How long do I wait....

Okay, I know you all have heard the same saga before but I need to express what I am going through right now with a cap male.

Here goes..... we have been friends for over three years and this year we started to flirt with one another and share certain thoughts. Well, I suggested that we move the friendship to a new level to see if we have what it takes for the long haul. NOT marriage just dating/lovers. Well, it has been one day and he has not responded.

How long should I wait? I have a feeling that he will not respond but then again he has really suprised me. I'm hoping that he will not just leave it at dead silence. There is a part of me that wants him to say "NO" so I can move on with my life and lose the hope. Then there is a part of me that wants to see if we have a chance for a future. Either way, I will be benefit.

I want to give adequate time to deliberate but I am still anxious. What do you think about this?

dont rush an answer like this 🙂 just be patient and understand that he's probably thinking it over. you yourself could take the time to think about it more in depth about how you feel about it, so on and so forth

Thank you CreepyPants and Lonely capricorn. Guess what....... I got my answer today. He said YES!

This guy has really surprised me over the years. It seem to get better over time so far. I really was not expecting him to respond but he did. He seemed more excited than I was. He has picked out a special name for me. Scary but I love it!

*big smiles* aaaaaawe 😛

I'm beginning to think that cap males are not as secure as they pretend to be when it comes to relationships.

Well, here goes another capricorn/pisces couple. So we will see how it goes.


Thanks everyone for your input.

****Congratulations✨*** I agree; it is nice to hear a positive story thats free of BS and game play. It sounds a like a friendship that grew into something more, so Kudos to you and good luck 🙂

CONGRADUALTIONS Atypicalfish 🙂 🙂 🙂

Yeah, we can take a while when it comes to "big" decisions but once we make our minds up, then it's solid 😉

Good going girl 😉