for the single Capricorns..... (Page 2)

2500 characters is way too little for a cap to fully explain themselves LOL

I understand you mate, even if Ive been lucky enough never to have lived in that same environment you have to put up with 😢 Im sure you'll get out of it as soon as you have the opportunity to.

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Posted by UsernameTaken
is that sarcasm i detect in your post r is it just me? 😛

sarcasm? who? me? i wonder where you got the unthinkable idea lol

to be serious though, i may be bitchy at times but i am always sensible to sensible. so, based on your most recent responses, i'd say nah it was probably just you (this time. not sure about next) lol 😛

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lol you dick! 😛

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I understand you mate, even if Ive been lucky enough never to have lived in that same environment you have to put up with 😢 Im sure you'll get out of it as soon as you have the opportunity to.

you have no idea how badly i want to.

Posted by UsernameTaken
2500 characters is way too little for a cap to fully explain themselves LOL

not at all , we will talk all day about what ever long as whoever will lisen even if they dont we will get on with what ever we were talkin about kmsl

Single cappies, what exactly are you looking for in a relationship? I know cappies like to start off being friends first which is good because you need plenty of time to see how things progress before letting on that person into your life.

Do you actually put them through tests like being "harsh" and "mean" to someone you like than with just friends, you can be so damn nice.

Posted by M
Tests are usually loyalty based but really we assess *you* in different ways. Don;t worry about the tests, we'll know one way or another how you are and be ourselves accordingly :p In my experience most tests are involuntary and instead of one outcome I'm looking over yours for specific things.

What do we look for? The one 🙂

Being a guy though I think you want Capette responses :p

I thought so too. I don't worry too much about the assessment really because if I am being who I am, if I 'failed' the assessment, then I guess it is meant to be and she's not the one then too for me.

Doesnt really matter if a cappette answers as long as its a cap's replies, Im keen to hear both sides. Sexuality can be fluid.

What do we want? Stability and security!

No, we're not going to test you. If we come off as harsh or mean, it's just honesty, and we're trying to be helpful in most cases... unless you're just driving us crazy and we need to simply tell you how it is because you're being insatiable!!

Posted by cheekyfaerie
For me it's instinctual. We can be friends till the cows come home, but if you don't have that *thing*, it's not gonna happen.

Attraction is instantaneous. You've got me. How you carry yourself after you've got my attention is the test. It's not something I put anyone thru, it's watching them and learning more about them as an individual. Not really a test imo, just giving someone enough rope to hang themselves.

I too even have to agree with cheek...When that IT!! is there for a capricorn woman, we give it a chance..if the person acts as if they do not wanna give into that expectation of what we invisioned their potential to be then that rope (or What I like to say is (Time Limit EXPIRES)I have seen all there is to be seen, not sayin im not patient, because i would deal with it to give them a chance to correct the issue.Its up to them though so common cappy trait

The loyalty test I always view as; if this person is gonna be around me ,then I need to know they are trustworthy,and truel geniunely since wittheir intentions(cause I am very kind hearted and it could be taken advantage of easily)plus I feel I am destined for greatness and I will have success and money out the ass.. so I will leave some trap that others view as me bein nieve, but they dont understand or care their being tested.....All we want is someone we could open all the way up to share our world with, even if they dont understand our way of thinkin they would atleast try to , LOVE just that to us

yep well we all have similiar techniques on how we discribe it, but it all narrows down to the same thing ...we want someone to prove us wrong about our predetermined image about these people who we're dealin with...if they hang themselves that doesnt mean we dont continue to see if thats the only time they will or not we watch em closer then...if they continue then they just hang themselves there

all the time

im thinking i may have to be content with ending up alone

Posted by M
"Not really a test imo, just giving someone enough rope to hang themselves."

LOL

+1

So its a case of guilty until proven innocence?

I am gonna be honest about me>>>guilty until proven innocent is sort of how i explained it to a close cuzzin of mine....i expect someone to eliminate that predetermined judgement I have invisioned of how they could percieve us and what their motives are ....Until that happens, I do still give them a chance,but is it fair??no because I am always thinkin of that possibility that they'll do wrong to me...so i stay gaurded which makes me hope that person could be the one I exit out of this phase for, but non ever really try to see, or understand the true me...they normally dont make it past the stage of me sittin back observing them

Posted by cheekyfaerie
For me it's instinctual. We can be friends till the cows come home, but if you don't have that *thing*, it's not gonna happen.

Attraction is instantaneous. You've got me. How you carry yourself after you've got my attention is the test. It's not something I put anyone thru, it's watching them and learning more about them as an individual. Not really a test imo, just giving someone enough rope to hang themselves.

i couldn't have said it better myself. Cheeky always brings it with the sound advice and opinions. you're good people cheeky.

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Posted by M
"Not really a test imo, just giving someone enough rope to hang themselves."

LOL

+1

Ok. So maybe not the most eloquent way to put it. 😄

True tho.

You can learn so much about a person's loyalty, compassion, temperament and whatnot if ya just sit back and wait a spell.

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just sit back, observe, analyze, and weigh the good from the bad. whilst asking ourselves, do we really want to date this person? if you want a Cap, male or female, ya gotta be on your toes.

unless you're another earth sign of course. earth understands earth better than anyone, same with fire water and air.

ITA with other comments on here.

I dont like being alone either. But I do like my space when i want it. LOL

I sometimes think of past loves lost, people i didnt give a fair shake and think 'what if', people I gave my heart too that never deserved it, men who come back into my life and suddenly want me when I'm not available(lol) etc..

I'm with a virgo now, love him to death, and in 3 weeks we'll be living together. I've been living alone for awhile..cha-cha-changes and yeah I'm a bit scared..lol

earth understand earth..yes we do..most of the time..but I still question my virgo at times..like the 'deer in headlights look' and think "are u kidding me??" Everything shows in my eyes and face.LOL

Posted by capbaby
earth understand earth..yes we do..most of the time..but I still question my virgo at times..like the 'deer in headlights look' and think "are u kidding me??" Everything shows in my eyes and face.LOL

it's ok to be scared of the unknown, you're just coming out of your "safe zone" that you created after living alone for that period of time, it'll pass. Virgo's are good people, but sometimes they're really weird. or emotional, idk, i can't explain it. had a virgo friend for years, but then one day he just started acting like he had a chip on his shoulder and the entire world owed him something. he'd get mad over the smallest things, like if i posted more than one thing in the span of 5 minutes on his facebook page. ridiculous things. it was probably just him though, i know he had a mood disorder. anyway, i'm rambling. i wish you the best of luck 🙂