WorkerBees

Have you ever felt that you have to worker harder then other people? Whether it?s on the job, in your love life, learning new tasks or in education, does it seem more difficult for then other people?

Speaking of education, so you feel that things just don?t come as easy to you and they do to someone else?

If you feel this way, why and how do you deal with this type of complex or do you deal with it at all?

I was chatting with a friend of mine and this topic came up -- she?s a scorpio woman. She feels that things are very hard for her to obtain. I did tell her that good things come to those who wait and to those who are willing to endure some setbacks 😉

It depends on what your outlook is on life...I always have this "it can't be that hard to do such and such...." outlook..usually I am right. It just seems hard because you haven't dabbled in it yet.

I have this other problem. Somebody else's work is always more interesting than my own. That just frustrates me.

Why do you feel your work is uninteresting? Is it because it doesn't get as much attention as others or ...............

CS

I think the question should be: "Why I do this?" rather than "Why is it so hard to do this?".

If you belive in what you do then nothing for you is hard because you do it with passion. If you do things without a passion, then you don't know what you want.

Okay, I agree with you haffo

... but there's things that we have do because it's necessary or out of pure obligation. Usually, passion doesn't involve doing a task that you don't want to do.

LC,

I feel that I have to puch myself harder too at times -- there's a strong need to always keep learning and never single for less then what I am capable of.

" ... but there's things that we have do because it's necessary or out of pure obligation. Usually, passion doesn't involve doing a task that you don't want to do."

Yes there is. But it's not our fault. It's our parents fault. They wasn't smart enough to direct us correctly and now we have to pay shit to arrange into correct path.

I feel that work is easier to do - (I used to have a harder time doing 10 hours a day 6-10 days a week and then getting a night off (usually to sleep and recooperate before doing it all over again) but now it's become a normal thing to me) I know Caps are usually workaholics - (I know I am - my mom is - (she's a Cancer) - and her moon sign is that of a Cap - and she used to work 3 jobs just to make ends meet - though it seemed her own spending habits were also what led to her financial troubles) but I've found that everything else has been pretty easy to deal with - except for relationships - I never could understand love - I dunno - maybe I just never found the right one yet - but @ the same time I'm neither interested in finding someone or even have much time to myself to even make a relationship possible - works always seemed to be the one thing I found so easy to do - I love the physical labor - the money's great and it just seems to suit me - I just hope it all pays off in the end.