by some dude she said she only liked because he was supposed to come into money, but would still trail after me for sex and try to profess her love for me. this girl was mentally screwed six ways from Sunday.
Posted by morningsb
Nerdy men dont like nerdy girls. 😢
Posted by UsernameTakenPosted by morningsb
Don't worry. Once you get a job and flash around in the BMW, no matter how nerdy you are, all these hot women would want you. Just because you drive a BMW. That saddens me though. I'm surrounded by men but I might as well not be. 😢
yeah, its girls like that that i shy away from. the only thing theyre gonna be doing is watching my tail lights as i drive off.click to expand
Posted by UsernameTakenPosted by M
Caps are a varied specie indeed. But if anyone would understand it's another Cappy.
I second that.click to expand
Posted by 24capgal18
I noticed that a lot of caps have the general sun part in common but those natural aspects of our birthchart hender us from all bein the same ...take me for example I am a virgo moon ,darkmoon(lilth )in cancer:which makes me become extremely emotional on the conversation front sometimes libra rising, venus in sag, mars in aries...I am sensitive to other peoples body language, so it makes relationships difficult for me opposed to being alone and confused about weather other people have feelings for me or not . Normally I can tell off intuition weather someone is genuinly into me or not, so I am not always single for to long...Unless I choose I am tired of going thru reruns of the same bullbutter....Being lonely is something I can relate to because our moon signs are totally sensitive but other caps have stronger moon signs so they can take care of themselves emotionally pretty well
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
ask yourself this why do you want a relationship is because you feel lonely no matter if you enter in one you will still be lonely until you find your root cause of your loneliness no one can fill that gap till u understand.
i known people who enter in a relationship and they dont know why which is sad the first thing they said i dont want be alone.
sometimes you gotta learn how to stand on your own not everybody is gonna hold your hand to help you cross the street.
maybe this is my moon square pluto talking or my venus square saturn lol.
being single rock btw lmao.
but UsernameTaken i hope you find your happiness that u seek.
Posted by MPosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by UsernameTakenPosted by M
Caps are a varied specie indeed. But if anyone would understand it's another Cappy.
I second that.
If you care to look outside your own sign, Im sure you'll find out that is exactly the case with all other signs as well 🙂
Nope. You all might be varied but we have as many facets as a gemstone. It;s not purely a matter of like kind, it;s nobody has a hope of knowing a Cap, but another Cap would come the closest.
I'm having an off day so if that made no sense find a capppy to decipher it for you 😛click to expand
Posted by UsernameTakenPosted by LeGendary ViRGo
ask yourself this why do you want a relationship is because you feel lonely no matter if you enter in one you will still be lonely until you find your root cause of your loneliness no one can fill that gap till u understand.
i known people who enter in a relationship and they dont know why which is sad the first thing they said i dont want be alone.
sometimes you gotta learn how to stand on your own not everybody is gonna hold your hand to help you cross the street.
maybe this is my moon square pluto talking or my venus square saturn lol.
being single rock btw lmao.
but UsernameTaken i hope you find your happiness that u seek.
thanks bro, it'll all come eventually. i just get tired of waiting at times, i'm sure we all do. i def get what you're saying though, i know i can't handle a relationship currently because its not my top priority. getting my career in line comes first before anything else. it's all good, i appreciate the tough love lolclick to expand
Posted by ellessque
LV 🙂
how are you?
Posted by thxbutnothx
"i know i can't handle a relationship currently because its not my top priority. getting my career in line comes first before anything else."
I have seen this attitude mainly in earth signs.
Frankly, I think that's why I admire non-earth folks in this aspect. Life is full of suprises and challenges. Just when we think we are about to get our career in line something may come up suddently and mess us up. Why can't we multitask? Are you going to regret that you didn't spend more time at work on your deathbed? I hope not.
Posted by LeGendary ViRGoPosted by UsernameTakenPosted by LeGendary ViRGo
ask yourself this why do you want a relationship is because you feel lonely no matter if you enter in one you will still be lonely until you find your root cause of your loneliness no one can fill that gap till u understand.
i known people who enter in a relationship and they dont know why which is sad the first thing they said i dont want be alone.
sometimes you gotta learn how to stand on your own not everybody is gonna hold your hand to help you cross the street.
maybe this is my moon square pluto talking or my venus square saturn lol.
being single rock btw lmao.
but UsernameTaken i hope you find your happiness that u seek.
thanks bro, it'll all come eventually. i just get tired of waiting at times, i'm sure we all do. i def get what you're saying though, i know i can't handle a relationship currently because its not my top priority. getting my career in line comes first before anything else. it's all good, i appreciate the tough love lol
no prob man its just real im talking relationships is never my priority either its my money me good friends and my mother lol.
u such a typical cap for your response but dont worry yourself things always work out themselves if your meant to have a relationship you will have one and you will kno its the right person for you never fall the misconception that you need a relationship to be happy be yourself and be happy.
never rush anything my friend.
🙂click to expand
Posted by thxbutnothx
"i know i can't handle a relationship currently because its not my top priority. getting my career in line comes first before anything else."
I have seen this attitude mainly in earth signs.
Frankly, I think that's why I admire non-earth folks in this aspect. Life is full of suprises and challenges. Just when we think we are about to get our career in line something may come up suddently and mess us up. Why can't we multitask? Are you going to regret that you didn't spend more time at work on your deathbed? I hope not.
Posted by UsernameTakenPosted by thxbutnothx
"i know i can't handle a relationship currently because its not my top priority. getting my career in line comes first before anything else."
I have seen this attitude mainly in earth signs.
Frankly, I think that's why I admire non-earth folks in this aspect. Life is full of suprises and challenges. Just when we think we are about to get our career in line something may come up suddently and mess us up. Why can't we multitask? Are you going to regret that you didn't spend more time at work on your deathbed? I hope not.
i'm certainly not going to do it the other way around. find a girl, settle down, have children then worry about careers? it all seems silly to me. people i know who have done things that way usually end up struggling then the relationship falls apart anyway.click to expand
Posted by thxbutnothx
"i'm perfectly fine with the way i do things 🙂"
you know, i'm loving the simley face lol who (is it ell the scorp lol) said you lacked sense of humor lol
i'm sure you are "perfectly fine with the way you do things". this thread is a good evidence of course. keep it up
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by UsernameTakenPosted by thxbutnothx
"i know i can't handle a relationship currently because its not my top priority. getting my career in line comes first before anything else."
I have seen this attitude mainly in earth signs.
Frankly, I think that's why I admire non-earth folks in this aspect. Life is full of suprises and challenges. Just when we think we are about to get our career in line something may come up suddently and mess us up. Why can't we multitask? Are you going to regret that you didn't spend more time at work on your deathbed? I hope not.
i'm certainly not going to do it the other way around. find a girl, settle down, have children then worry about careers? it all seems silly to me. people i know who have done things that way usually end up struggling then the relationship falls apart anyway.
This black/white attitude about balancing relationship v.s. career is what creates a mental obstacle for you and prevents you from enjoying what a lot of other people can actually manage quite well, without "failing" career-wise (if that's what you're afraid of). You obviously desire to be loved by a woman and to love her (otherwise you wouldnt have started this thread) which is perfectly understandable. My question to you is, how reasonable is it to believe that you can only EITHER build a succesful career without someone at your side OR be with someone at your side and THEREFORE forget about building a succesful career?
Do you really believe these are the only options?
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Far from repeating yourself. If anything you've made a 180 from your first post to your last.
Im sure it all makes sense to you, but I think the consensus was that you were reaching out for an emotional boost in an area it now seems you aren't as much concerned with.
Posted by UsernameTakenPosted by 24capgal18
I noticed that a lot of caps have the general sun part in common but those natural aspects of our birthchart hender us from all bein the same ...take me for example I am a virgo moon ,darkmoon(lilth )in cancer:which makes me become extremely emotional on the conversation front sometimes libra rising, venus in sag, mars in aries...I am sensitive to other peoples body language, so it makes relationships difficult for me opposed to being alone and confused about weather other people have feelings for me or not . Normally I can tell off intuition weather someone is genuinly into me or not, so I am not always single for to long...Unless I choose I am tired of going thru reruns of the same bullbutter....Being lonely is something I can relate to because our moon signs are totally sensitive but other caps have stronger moon signs so they can take care of themselves emotionally pretty well
i understand that feeling. when i was a bit more social, i'd have lots of girls around but through experience i found that none of them really understood me as a person. i got sick of it as well, because i'm very picky about who i date. One difference though, is that i'm very intuitive when it comes to telling how people are feeling through their body language. when it comes to how they feel however, it's the exact opposite due to my emotional unavailability. i'm usually 50/50 on being lonely. some days i'm stronger about it, other days i'm weak. it depends on my mood, surroundings, sometimes even the weather. i feel that it's my cancer moon as well, cuz if i didn't have it i'd probably be a lot less sensitive to certain things. i don't feel it hinders me tho, i feel everyday that i live i become a stronger person. those who i care about, i feel, have the best kind of love coming their way.click to expand
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