I give up...

Sometimes...you hold on because you hope. And hope is never a bad thing. But I feel like a fool, and I shouldn't feel like that. If he really cared...he'd try. And I give up.
I don't mean to bombard the cap boards with my woes. But I just gave up...

I hear ya, Sensual Taurus. After awhile, the whole thing is annoying. I'm sure tomorrow you will feel differently about things. Difficult difficult male sign. :-)

I am not going to tell you to hang in there and wait it out because you must do what is in the best interest for your self and your emotional well being. Waiting it out does not guarantee it will work out.

However, I will say this.... whatever you do, make sure you do it when you are not in an emotional state. Sometimes, when we are upset or frustrated, we say and do things that we will regret later on after we have calmed down.

If you have thought long and diligently about your decisions and you are not influenced by a surge of emotions, then do what you feel is best and stick with it. I say stick with it because you want him to take it seriously. If you change your mind later on, make sure there is sufficient time inbetween.

ahhh...thank you all.

SensualTaurus - that's just how some Caps are - some are just too enveloped in their own lives and careers or whatever their interested in otherwise (even if its another person) we're very specific with what we want in life - and if were interested - usually we'll show interest - if not - we won't - we're very 'to the point' type people - I know I hate playing games - I know what I want outta life - I've already planned how I wanna end up - right down to how I plan on making it possible - I hate surprises - but there's plenty of us Caps out there to be interested in if you're interested in that specific personality persay - best of luck to you in your future endeavors - when I break up w/ someone - I just think about all the stuff that I DO have going for me - and that's all the therapy I need to get on w/ my life 🙂

CapVirgo,
You always have a way of making me feel better and understand the "other side". I don't have it all planned out like you do. Its not to say that I don't know what I want. I most definately know what I want in life, but I can roll with the punches. So no surprises huh? I love surprising others with treats or phranks. Not just potential mates, but anyone that I care for. It makes me happy to surprise others.
Life is full of surprises CapVirgo...everyday is different. New challenges, new competition.
Thank you for wishing me well. I'm excited. Its ironic that my gentleman friend, "The Cap", inspired me to make a bold move in my career. However, he's not around to celebrate (nor does he know) that I did it. I'm about to start a new chapter in my life tomorrow. 🙂

"However, he's not around to celebrate (nor does he know) that I did it. I'm about to start a new chapter in my life tomorrow."

Oh he WILL know and contact you very soon to congratulate on your career move.

I...I...my goals..my dreams...my life....how Cap!
Try 22 years with a Cap...almost always about what they want out of life and you'd better be part of the plan or you're the problem.
Be sure you have ways to take care of your own dreams and goals ..or your finances and emotions will be stamped with their name tag and you'll have to fight to get them back.
From experience....

Virgo fun- I think she meant that its hard to love someone that is so guarded. They are complicated and too deep sometimes.
I have a date on Saturday with a Virgo that I've flaked out on because I had feelings for the Capricorn. The virgo is still interested...even afterall the rejections. I gotta admit that going on date after months of not doing that is kinda scary. I had a dream about that darn Capricorn though...he kissed me. I woke up and said "UGH!!" I want to have fun dating again. Wish me luck!!

Sam2 "...almost always about what they want out of life and you'd better be part of the plan or you're the problem."