are you other caps the same?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by vita_bella on Tuesday, September 26, 2006 and has 6 replies.

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@vita_bella
19 Years

i really hate being as insecure as i am. is anybody else held back by their insecurities??

i dont know any other capricorns to compare, most of my friends are the 'positive' signs and i hope to be as confident as them some day.

i'm only insecure about the way i look although i'm told by everyone i'm attractive so what the hell!!!!! i hate this!!!!!!!!! i'm getting so frustrated, it's not easy for me to just walk around feeling like i look good. and recently i turned down the guy i like so much because of my stupid low self-esteem : (.

booooooo anyone feel my pain?

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@tripod
20 Years500+ Posts

growing up i had the same insecurities! recall the description of cap being old when we're young, and young when we're old? the insecurities may somehow be related to that. could be it effects how we feel about ourselves.. trust me, we age really well!!

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@shortyrock
20 Years

Growing up as a teenager, I was more insecure...although I can still be insecure about certain things (realtionship-wise) they are not as pronounced or evident, but it has gotten better for me as I've gotten older. I have grown to know who I am as a woman, and I'm much more confident and self-assured and people take notice of this. I think growing up I didn't have many boyfriends because I didn't carry myself as well as I do now. I have truly come to love the person I represent and I've been told by the opposite sex that this is a very sexy trait to have...
I think it's true what's said about us looking younger as we get older...

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@Atypicalfish
19 Years

I was wondering this very same thing about Cap men... is it insecurity. The guy I am dating come off as being self assured and say things to indicate he is confident. But when you get him to the point of proving what he say is true, he some how becomes busy or the time is not right at that particular time.

I can careless because I will enjoy myself regardless. I have told him this as well. My world will not stop turning because of him.

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@capvirgo
20 YearsCapricorn

All signs are different in one way or another - we all may have the same sun sign - but the other aspects of our personalities (based on our birth chart) will show our inner personality (moon sign) as well other aspects of our personality as well (what sign we love, work, communicate, etc.) like I know a chatty Cap and her moon sign is that of a Gemini, I know a passionate and emotional Cap (her moon sign is that of a Scorpio) I'm somewhat of a perfectionist type of Cap - (even though it's hard to differentiate between a Virgo and a Cap cause their traits are very similar - this is one thing that's stood out as a major difference between me and my Cap friends - being very organized about anything I'm doing - like planning things out to a "T" cause I hate making mistakes - though if I do I'll live up to them but learn from them as well). But this is what makes every person different and unique as well I believe.