About to Erupt

My Sag sister just pissed me the F off yesterday behind some bull crap, about me taking her Internet friends, duh and why did i respond to a message that she sent me telling me not to write because she was going to lunch and I said "ok" and the guy that was at the front desk (that I know also) responded, and she calls me and cursed me out for talking to him on IM while she was at lunch when she should have been jumping on him for reading her private messages which also makes me believe that je is also going through her e-mail and responding to IM that are not even for him.

Then I get a call from our mother questioning me about it and I was like OMG she called you and told you. I told my mom I did not want to talk about it so she hung up or I would have hung up on her.

I sent my sis a IM telling her that what she did was so pity and I she was full of shit and told her to run back to our mother and tell what I said I was so mad at her.

So today my Sag sister sends me an IM and with a smiley face and says "what you doing"? so I responded back saying, "what do you want from me to start something stupid and pity and then run and tell" She did not respond.

I wanted to snap at her but I am trying to stay calm so I am spacing myself from her right know and my mother because if I don't her or my mom will get it and I don't want to do that. I don't know what to call how I am feeing right know all I know is that I do not need to see her or my mother right know...everything I am feeling is boiling and if either one of them say the wrong thing all hell is come to break loose.

So my fellow scorpios do you have an suggestions

she if 38 years old

She always does this crap and she always does it to me she lies, about the truth to make me look like I am the bad one, and I am tired of it, and to make it so bad she the next day she thinks I am supposed to just say ok? At t his point I am tired and I am really thinking about putting her in her place.

Just be the bigger person. Rise above it. You'll be "putting her in her place" by doing just that.

I say "Check Her" I mean you can try and do it nicely but if you are feeling angry it is best to get it off your chest and move forward. Sometimes i hate swallowing my feelings and we as Scorpios tend to do that alot because we don't want to hurt the other person's feelings but we wind up resenting that we never said anything. Well at least I do. You can tell her how you feel and let that be that. Especially if you feel so strongly about it.

You probably right, when I think about it she does this when she feels threaten, or think that I am going to take something away from her, or she just don't want to look bad by herself.

I can't say I will let it go so easily as of yet because I still want her to suffer right know, we a very close and I know that she does not really like it when she realizes that she has really made me mad.

But I will give it some thought, thinks for you insight DB.

Thanks karima27, I think you are feeling me,

"You can tell her how you feel and let that be that" thats what I want to do but I can't do it right know because I am feeling up with emotions and I won't be calm about it which will lead into somethig bigger and could possibly put a heavy damper on our love as sister and friends, I did that with my Taurus sister and we did not speak for about 3 months and finally we just started talking and no one said sorry.

Did I every say I was a middle child? I think we get it the hardest.

" i hate swallowing my feelings and we as Scorpios tend to do that alot because we don't want to hurt the other person's feelings"..

Are you sure your a scorpio Karima..lol..I don't swallow any feelings..they are out there..Take it whichever way you want. I don't give two hoots who gets hurt in the process..Its the truth, deal with it

I am the 2nd one

LOL! MM I am positive I am very much a Scorpio. But I am learning that not all the time should i just say whatever flies out of my mouth. I normally hurt people when i do that. I have been told i am cruel and insenstive which is so far from the truth it isn't even funny. It's hard being us sometimes...we are very difficult creatures to understand.

Yes we are...but I don't care..lol..

MM, that's a true Scorpio attitude. LOL!!!!
When I asked my Scorp the other day 'do you ever feel like people misunderstand you?' Without hesitation, he answered..'That's their problem!'
U gotta love 'em!!

Brilliant!...Is your man looking for a scorpio mistress by any chance? 😉

😛

MM, he quit accepting applications once he met me. LOL! 🙂

Classic example of what happens when you sift through them real quick. The good ones get left behind 😛

Tongue-in-cheek, DB! :p I would seriously question if he told me that.

Scorpion Lady,
IT is better to ignore such things. But usually in similar circumstances where my sister does something like that and mother sides up with her, I get so pissed off that something just snaps and I ignore them BECOZ I FEEL THAT THEY ARE NOT WORTHY ENOUGH for my attention. But if anyone happens to come in my line of vision, then they get the real treat of a piece of my mind.

But words once out of your mouth can never be taken back. And what good is it going to do to you, especially since your sister is like that and is not going to change. Why waste your energy on such people. All said and done, I for myself cannot control my temper in such cases especially when close family is involved and I just explode.

I didn't mean good when I said good..you should know what I meant..your letting the side down frankly DB!..

**rolls eyes**

you just can't get the scorps these days...

DB - LMAO...Is that what he told you shorty?!

Hahaha...typical scorpio male response..

Come again?

LOL...Confused.com....

A scorpio guy is pursuing me actually but problem is..he is ALL about sex...and well I just want an intellectual conversation with the guy..I have no intention of going after him as he's a liar and he's tight with his money...wonder if he'll become my stalker...hope not!..

Ok, this is the third thread I've seen "stalker" and "Scorpio" in the same sentence/paragraph...what's up with that? I hope this guy I'm seeing isn't a stalker!

haha hope will do you no good! muahahahaah lol

lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooo

man oh man, you are cynical DB. i was being sarcastic myself....sheesh...

my scorpio isn't what is being depicted in this thread. all this talk about stalking is outrageous.

*waves to DB as he slithers away*

i called that being funny lol

OMG!!!!!! I swear it's a shame we Scorpio's think like that! i thought i was the only one that had a stalker personality! Thank God i do not act like that anymore. People already think we as a zodiac sign are mean and dark not to mention crazy if we add stalker to the list. There will be no hope! Oh Brother!!!!!

I tried to keep that side hidden. Nice for you guys to bring it out to the front...have you no shame ;p

call* UGHHH

"People already think we as a zodiac sign are mean and dark not to mention crazy"

You say that like its a bad thing..

MM!LMAO! It is! I mean i have a lot of Scorpio friends i think i am the meanest one! i mean they love me anyway because as you know there is always the flip side of the coin. Mean but as Sweet as you can be and will do anything for anybody but man when people do not understand that about us "DANGER"! I don't like that 😢

Here I was thinking that my sign could be the meanest....I'm glad I am not in contention for the title. 😉

Anybody ever notice the first thing people think about Scorpio's is that they are mean? My beloved grandmother was a Lady Scorpion 🙂 of course i didn't pay attention to this stuff until i got older but my grandmom was classic Scorpio all the way. She didn't take any mess and i thought she was quite mean. But she loved me to pieces 🙂 🙂 and showed me over and over the whole time she was alive.

Anybody ever notice the first thing people think about Scorpio's is that they are mean? My beloved grandmother was a Lady Scorpion 🙂 of course i didn't pay attention to this stuff until i got older but my grandmom was classic Scorpio all the way. She didn't take any mess and i thought she was quite mean. But she loved me to pieces 🙂 🙂 and showed me over and over the whole time she was alive.

Whoops didn't mean to post that twice. My computer started acting up.

I have a Scorpio friend who is so persistent! If she's unable to catch me on the phone she'll continue to call and call and call until she reaches me. And she won't leave a message. I love her to death, but sheesh!

LOL @ Karima..aww..there there..I am sure its fine..

I am the total opposite, I never call anyone and people get sooooo frustrated at my behaviour..LOL..you can't win!

Oh Hell NO! I do not play with calling a person multiple times! I feel like people play themselves when they do that. I may try 3 times in a row and leave two messages...guess that is a little obsessive huh? but if i don't hear from you-or whoever. It's a wrap!

MM-I have to be more like you. I'm a softie but once softie leaves. The damn devil takes her place...ugh what a shame that i am like that.

Well she's a November-born Scorp, and my other girlfriend who can be a bit obsessive at times as well with the phone calling (just not as much) was born at the end of October.
It seems like Scorps can be at opposite ends of the spectrum in certain respects, huh? For example with MM, she doesn't do the calling period...then there are Scorps like my two friends who can be a bit on the persistent side with the calling!

You'll be lucky if you get one phonecall from me..if you do and your not there to pick up, thats you crossed off the list for the next year!...Not because I am pissed at you or anything, I just can't be arsed to call anyone!

MM, do you have to be in the "mood" to pick up the phone to call someone?

MM we are alike in that aspect. I really don't call my friends unless i have something to really talk about and get off my chest and it's "burning" inside of me. I am only obsessive when i think i am all in love with someone but like i said. Once Mrs. Softie is gone. She-Devil takes her place and you can drop dead for all i care...Oh not nice. But quite honest.

LOL @ shortyrock...

Yes I must be in the "mood". But only ever call if I need to ask a question or need to check something. If somebody calls me I am very entertaining and will chat for hours. I just can't call others..don't know why that is..I really don't..

"Once Mrs. Softie is gone. She-Devil takes her place and you can drop dead for all i care...Oh not nice. But quite honest."

Is that only if someone burns you the wrong way??

It depends...they don't have to burn me the wrong way but if i feel like you are ignoring my calls for NO REASON. You aren't gonna get anything but "ice" from me the next time we do speak. I try to forgive people for wronging me but honestly i never really forgive them. And i hate to even admit that.

"Yes I must be in the "mood". But only ever call if I need to ask a question or need to check something. If somebody calls me I am very entertaining and will chat for hours. I just can't call others..don't know why that is..I really don't.."

I kind of figured that, lol! Because you've mention on other threads that your venus is in sag....scorp is like this as well; he's a venus in sag. May have something to do with it? Maybe it's in tune with all that freedom you guys need.

I try to forgive people for wronging me but honestly i never really forgive them. And i hate to even admit that.

DITTO TO THAT!

I don't do much callling since email and IM.

"It depends...they don't have to burn me the wrong way but if i feel like you are ignoring my calls for NO REASON. You aren't gonna get anything but "ice" from me the next time we do speak. I try to forgive people for wronging me but honestly i never really forgive them. And i hate to even admit that."

karima, I can understand this...

Yeah I think the Venus in Sag may have something to do with that..I do love my freedom..or maybe even a moon in Scorpio...as I am VERY private..

Who knows...who cares eh!..lol