taurusgirl9000
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You had a first date and expected him to talk commitment during? Lower your expectations.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by starlordPosted by Gobby
He has an Aqua Venus, which means he's going to take his time in the love department. He needs to be reassured that you can be his lover AND best friend, before he acts the way you expect him to.
The present was a simple gesture of thanks, especially for your hospitality.
If you're expecting something out of a slushy Hollywood movie, especially so soon, you're not going to get it from him...
If one is to believe in astrology that aquarius venus thing is very very difficult to pin down.
Just had experience with cap sun and aquarius venus. He has turned out to be one of the coldest most detatched guys I've ever met.
He was confusing because he talked about maybe catching feelings for me before we did anything, but as he said now: he just didn't. And he's never going to.
At least they are honest.
If anything, that combo seeks to settle down. It's just a Cap with Aqua Venus takes time to determine whether or not they like a person they found physically attractive, and the result depends highly on whether or not they see a future with you. They could, for example, like you but found it unrealistic to have a relationship with you, in which then they will eventually move on from you. This combo isn't necessarily cold but I think they can be if they feel the need to distant from you.
I find in your posts that you tend to think a lot and your posts tend to be much serious. Aqua Venus tend to like light-hearted conversations and humour. I find Cap with Aqua Venus loves it when you can make them laugh. It's not that they can't do serious conversations, but they may find those as more of a burden than an enjoyment. If they find that they don't enjoy being around you, they are probably like to distant from you as well.
IMO 🙂
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Yeah, I do understand that about him. He uses humor and jokes constantly and we end up never having serious conversations. At one point he said, "I hope you know I don't mean it, if I'm joking when we're talking about something serious." LOL We were laughing a lot when we were together. He kept saying, "You're so funny." And I genuinely think he is too.
I don't push, I actually am letting him "lead" and just seeing what he does say and how he behaves. He did say he was looking for a serious relationship, that he does want to settle down with the right person, and that he thought we had good potential before meeting me. I know that he's willing to move and I told him I was also willing to move (we're both in "transition" times in our lives). He did keep referring to "next time" as we walked around my city and told me that he loved it here.
You're right, I am an over-thinker and I do care a lot about the people I let into my life, whereas he seems to keep me at arm's length emotionally and wants everything to be light and fun. It can come across as uncaring. I have no idea how I'll know how he really feels, that's the only problem with his way of being. But I do know about him that he's honest. He told me some things about himself that were really unflattering all for the sake of honesty. And I do appreciate that trait in him.
Posted by starlord
Am a little upset by this situation, because this is how it almost always goes. Guys do not develop feelings towards me. I find that very sad sometimes. And I wish I knew why.
Haven't we already covered why in one of your threads and you agreed...?
Posted by starlordPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by starlord
Am a little upset by this situation, because this is how it almost always goes. Guys do not develop feelings towards me. I find that very sad sometimes. And I wish I knew why.
Haven't we already covered why in one of your threads and you agreed...?
Probably. But obviously I just don't get it when I am in the midst if things. I've been treated so badly before, so that kind of takes me over and I become well kind of mental. I see now that it's that proces of knowing where one stands that's killing me and makes me crazy. But I can't see that when I am in the middle of it. What's a girl to do😄click to expand
What's your moon?
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?click to expand
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
Posted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are coolclick to expand
Yeah I am partial to Capricorn men too 🙂
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
Yeah I am partial to Capricorn men too 🙂click to expand
Right on!
Now he will expect you to visit him, to his country. If I know Cap men right...
Posted by c0mrade
Now he will expect you to visit him, to his country. If I know Cap men right...
I would like to but I don't know how to approach it. LOL Part of me wonders if his Pisces Mars is sort of making him lack incentive in this area. Maybe he's just waiting for me to say something about it.
I'm so interested in him but don't want to scare him away!
Posted by Gobby
He has an Aqua Venus, which means he's going to take his time in the love department. He needs to be reassured that you can be his lover AND best friend, before he acts the way you expect him to.
The present was a simple gesture of thanks, especially for your hospitality.
If you're expecting something out of a slushy Hollywood movie, especially so soon, you're not going to get it from him...
This. This kind of sounds like me, minus the Mars in Pisces. Maybe his Aqua is in retrograde too (like myself).
Posted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are coolclick to expand
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by starlordPosted by Gobby
He has an Aqua Venus, which means he's going to take his time in the love department. He needs to be reassured that you can be his lover AND best friend, before he acts the way you expect him to.
The present was a simple gesture of thanks, especially for your hospitality.
If you're expecting something out of a slushy Hollywood movie, especially so soon, you're not going to get it from him...
If one is to believe in astrology that aquarius venus thing is very very difficult to pin down.
Just had experience with cap sun and aquarius venus. He has turned out to be one of the coldest most detatched guys I've ever met.
He was confusing because he talked about maybe catching feelings for me before we did anything, but as he said now: he just didn't. And he's never going to.
At least they are honest.
If anything, that combo seeks to settle down. It's just a Cap with Aqua Venus takes time to determine whether or not they like a person they found physically attractive, and the result depends highly on whether or not they see a future with you. They could, for example, like you but found it unrealistic to have a relationship with you, in which then they will eventually move on from you. This combo isn't necessarily cold but I think they can be if they feel the need to distant from you.
I find in your posts that you tend to think a lot and your posts tend to be much serious. Aqua Venus tend to like light-hearted conversations and humour. I find Cap with Aqua Venus loves it when you can make them laugh. It's not that they can't do serious conversations, but they may find those as more of a burden than an enjoyment. If they find that they don't enjoy being around you, they are probably like to distant from you as well.
IMO 🙂
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I like your assessment of the Cap with Aqua Venus (which is me). Universal-heavy people probably feel the burden of the world a lot. Slightly disagree with your Aqua venus light heartedness tho, but it could just be because I've got so much Cap in me along with 8th house.I prefer substance when I'm talking to a woman, as I'm honestly not the best at small talk. But, I need a woman who can be the light and delicacy to my my heaviness and edge at the end of the day and can deal with my sometimes lack of rose-colored romance and awkwardness/eccentricities.
I've never had a relationship, and tons of aspects scare me about having one. But, ultimately, I am looking for someone I can settle down with.
Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.click to expand
Yeah I have 4 cap placements. But two Fire so I don't really feel cold.
Retrograde?
Posted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.
Yeah I have 4 cap placements. But two Fire so I don't really feel cold.
Retrograde?
click to expand
I would say this Cap/Venus in Aqua guy is cold. And the more I'm thinking about it, the more I think he's too cold for me to pursue him.
I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that cold. I have a Scorpio Mars and an Aries Venus, with a Taurus Sun. Scorpio Rising. My Aqua Moon can intellectualize my emotions, however I am a very passionate person and need someone that can express themselves to me emotionally. Yeah, the more I think about it, he is too shut off for me...
Posted by GOATActionPosted by xoxflutePosted by starlordPosted by Gobby
He has an Aqua Venus, which means he's going to take his time in the love department. He needs to be reassured that you can be his lover AND best friend, before he acts the way you expect him to.
The present was a simple gesture of thanks, especially for your hospitality.
If you're expecting something out of a slushy Hollywood movie, especially so soon, you're not going to get it from him...
If one is to believe in astrology that aquarius venus thing is very very difficult to pin down.
Just had experience with cap sun and aquarius venus. He has turned out to be one of the coldest most detatched guys I've ever met.
He was confusing because he talked about maybe catching feelings for me before we did anything, but as he said now: he just didn't. And he's never going to.
At least they are honest.
If anything, that combo seeks to settle down. It's just a Cap with Aqua Venus takes time to determine whether or not they like a person they found physically attractive, and the result depends highly on whether or not they see a future with you. They could, for example, like you but found it unrealistic to have a relationship with you, in which then they will eventually move on from you. This combo isn't necessarily cold but I think they can be if they feel the need to distant from you.
I find in your posts that you tend to think a lot and your posts tend to be much serious. Aqua Venus tend to like light-hearted conversations and humour. I find Cap with Aqua Venus loves it when you can make them laugh. It's not that they can't do serious conversations, but they may find those as more of a burden than an enjoyment. If they find that they don't enjoy being around you, they are probably like to distant from you as well.
IMO 🙂
I like your assessment of the Cap with Aqua Venus (which is me). Universal-heavy people probably feel the burden of the world a lot. Slightly disagree with your Aqua venus light heartedness tho, but it could just be because I've got so much Cap in me along with 8th house.I prefer substance when I'm talking to a woman, as I'm honestly not the best at small talk. But, I need a woman who can be the light and delicacy to my my heaviness and edge at the end of the day and can deal with my sometimes lack of rose-colored romance and awkwardness/eccentricities.
I've never had a relationship, and tons of aspects scare me about having one. But, ultimately, I am looking for someone I can settle down with.click to expand
What else do you look for in another person you want to be with romantically, traits-wise?
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.
Yeah I have 4 cap placements. But two Fire so I don't really feel cold.
Retrograde?
I would say this Cap/Venus in Aqua guy is cold. And the more I'm thinking about it, the more I think he's too cold for me to pursue him.
I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that cold. I have a Scorpio Mars and an Aries Venus, with a Taurus Sun. Scorpio Rising. My Aqua Moon can intellectualize my emotions, however I am a very passionate person and need someone that can express themselves to me emotionally. Yeah, the more I think about it, he is too shut off for me...click to expand
Damn. Aries Venus, Mars Scorpio and Scorpio rising ? Haha yeah I bet your passion central
Posted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.
Yeah I have 4 cap placements. But two Fire so I don't really feel cold.
Retrograde?
I would say this Cap/Venus in Aqua guy is cold. And the more I'm thinking about it, the more I think he's too cold for me to pursue him.
I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that cold. I have a Scorpio Mars and an Aries Venus, with a Taurus Sun. Scorpio Rising. My Aqua Moon can intellectualize my emotions, however I am a very passionate person and need someone that can express themselves to me emotionally. Yeah, the more I think about it, he is too shut off for me...
Damn. Aries Venus, Mars Scorpio and Scorpio rising ? Haha yeah I bet your passion centralclick to expand
My placements are a gift and a curse. Sometimes I think I'll never be able to be happy with another person. The closest was my ex, who was a Cap with an Aries Moon and Aqua Mars... In the end we lost intimacy and became more like business partners because he worked all the time...
Posted by xoxflutePosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by xoxflutePosted by starlordPosted by Gobby
He has an Aqua Venus, which means he's going to take his time in the love department. He needs to be reassured that you can be his lover AND best friend, before he acts the way you expect him to.
The present was a simple gesture of thanks, especially for your hospitality.
If you're expecting something out of a slushy Hollywood movie, especially so soon, you're not going to get it from him...
If one is to believe in astrology that aquarius venus thing is very very difficult to pin down.
Just had experience with cap sun and aquarius venus. He has turned out to be one of the coldest most detatched guys I've ever met.
He was confusing because he talked about maybe catching feelings for me before we did anything, but as he said now: he just didn't. And he's never going to.
At least they are honest.
If anything, that combo seeks to settle down. It's just a Cap with Aqua Venus takes time to determine whether or not they like a person they found physically attractive, and the result depends highly on whether or not they see a future with you. They could, for example, like you but found it unrealistic to have a relationship with you, in which then they will eventually move on from you. This combo isn't necessarily cold but I think they can be if they feel the need to distant from you.
I find in your posts that you tend to think a lot and your posts tend to be much serious. Aqua Venus tend to like light-hearted conversations and humour. I find Cap with Aqua Venus loves it when you can make them laugh. It's not that they can't do serious conversations, but they may find those as more of a burden than an enjoyment. If they find that they don't enjoy being around you, they are probably like to distant from you as well.
IMO 🙂
Yeah, I do understand that about him. He uses humor and jokes constantly and we end up never having serious conversations. At one point he said, "I hope you know I don't mean it, if I'm joking when we're talking about something serious." LOL We were laughing a lot when we were together. He kept saying, "You're so funny." And I genuinely think he is too.
I don't push, I actually am letting him "lead" and just seeing what he does say and how he behaves. He did say he was looking for a serious relationship, that he does want to settle down with the right person, and that he thought we had good potential before meeting me. I know that he's willing to move and I told him I was also willing to move (we're both in "transition" times in our lives). He did keep referring to "next time" as we walked around my city and told me that he loved it here.
You're right, I am an over-thinker and I do care a lot about the people I let into my life, whereas he seems to keep me at arm's length emotionally and wants everything to be light and fun. It can come across as uncaring. I have no idea how I'll know how he really feels, that's the only problem with his way of being. But I do know about him that he's honest. He told me some things about himself that were really unflattering all for the sake of honesty. And I do appreciate that trait in him.
That sounds like a good sign.
But the problem here is that you and him are from different countries. So even if he likes you, there's a good chance he may still think it's not realistic to pursue anything with you due to the locations. That's why unless he takes the initiative towards future travel plans (either for you or him or both), I don't think you should think too much of it right now.
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Well last night I asked if he wanted to see eachother again because I have two days off at the start of Nov and could go visit him. I didn’t talk about anything else. I guess that was a mistake though because he read it and didn’t reply. I panicked and sent him a message apologizing and saying I was feeling tired because I couldn’t sleep the night before and not to worry about what I said, we don’t need to talk about it. He’s up and using the dating app but doesn’t care enough to respond to me. So I guess I got my answer.
Posted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.
Yeah I have 4 cap placements. But two Fire so I don't really feel cold.
Retrograde?
click to expand
Yep, I was born with three personal planets in Retrograde: Mercury (Capricorn), Jupiter (Cancer), Venus (Aquarius)
Posted by starlordPosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by xoxflutePosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by xoxflutePosted by starlordPosted by Gobby
He has an Aqua Venus, which means he's going to take his time in the love department. He needs to be reassured that you can be his lover AND best friend, before he acts the way you expect him to.
The present was a simple gesture of thanks, especially for your hospitality.
If you're expecting something out of a slushy Hollywood movie, especially so soon, you're not going to get it from him...
If one is to believe in astrology that aquarius venus thing is very very difficult to pin down.
Just had experience with cap sun and aquarius venus. He has turned out to be one of the coldest most detatched guys I've ever met.
He was confusing because he talked about maybe catching feelings for me before we did anything, but as he said now: he just didn't. And he's never going to.
At least they are honest.
If anything, that combo seeks to settle down. It's just a Cap with Aqua Venus takes time to determine whether or not they like a person they found physically attractive, and the result depends highly on whether or not they see a future with you. They could, for example, like you but found it unrealistic to have a relationship with you, in which then they will eventually move on from you. This combo isn't necessarily cold but I think they can be if they feel the need to distant from you.
I find in your posts that you tend to think a lot and your posts tend to be much serious. Aqua Venus tend to like light-hearted conversations and humour. I find Cap with Aqua Venus loves it when you can make them laugh. It's not that they can't do serious conversations, but they may find those as more of a burden than an enjoyment. If they find that they don't enjoy being around you, they are probably like to distant from you as well.
IMO 🙂
Yeah, I do understand that about him. He uses humor and jokes constantly and we end up never having serious conversations. At one point he said, "I hope you know I don't mean it, if I'm joking when we're talking about something serious." LOL We were laughing a lot when we were together. He kept saying, "You're so funny." And I genuinely think he is too.
I don't push, I actually am letting him "lead" and just seeing what he does say and how he behaves. He did say he was looking for a serious relationship, that he does want to settle down with the right person, and that he thought we had good potential before meeting me. I know that he's willing to move and I told him I was also willing to move (we're both in "transition" times in our lives). He did keep referring to "next time" as we walked around my city and told me that he loved it here.
You're right, I am an over-thinker and I do care a lot about the people I let into my life, whereas he seems to keep me at arm's length emotionally and wants everything to be light and fun. It can come across as uncaring. I have no idea how I'll know how he really feels, that's the only problem with his way of being. But I do know about him that he's honest. He told me some things about himself that were really unflattering all for the sake of honesty. And I do appreciate that trait in him.
That sounds like a good sign.
But the problem here is that you and him are from different countries. So even if he likes you, there's a good chance he may still think it's not realistic to pursue anything with you due to the locations. That's why unless he takes the initiative towards future travel plans (either for you or him or both), I don't think you should think too much of it right now.
Well last night I asked if he wanted to see eachother again because I have two days off at the start of Nov and could go visit him. I didn’t talk about anything else. I guess that was a mistake though because he read it and didn’t reply. I panicked and sent him a message apologizing and saying I was feeling tired because I couldn’t sleep the night before and not to worry about what I said, we don’t need to talk about it. He’s up and using the dating app but doesn’t care enough to respond to me. So I guess I got my answer.
In my eyes: what a douche! At least reply.
But is thus concidered putting preassure on the situation by others? Because I mean, how passive are girls supposed to be? Just sit at home and wait around?click to expand
I have no idea. I will say that he's not working at the moment so there's no "oh he's probably just really busy, relax" excuse for this. When he was here he was saying he wanted to see me again. That's the only reason I asked the question, just to show that I was also interested. The ball is in his court now.
Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.
Yeah I have 4 cap placements. But two Fire so I don't really feel cold.
Retrograde?
Yep, I was born with three personal planets in Retrograde: Mercury (Capricorn), Jupiter (Cancer), Venus (Aquarius)click to expand
Meaning?
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.
Yeah I have 4 cap placements. But two Fire so I don't really feel cold.
Retrograde?
I would say this Cap/Venus in Aqua guy is cold. And the more I'm thinking about it, the more I think he's too cold for me to pursue him.
I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that cold. I have a Scorpio Mars and an Aries Venus, with a Taurus Sun. Scorpio Rising. My Aqua Moon can intellectualize my emotions, however I am a very passionate person and need someone that can express themselves to me emotionally. Yeah, the more I think about it, he is too shut off for me...
Damn. Aries Venus, Mars Scorpio and Scorpio rising ? Haha yeah I bet your passion central
My placements are a gift and a curse. Sometimes I think I'll never be able to be happy with another person. The closest was my ex, who was a Cap with an Aries Moon and Aqua Mars... In the end we lost intimacy and became more like business partners because he worked all the time...click to expand
I’m sorry. Yeah that can happen. I have a MS too actually. Well maybe it’ll work out with this Cap, but now you don’t want it to?
Honestly he's not treating me very well by not replying to a simple question. He is showing me he doesn't respect me and frankly he doesn't seem to care about me at all.
He responded just now, saying he was really busy all day, and that he'll check about the dates for a possible visit... Hmmm I'm happy but cautiously happy and I think it's time for me to chill and see him as a friend. Yes, there goes my Aqua moon compartmentalizing my emotions....
Posted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.
Yeah I have 4 cap placements. But two Fire so I don't really feel cold.
Retrograde?
Yep, I was born with three personal planets in Retrograde: Mercury (Capricorn), Jupiter (Cancer), Venus (Aquarius)
Meaning?click to expand
Planets energies are turned inward when a person has retrograded planets. Makes them more difficult to express. Or so I'm told.
I think overall, it makes me a complex individual. I feel and think and love often all or nothing. Rarely do I half ass everything. I sometimes have extreme difficulties expressing my thoughts, love, etc.
Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by GOATActionPosted by Sag898Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by Sag898
He has a nice chart lol your a lucky girl
Why do you say that?
A Venus in Aquarius is a nice placement lol But I'm probably totally bias cause I have it. I also have a water mars and Cap men are cool
I've got an Aqua Venus placement, along with obv heavy Capricorn placements. I don't mind being an Aqua venus, but having it in retrograde can be problematic at times. Cap and Aqua are two of the coldest signs, if not the coldest in the entire zodiac. So I rarely show overt gestures of love, my showings are typically out of duty and often unorthodox. Some women seem to appreciate it, others I've puzzled.
Yeah I have 4 cap placements. But two Fire so I don't really feel cold.
Retrograde?
Yep, I was born with three personal planets in Retrograde: Mercury (Capricorn), Jupiter (Cancer), Venus (Aquarius)
Meaning?
Planets energies are turned inward when a person has retrograded planets. Makes them more difficult to express. Or so I'm told.
I think overall, it makes me a complex individual. I feel and think and love often all or nothing. Rarely do I half ass everything. I sometimes have extreme difficulties expressing my thoughts, love, etc.
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I am a Taurus and I have dated a few Caps, and I am sorry to say this... the relationship doesn't work well when we live in different cities. Distance relationship just doesn't work very well with Taurus and Cap.
Caps, they want something tangible.. with them, on standby. Taurus feels the same way too, but at least they try to give long distance relationships it a shot before they realize it won't work and give up.
Caps, they want something tangible.. with them, on standby. Taurus feels the same way too, but at least they try to give long distance relationships it a shot before they realize it won't work and give up.
Posted by xoxflutePosted by GOATActionPosted by xoxflutePosted by starlordPosted by Gobby
He has an Aqua Venus, which means he's going to take his time in the love department. He needs to be reassured that you can be his lover AND best friend, before he acts the way you expect him to.
The present was a simple gesture of thanks, especially for your hospitality.
If you're expecting something out of a slushy Hollywood movie, especially so soon, you're not going to get it from him...
If one is to believe in astrology that aquarius venus thing is very very difficult to pin down.
Just had experience with cap sun and aquarius venus. He has turned out to be one of the coldest most detatched guys I've ever met.
He was confusing because he talked about maybe catching feelings for me before we did anything, but as he said now: he just didn't. And he's never going to.
At least they are honest.
If anything, that combo seeks to settle down. It's just a Cap with Aqua Venus takes time to determine whether or not they like a person they found physically attractive, and the result depends highly on whether or not they see a future with you. They could, for example, like you but found it unrealistic to have a relationship with you, in which then they will eventually move on from you. This combo isn't necessarily cold but I think they can be if they feel the need to distant from you.
I find in your posts that you tend to think a lot and your posts tend to be much serious. Aqua Venus tend to like light-hearted conversations and humour. I find Cap with Aqua Venus loves it when you can make them laugh. It's not that they can't do serious conversations, but they may find those as more of a burden than an enjoyment. If they find that they don't enjoy being around you, they are probably like to distant from you as well.
IMO 🙂
I like your assessment of the Cap with Aqua Venus (which is me). Universal-heavy people probably feel the burden of the world a lot. Slightly disagree with your Aqua venus light heartedness tho, but it could just be because I've got so much Cap in me along with 8th house.I prefer substance when I'm talking to a woman, as I'm honestly not the best at small talk. But, I need a woman who can be the light and delicacy to my my heaviness and edge at the end of the day and can deal with my sometimes lack of rose-colored romance and awkwardness/eccentricities.
I've never had a relationship, and tons of aspects scare me about having one. But, ultimately, I am looking for someone I can settle down with.
The light heartedness I was referring to, was not really in regards to conversational depth. It was more in regards to tone and atmosphere. I think Aqua Venus tend to gravitate towards an environment that's either fun or entertaining or interesting.click to expand
Ahh. Def agree with interesting. We gotta have our minds stimulated.
Posted by c0mrade
I am a Taurus and I have dated a few Caps, and I am sorry to say this... the relationship doesn't work well when we live in different cities. Distance relationship just doesn't work very well with Taurus and Cap.
Caps, they want something tangible.. with them, on standby. Taurus feels the same way too, but at least they try to give long distance relationships it a shot before they realize it won't work and give up.
Not always true. I was long distance with my Cap ex for a year. I eventually moved to his city and we were together for nearly 10 years. We only split up due to circumstances beyond our control.
The Cap I'm referring to here has said he's willing to do long distance for a while, as long as there was an understanding one of us would be moving to the other eventually. And I feel the same. I think we both are thinking we need to physically see eachother more than just once to make this kind of commitment.
However, with my ex we were long distance from the first day we met. We just fell madly in love and it was like not even something we had to discuss.
Everyone is different.
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by c0mrade
I am a Taurus and I have dated a few Caps, and I am sorry to say this... the relationship doesn't work well when we live in different cities. Distance relationship just doesn't work very well with Taurus and Cap.
Caps, they want something tangible.. with them, on standby. Taurus feels the same way too, but at least they try to give long distance relationships it a shot before they realize it won't work and give up.
Not always true. I was long distance with my Cap ex for a year. I eventually moved to his city and we were together for nearly 10 years. We only split up due to circumstances beyond our control.
The Cap I'm referring to here has said he's willing to do long distance for a while, as long as there was an understanding one of us would be moving to the other eventually. And I feel the same. I think we both are thinking we need to physically see eachother more than just once to make this kind of commitment.
However, with my ex we were long distance from the first day we met. We just fell madly in love and it was like not even something we had to discuss.
Everyone is different.click to expand
Where are you guys from? state both of your age and his moon please?
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by c0mrade
I am a Taurus and I have dated a few Caps, and I am sorry to say this... the relationship doesn't work well when we live in different cities. Distance relationship just doesn't work very well with Taurus and Cap.
Caps, they want something tangible.. with them, on standby. Taurus feels the same way too, but at least they try to give long distance relationships it a shot before they realize it won't work and give up.
Not always true. I was long distance with my Cap ex for a year. I eventually moved to his city and we were together for nearly 10 years. We only split up due to circumstances beyond our control.
The Cap I'm referring to here has said he's willing to do long distance for a while, as long as there was an understanding one of us would be moving to the other eventually. And I feel the same. I think we both are thinking we need to physically see eachother more than just once to make this kind of commitment.
However, with my ex we were long distance from the first day we met. We just fell madly in love and it was like not even something we had to discuss.
Everyone is different.
Where are you guys from? state both of your age and his moon please?click to expand
I’m 34, he’s 33. His moon is in Aries.
Yesterday night I texted asking how he was. He seemed distracted and didn’t keep the convo going as he normally does. I saw he was on the dating app we met on. I think he’s stringing me along either because he’s not interested anymore and doesn’t want to hurt me or because he doesn’t know what he wants. I’m the opposite of the latter so I can’t relate to it. I’d prefer if he was just straight with me and we talked about it. All this hurts me so much...
Posted by taurusgirl9000
Yesterday night I texted asking how he was. He seemed distracted and didn’t keep the convo going as he normally does. I saw he was on the dating app we met on. I think he’s stringing me along either because he’s not interested anymore and doesn’t want to hurt me or because he doesn’t know what he wants. I’m the opposite of the latter so I can’t relate to it. I’d prefer if he was just straight with me and we talked about it. All this hurts me so much...
Interesting, my cap guy is also 33 and has the exact same placements, except his moon is in Pisces. Born on December 28, and yes, he's also very confusing. Been seeing each other since July, still don't have a clear idea what he wants
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by taurusgirl9000
Yesterday night I texted asking how he was. He seemed distracted and didn’t keep the convo going as he normally does. I saw he was on the dating app we met on. I think he’s stringing me along either because he’s not interested anymore and doesn’t want to hurt me or because he doesn’t know what he wants. I’m the opposite of the latter so I can’t relate to it. I’d prefer if he was just straight with me and we talked about it. All this hurts me so much...
Interesting, my cap guy is also 33 and has the exact same placements, except his moon is in Pisces. Born on December 28, and yes, he's also very confusing. Been seeing each other since July, still don't have a clear idea what he wantsclick to expand
How is the communication? Does he seem to prefer sporadic texting?
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by taurusgirl9000
Yesterday night I texted asking how he was. He seemed distracted and didn’t keep the convo going as he normally does. I saw he was on the dating app we met on. I think he’s stringing me along either because he’s not interested anymore and doesn’t want to hurt me or because he doesn’t know what he wants. I’m the opposite of the latter so I can’t relate to it. I’d prefer if he was just straight with me and we talked about it. All this hurts me so much...
Interesting, my cap guy is also 33 and has the exact same placements, except his moon is in Pisces. Born on December 28, and yes, he's also very confusing. Been seeing each other since July, still don't have a clear idea what he wants
How is the communication? Does he seem to prefer sporadic texting?click to expand
Yes and it's driving me crazy. I'm currently blocked due to me pushing his buttons, I can not deal with ignoring and constant silence. Communication was almost non existent, or him saying only few words here and there, I've noticed insecurity and major confusion on his part. Everything was on his terms, didn't like following plans. I'm confused too but still on a waiting mode
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by taurusgirl9000
Yesterday night I texted asking how he was. He seemed distracted and didn’t keep the convo going as he normally does. I saw he was on the dating app we met on. I think he’s stringing me along either because he’s not interested anymore and doesn’t want to hurt me or because he doesn’t know what he wants. I’m the opposite of the latter so I can’t relate to it. I’d prefer if he was just straight with me and we talked about it. All this hurts me so much...
Interesting, my cap guy is also 33 and has the exact same placements, except his moon is in Pisces. Born on December 28, and yes, he's also very confusing. Been seeing each other since July, still don't have a clear idea what he wants
How is the communication? Does he seem to prefer sporadic texting?
Yes and it's driving me crazy. I'm currently blocked due to me pushing his buttons, I can not deal with ignoring and constant silence. Communication was almost non existent, or him saying only few words here and there, I've noticed insecurity and major confusion on his part. Everything was on his terms, didn't like following plans. I'm confused too but still on a waiting modeclick to expand
Yeah it does seem like he wants the control in my situation too. I have read that Aries moons put on an unapproachable front because inside they’re very sensitive and I know from experience that Caps struggle with hidden insecurities that they don’t want to deal with. I really think that with the Aqua venus creates a person that is a puzzle, even to themselves.
Posted by Arielle83
Why don’t you women stop holding on to needing a relationship and do something to make yourself have more value.
You seem like a delightful person, btw.
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by taurusgirl9000
Yesterday night I texted asking how he was. He seemed distracted and didn’t keep the convo going as he normally does. I saw he was on the dating app we met on. I think he’s stringing me along either because he’s not interested anymore and doesn’t want to hurt me or because he doesn’t know what he wants. I’m the opposite of the latter so I can’t relate to it. I’d prefer if he was just straight with me and we talked about it. All this hurts me so much...
Interesting, my cap guy is also 33 and has the exact same placements, except his moon is in Pisces. Born on December 28, and yes, he's also very confusing. Been seeing each other since July, still don't have a clear idea what he wants
How is the communication? Does he seem to prefer sporadic texting?
Yes and it's driving me crazy. I'm currently blocked due to me pushing his buttons, I can not deal with ignoring and constant silence. Communication was almost non existent, or him saying only few words here and there, I've noticed insecurity and major confusion on his part. Everything was on his terms, didn't like following plans. I'm confused too but still on a waiting mode
Yeah it does seem like he wants the control in my situation too. I have read that Aries moons put on an unapproachable front because inside they’re very sensitive and I know from experience that Caps struggle with hidden insecurities that they don’t want to deal with. I really think that with the Aqua venus creates a person that is a puzzle, even to themselves.click to expand
I don't seem to get clear answer so far so I'm gonna just let him be. If he wants he's gonna crawl back, but I will make sure to get a proper apologize from him and an explanation. Hopefully we will be back together for his bday.
Posted by Arielle83
Why don’t you women stop holding on to needing a relationship and do something to make yourself have more value.
What do you mean by that? everyone "needs" healthy physical/emotional relationships, are we wrong wanting the same? We have a job and busy life but it doesn't fill the void in our heart. I honestly don't know what are you talking about. One only can go so long not having someone beside at the end of the day.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Arielle83
Why don’t you women stop holding on to needing a relationship and do something to make yourself have more value.
What do you mean by that? everyone "needs" healthy physical/emotional relationships, are we wrong wanting the same? We have a job and busy life but it doesn't fill the void in our heart. I honestly don't know what are you talking about. One only can go so long not having someone beside at the end of the day.
What makes you stand out from the rest?
You’re just talking about what you NEED.
Not anything about what you BRING to someone else’s life.
All I see is a bunch of women whining about “ME ME ME”.
You all look self involved.
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You’re heartless.
Communication is the key in every relationship, healthy communication is EXPECTED believe it or not. It's not about treating another human being like a puppy and having demands, no, it's all about expectations, respect and standard. If something is on your mind you have to be able to communicate, like a grown up and if he's a little boy and wants to act like a 10 year old, he shouldn't be dating anyways. Nobody wants to have a child to raise gee
Posted by Arielle83Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Arielle83
Why don’t you women stop holding on to needing a relationship and do something to make yourself have more value.
What do you mean by that? everyone "needs" healthy physical/emotional relationships, are we wrong wanting the same? We have a job and busy life but it doesn't fill the void in our heart. I honestly don't know what are you talking about. One only can go so long not having someone beside at the end of the day.
What makes you stand out from the rest?
You’re just talking about what you NEED.
Not anything about what you BRING to someone else’s life.
All I see is a bunch of women whining about “ME ME ME”.
You all look self involved.
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I'm not gonna discuss with you what I was offering and what I was bringing to the table, he knows all of it. And if I wasn't good enough I would have heard by now, as he has no shame to admit if he's not feeling it (his past relationships). Every human being is unique just so you know and everyone has something so special to offer, what others lack, simple as that.
You’re pressuring him. You’re actions, words, and responses make me feel uncomfortable and I’m not the one dating you. Just be a lot more chill and go with the flow. Let him chase you if you didn’t push him away too far already.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Arielle83Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Arielle83
Why don’t you women stop holding on to needing a relationship and do something to make yourself have more value.
What do you mean by that? everyone "needs" healthy physical/emotional relationships, are we wrong wanting the same? We have a job and busy life but it doesn't fill the void in our heart. I honestly don't know what are you talking about. One only can go so long not having someone beside at the end of the day.
What makes you stand out from the rest?
You’re just talking about what you NEED.
Not anything about what you BRING to someone else’s life.
All I see is a bunch of women whining about “ME ME ME”.
You all look self involved.
I'm not gonna discuss with you what I was offering and what I was bringing to the table, he knows all of it. And if I wasn't good enough I would have heard by now, as he has no shame to admit if he's not feeling it (his past relationships). Every human being is unique just so you know and everyone has something so special to offer, what others lack, simple as that.
Then why are you making a big deal about him not communicating with you on YOUR schedule. The keyword is YOU. You are upset when he doesn’t adapt to your time frame.
It’s about YOU.
Heaven forbid the guy has responsibilities and parts of his life that don’t focus on you.
Do you get it?
You come in this hot early in the game then all you’re going to do is fizzle out.
Men don’t behave like women. They get off on missing you. The can’t do that if you’re akways blowing up his message bank.
You might need that, but he doesn’t.
Your communication wires are getting crossed.
Pull back and do something that gives value to YOU.
Not about him every minute of the day.click to expand
It's about give and take arielle, everyone has a busy life and we all need to respect each other. It is not just about me, rather it is about US, me and him. Everything has been on his terms so far and I want to make it even, especially when he doesn't have a job atm and has more free time than me. I care for him and I want to work on us and do my best, dumping someone is the easiest thing anyone can do, that saying 7 billion people in the world out there, but that makes me special that I truly care right? someone would say fuck this shit and disappear without remorse, but the thing is I know his life and I know he needs me, that's why I'm sticking around, despite everything I'm not going anywhere and I don't ask much. I can't blow up his messenger anymore, I'm blocked so hopefully he's feeling better now
Posted by pinkbird03
You’re pressuring him. You’re actions, words, and responses make me feel uncomfortable and I’m not the one dating you. Just be a lot more chill and go with the flow. Let him chase you if you didn’t push him away too far already.
Thanks but is texting someone once a day too much? Just to say how are you? I’ve archived our messages, so hopefully now it’s out of sight, out of mind for me and I can move on.
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by pinkbird03
You’re pressuring him. You’re actions, words, and responses make me feel uncomfortable and I’m not the one dating you. Just be a lot more chill and go with the flow. Let him chase you if you didn’t push him away too far already.
Thanks but is texting someone once a day too much? Just to say how are you? I’ve archived our messages, so hopefully now it’s out of sight, out of mind for me and I can move on.click to expand
It’s not how often. It’s what you say. And it comes down to what your feelings. You felt like he was just a friend when he gave you a gift. That’s such a sweet gesture. Not a lot of guys think to do that. He probably didnt feel appreciated and it then it became bad first impression. No guy wants a difficult too hard to please girlfriend.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by pinkbird03
You’re pressuring him. You’re actions, words, and responses make me feel uncomfortable and I’m not the one dating you. Just be a lot more chill and go with the flow. Let him chase you if you didn’t push him away too far already.
Thanks but is texting someone once a day too much? Just to say how are you? I’ve archived our messages, so hopefully now it’s out of sight, out of mind for me and I can move on.
It’s not how often. It’s what you say. And it comes down to what your feelings. You felt like he was just a friend when he gave you a gift. That’s such a sweet gesture. Not a lot of guys think to do that. He probably didnt feel appreciated and it then it became bad first impression. No guy wants a difficult too hard to please girlfriend.click to expand
No, actually, I thought the gift was a symbol that he wanted to continue seeing me. When I found it in my apartment, I texted him to say thank you and that I love it.
It was other people on this thread who told me to relax, and said it was just a friendly thing to do and a symbol of thanks for my hospitality and allowing him to stay with me in my flat. I really don't understand that interpretation, but that's how other people see it, not me.
So you can maybe understand now why I think he's being confusing. He gives me this gift, I mean he could have chosen to give me anything but he decided to give me jewellery, and now suddenly he's backed away and his communication is sporadic. I didn't want to come across too strongly, so some days he will text me first, and others I text him first, just so he doesn't feel like he's doing all of the work in reaching out. Our conversations are light and friendly because I'm following his lead. I know that I feel things for him, I mean we spent every day together for almost two weeks living like a couple, but I'm not going to blurt them out and demand anything from him. It's mostly just talking about how our day was and then typically I send him an interesting article/podcast I know he'll like. He's unemployed, lives at home, and is not in school so I don't feel like texting him once a day is being too demanding, you know?
Sometimes I feel like I don't get modern dating, that's true, but with him I thought it would be different.
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