FUCK Capricorns !

If a cap takes a long time to really let you in, if they seem confused, or having hot&cold behavior it is not because they don't love you but more of them being afraid to take the risk and the more time passes by the bigger their fear gets.

It is either black or white in the end, you either grab them by their horns right away or let them have totall control over the situation and of the take of a final decision, in what might seems like years (sometimes literally years).

If any of you have been in a close relationship with a cap (like being married, living together) you most surely know how a cap is and act when he's 100% comfortable and sure about the relationship.

Why I'm saying this it's because I see a lot of people coming here and find different excuses for the behavior of their caps.Yes,caps act wierd when stressed, they do need space from time to time, yes they are not the warmest person but still...to shout off for days or even weeks,to not be totally sure about your relationship status, to take breaks from the relationship, to non stop wonder what he/she's thinking and why he/she's acting weird and distant...it is nothing but a big waste of time,no matter what he/she said to you (like "I love you" or "I wanna have a future with you) if he/she is not consistent on showing you through actions and through an open communication,like adults do, then again you're wasting your time, because he/she's NOT SURE about the whole thing(this is something that they might think or feel,or both,so they might not even recognize that to themselves).

The solution... confront them, by talking about your relationship and the feelings for each other openly.If he/she feels awkward to have this kind of discussion then fine (not cool for an adult), you made your point now wait for the changes in behavior and actions..no change or slightly some small ones...then bye,bye!

He/she will have time to think and decide if they really wanna be with you, and acting like it, or not.

The only good stories I have heard and I tend to believe in them are the ones where a person made very clear his/her feelings and his/her needs to a cap then he/she left him, after a 1 year or so, they come back changed, 100% sure about his/her love.Now that might work.

Like a conclusion,not saying that caps are bad ('cause they're not), but if a cap makes you problems be sure about one thing THEY ARE NOT SURE about you,your relationship,the prospect of the relationship, the love he/has for you, the love you have for them etc. they are not sure about being with you. And you make a big mistake staying around and waiting for a change,or worse accepting his/her behavior and trying to "save" him/her.This could go on for ages.They need to process,analyse,feel deeply what's inside themselves and they have to do this without you being there for him/her.

But maybe here are some masochists and they actually enjoy the pain...

And if a cap comes back after, let's say 3 months, you are still in danger of getting in for a second round of pain.They need a lot of time to grow up (emotionally).

Life is scary, relationships are even scarier, caps don't function like most people do when it comes to love...but still, they are not stupid,nor blind ,they know and feel how they make you suffer in one way or another, and they feel bad about it...but that's all.Most of them are afraid and/or unsure about love and you don't want to waste your time on something you have 0 control over, it is totally their problem and they should work on it by themselves.

Like I said he/she might really have feelings for you,strong feelings, but we all know feelings are not enough to make a relationship work.

All I have said it's based on the way I am and the way other caps around me are (mostly men), I often talk about relationships with caps and they all made those mistakes and then regret it later.

Sorry for the lack of organization in ideas (I've made some breaks while writing this).

I know I've pointed what for some might seem like the obvious, but I felt the need after reading so many similar threads about caps.

If a cap is sure about you and the relationship you'll know it, they team up with you and wanna build something with you, they get out of their way to make you feel loved and appreciated (not once or twice,but always), they include you in their future plans,they ask for your opinions and the most important they TALK (not in a lovey dovey way), but they talk openly and constantly about everything.

Very well said. As a fellow Cap, I agree 100% .

I’m not gonna read all that, because I really don’t give a damn about capricorns. Sorry

Bitter Brigade.

It’s comical to see how our slow moving asses irritate the hell out of people. Op has to be an aqua sun lol

Caps only move slow when we are unsure, insecure or fearful about a situation. So most of her rant is right

I am a cap and I am guilty of everything I said there, but I have learn from my past experiences and now I am very clear with my intentions when it comes to relationships.

It always seemed to me that for cap men it is kinda harder to get in touch with their emotions and express them in a honest and healthy way.

Also,apart from being a cap, I have been in love with a cap for a long time...he was nothing but a pain in the ass, or how others would say, an unevolved capricorn.

Great post OP. I'm proud to be a Capricorn sun.

I agree with you totally! 🙂 When I have real feelings for someone and really wanna be with them I talk, I show them I care about them, I’m open with them... the thing is, what hurts me the most is when I finally have courage to do this is and then it feels like the other person doesn’t appreciate it, that breaks my heart a bit and that’s when real shit happens 😁

Very good post, spot on big time. They act absolutely non sensible way. Even recognisable narcissistic traits all along. They go against common sense, trust feelings instead of logic and rational thinking. They can't coop with being criticises even if it benefits them, they see as offensive instead of constructive. Like children does, you have to parent them. They mature in general sense but emotionally a guaranteed drama. On the positive side, they very loyal, and true partner, going through hard time still stands. Loving and caring yes, but that stubbornness makes them self destructive. Passive aggressive doesn't work guys, compromise, work towards each other has potential solution

To be honest I think I've wrote it like this : 20% about me, 30% about other caps and 50% about my cap.

Looking back now I do think I might exaggerated a bit. It was more like a wake up call for me and for those who struggle with a cap.

Now I look at the post and I feel about it the same I feel about emotions and intimacy in general; uncomfortable, too exposed, out of my control.lol.

I wouldn't know exactly how other caps are, but beside all of their qualities (which are so many), I guess all of them are not in touch with their emotions, like..I can talk about them in a rational way, like a psychologist would do ...but if I look inside, there is a mist, I can't see almost nothing, the emotions are there but I can't get to them...I simply can't.. until the emotions get to me and then I either get inexplicably angry or worst, I feel physically sick. (but this doesn't affect my behavior to others)

I think caps are born with this tendency to repress emotions, because that's how they function best. Also, they don't have so much emotions like others (thank god).I am living with a cancer, a sign that I get along easily , but daaamn...she just feels everything so deeply and let those emotions out without a problem.

Honestly, I don't know how to look inside of me, how to really process a emotion.Example, when I have a failure of any kind I accept it and go on with (fighting in) life, but I don't allow myself to deeply feel that disappointment.

But yeah, caps are loyal and they care deeply about others and one of their biggest fear is hurting those they care about, so when this happens be sure they didn't do it on purpose.

Posted by justlikeheaven
To be honest I think I've wrote it like this : 20% about me, 30% about other caps and 50% about my cap.

Looking back now I do think I might exaggerated a bit. It was more like a wake up call for me and for those who struggle with a cap.

Now I look at the post and I feel about it the same I feel about emotions and intimacy in general; uncomfortable, too exposed, out of my control.lol.

I wouldn't know exactly how other caps are, but beside all of their qualities (which are so many), I guess all of them are not in touch with their emotions, like..I can talk about them in a rational way, like a psychologist would do ...but if I look inside, there is a mist, I can't see almost nothing, the emotions are there but I can't get to them...I simply can't.. until the emotions get to me and then I either get inexplicably angry or worst, I feel physically sick. (but this doesn't affect my behavior to others)

I think caps are born with this tendency to repress emotions, because that's how they function best. Also, they don't have so much emotions like others (thank god).I am living with a cancer, a sign that I get along easily , but daaamn...she just feels everything so deeply and let those emotions out without a problem.

Honestly, I don't know how to look inside of me, how to really process a emotion.Example, when I have a failure of any kind I accept it and go on with (fighting in) life, but I don't allow myself to deeply feel that disappointment.

But yeah, caps are loyal and they care deeply about others and one of their biggest fear is hurting those they care about, so when this happens be sure they didn't do it on purpose.

Lots of truth in here, I like the context and content of your comments, very compact.

For a cap reassurance very much basic. They are mostly closed in one profile, and open only if they already see your love or affection, they return it, then falling back to the original state. Sometimes they get fun, can be cheeky or funny, absolutely opposite how they present themselves seemingly without reason. Everything is about response, they always check how you are then adjust to that. They need lots of space, not sure how they process things but takes ages for them. It's like they live in a bubble and look out just occasionally. I like many of their qualities, I must say the most feminine sign regardless their coldness, reserved, determined, discipline, strong in nature. Their stubbornness is most of the time out of reality, overplay situations, stack in the mud, inflexible as fuck. For aries is too slow, but sometimes good as they calm us down. You need to push them a bit to relax and loose stiffness, they need lots of nurturing but they don't show or asking for it

Hit it on the head

Posted by UnicornSag

Posted by justlikeheaven
To be honest I think I've wrote it like this : 20% about me, 30% about other caps and 50% about my cap.

Looking back now I do think I might exaggerated a bit. It was more like a wake up call for me and for those who struggle with a cap.

Now I look at the post and I feel about it the same I feel about emotions and intimacy in general; uncomfortable, too exposed, out of my control.lol.

I wouldn't know exactly how other caps are, but beside all of their qualities (which are so many), I guess all of them are not in touch with their emotions, like..I can talk about them in a rational way, like a psychologist would do ...but if I look inside, there is a mist, I can't see almost nothing, the emotions are there but I can't get to them...I simply can't.. until the emotions get to me and then I either get inexplicably angry or worst, I feel physically sick. (but this doesn't affect my behavior to others)

I think caps are born with this tendency to repress emotions, because that's how they function best. Also, they don't have so much emotions like others (thank god).I am living with a cancer, a sign that I get along easily , but daaamn...she just feels everything so deeply and let those emotions out without a problem.

Honestly, I don't know how to look inside of me, how to really process a emotion.Example, when I have a failure of any kind I accept it and go on with (fighting in) life, but I don't allow myself to deeply feel that disappointment.

But yeah, caps are loyal and they care deeply about others and one of their biggest fear is hurting those they care about, so when this happens be sure they didn't do it on purpose.

do you have strong Neptune in your chart? Aspecting your personal planets? Somehow your post sounds like that, under the strong effect of Neptune

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I don't think so, although I'm not good with these charts.I would show you, because I'm curious of your opinion, but I don't know how to attach a screenshot to this message..

Posted by NelsonSacramento
Hail Capricorn, the day a Cap woman comes to me i will be happy to talk to her ❤️

The same way I think about scorpio men.lol they must stay hidden somewhere, 'cause I met like two or three in my whole life.