I know Not a Again...

This isn't a rant of me over analyzing my cap, well I don't think he is my cap anymore. Since my last post the distance between us has grew, I don't txt him and his txts have gotten very limited.Not sure what exactly happen, he asked me out last week i said yes the date was super weird, went to a show ( after he pratically asked a few times and I arranged my sch to accomidate him) after the show we walked out he didn't ask to go over to his place nor did i invite him to mine, he didnt kiss me or walk me to my car, but did ask me out on another date weird I say weird, bc we usually hang out a lot longer and kiss at least but nothen. He said he was tired and feeling sick, i txt him later saying thanks I had a good time and when he had time I'd like us to go out my treat followed by a steamy makeout session he said he looked forward to it blah blah blah then nothen not a txt nothen for a few day but then he'll shoot me a txt saying something like dont watch____ that without me, i reply with a closeend comment etc.. but he used to txt all the time just to see how my day was etc.. and that no longer exists, I'm pretty much just basing my actions off his. I guess I'm going to start seeing other people bc he seems to have lost interest. i just wish he would stop texting me with stuff like I'm cute etc..and just let it be instead of confusing the hell out me with his action and words. Plus why ask me out on date, tell me your entire schedule then no contact for days? I don't get it. all I know is these Caps are confusing and the bad part is thats seems to be all I'm attracting ugh! The worst part is this cap really has my heart. 😢 I know sad huh

Wow.

He's banging someone else and stringing you along to keep you on the back burner until the chick dropping her panties for him stops giving out the goods.

Posted by EusiveSoulll

Posted by rockyroadicecream
He's banging someone else and stringing you along to keep you on the back burner until the chick dropping her panties for him stops giving out the goods.

ROFLMAO...gotta love the bluntness 😛

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Haha, well it's true. A guy only plays tease if he wants to keep you around for his own selfish gains.

Posted by Cat34
i just wish he would stop texting me with stuff like I'm cute etc..and just let it be instead of confusing the hell out me with his action and words.

Have you said as much to him? We don't do too well with the implied stuff. By the way, you can't rely on a man to set your boundaries in the relationship hun. You have to say what you will tolerate and what you won't and he will hopefully do the same. If it's to be it'll be.

@cow puncher, yea we were seeing each other at least once a week, but this date was just strange. I'm not sure if it's him acting on my actions bc after I felt like I wasn't a priority I stopped text him Good morning and such and our communication has really gone down hill, but I'm only doing it bc I'm like if he doesn't try why should I. I never felt like he could be dating someone else but now I'm not sure. Some days he is go sweet other it's like don't exisit really weird behavior. And it seems to be txting hi or somthing if not hell wait till super late and send me some random txt nothing sexual or anything but just cute and short, and yes it bothers me that he didn't want to have sex he always wants to

Well I txt him and said I just wanted to say hi since I haven't really heard from him but figured he was busy and his response was good but the best part was he said He would like to see me more often! So maybe we are still a okay and I need to relax!

I honestly think cap men are much needier than y'all come off! Like y'all need a lot of attention, at least that's just what I got from my cap, y'all act all cool but really need the attention, but don't reciprocate it? Weird I say weird. I thought of I stopped txting him it wld get his attention, instead he acted as I did but now tells me he really likes hearing from me and if zi could tell him good morning more often.

Any more tips y'all can give me on these strange perculiar men