I only fall in love with caps

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Jcsquared
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I dated my ex for two years and although we never used the (in a relationship term) to define our status, we both agreed a year into the relationship to be exclusive and not see anyone. In January 2014 he started a new job and began working nights. Giving us no time to see each other. I tired my best to keep in contact but I found myself initiating most of the contact. The relationship began to go down hill I would say in April/May. We stuck it out and I seen him maybe once a month. Up until September when I was fed up with the wishy-washy mood swings and told him I would give this relationship 4 weeks and I would make a decision to stay or go. I was being more involved and taking the initiative to visit him more and his mom adores me so, me and her would still hang out and go to movies. So maybe 5days on October 4th before decision making time, he called me at 11:30pm begging me to come over and take care of him he was sick and had just gotten out of the hospital,I immediately went and we laid together and I coddle him and he seemed happy. The next morning was moving day and I helped. The same day while I was there he deleted his FB page( well at least that was what I assumed)turns out I was blocked. we keep in contact with light text messaging. He text me on the 12th Good morning, I replied good morning but I really needed to hear his voice so I called him and received no response. I then sent another text and told him to call me no response. So after driving to his house and seeing his car not there at 8:30 am my womens instinct knew something was up. Right then and there I sent my final text telling him I made my decision and I have decided to move on. I had sent a text messages with a bunch of accusations accusing him of seeing another girl. I cooled down and two days later called and apologized but still told him I was moving on. Yesterday I dug deeper into this FB removal and found out that he didn't delete his page but blocked me and entered into a relationship with a new girl on Oct 5th the same day we were together. We spoke and he came clean said he loves me but he never fell in love with me and he fell in love with her ( A coworker) says they been communicating for a while now. He said he has a love for me that probably wont ever go away but he fell in love with her. So with ALLLLLL that being said I'm wondering if I should try and get him back? I broke up with him in a attempt to get him to become more committed but then that happened??_..
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Posted by SunMoonStars
Caps please shed some light...why does it seem like there are many Cap and Pisces breakups lately??



Yeah, this is sad. This is one of my favorite couplings. I wish these goat guys would give the fish women a chance. Stop being so workaholics and appreciate the mer-women right in front of you. Give love a chance. We all know that if it doesn't work out, your incredible willpower will make you get over it & you will emerge stronger. C'mon. Give it a chance.



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CapTenn
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Posted by stillwat3r
^ Yes, I agree. I think Pisces women are a good change of pace for Cap men... if only cap men allowed them in but i think pisces have the best chance of finding a place in a cap man's heart than most other signs.



I disagree.

Pisces doesn't have the self discipline (when it is an absolute must), to capture the Cap for life. Much too risky and immature. (from my experiences only)

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aquapiscescusp
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Posted by Jcsquared
@aquapiscescusp He entered in to a relationship on Oct 5th unbeknownst to me. I broke up with him on the 12th. Funny thing is he had a GF already and didnt even tell me. I think he just wanted me to do the dirty work and break up with him first. Or he he thought my decision was going to be to end it so he moved on real quick.



Yes, quite possible. You were very smart to put a time on it. This is the best way to know what someone us up to. I know it's no consolation at the moment but in hindsight it will be. It might not even work out with this other girl... I hope you stay strong if he wants to get back to some kind of relationship with you again.

Can you get put of this plan? Do it ASAP. 🙂
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Jcsquared
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So Mr Cappy has just reappeared just when I had finally moved on after 2 long months..He texted me Thursday "WYD" I didn't get a chance to respond right away ... Responded watching a movie... He then says oh ok just checking on you making sure your okay. .. I replied thanks never been great and that was the end of it..... I surprisingly received another text message Saturday morning 830 in the morning . With Mr. Cappy asking me "WYD today _—_—_—. ... After fully waking up an hour later I responded ". Oil change, movies and friends birthday party ." He didn't respond but immediately called me. I decided to answer (it's the first time we have actually spoken in 30 days) he told me he was outside walking trying to clear his mind we had small talk for about 10 minutes with me ending the call first..telling him "I am going to get ready for my day". The small talk went like this ~me bragging about my new promotion and how great my life is going while he's miserable , got fired and also his car is down. I sympathized with his situation its so close to the holidays.., recieved two more calls Sunday afternoon . I ignored both and never returned them . Then, Sunday night his mom calls. I Couldn't answer and she end up leaving a really touching voicemail telling me that she loves me and hadn't talked to or texted me in a while . Which brings me to Monday morning... Another text message from his mom to see if I got the voicemail... And maybe five minutes later I received a text message from him Saying that he called me yesterday to check up on me and to have a great day at work and he misses me... Talk about typical Capricorn behavior... I'm attempting to stay ahead of this game and figure out my next move.., HELP
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Posted by Jcsquared
So Mr Cappy has just reappeared just when I had finally moved on after 2 long months..He texted me Thursday "WYD" I didn't get a chance to respond right away ... Responded watching a movie... He then says oh ok just checking on you making sure your okay. .. I replied thanks never been great and that was the end of it..... I surprisingly received another text message Saturday morning 830 in the morning . With Mr. Cappy asking me "WYD today _—_—_—. ... After fully waking up an hour later I responded ". Oil change, movies and friends birthday party ." He didn't respond but immediately called me. I decided to answer (it's the first time we have actually spoken in 30 days) he told me he was outside walking trying to clear his mind we had small talk for about 10 minutes with me ending the call first..telling him "I am going to get ready for my day". The small talk went like this ~me bragging about my new promotion and how great my life is going while he's miserable , got fired and also his car is down. I sympathized with his situation its so close to the holidays.., recieved two more calls Sunday afternoon . I ignored both and never returned them . Then, Sunday night his mom calls. I Couldn't answer and she end up leaving a really touching voicemail telling me that she loves me and hadn't talked to or texted me in a while . Which brings me to Monday morning... Another text message from his mom to see if I got the voicemail... And maybe five minutes later I received a text message from him Saying that he called me yesterday to check up on me and to have a great day at work and he misses me... Talk about typical Capricorn behavior... I'm attempting to stay ahead of this game and figure out my next move.., HELP




DO NOT CHANGE A THING... keep doing what you are doing. DO NOT GIVE IN TO ANY OF IT. Him getting his mom involved is weird too!!!
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Jcsquared
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Posted by KittenLaRouge
damn you guys are rough. he obviously wants another chance coz his other situation didn't work out. People are known to give second chances you know.



ya he goes out with another chick just to come back, what is she his rug to wipe his arse with.



ah no. but people do make mistakes.
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Yes I do believe in second chances, I'm hoping for my fairy-tale ending!!! Its the Pisces in me.. Good thing is I have been doing good. Haven't contacted him in a while and I think he realizes that I have moved on. Saturday, I received a call from his mom asking if I would take him to the E.R. because he was sick. Trying to be a good friend I agreed to do it. This is the first time we would see each other since the break up in October. Lucky me I was dressed up because I was coming from a friends bday party. When I got over there he looked like a sick puppy. He asked me if his mom had called me I told him yes. But I am starting to think that he has more say in what his mom does then he would like me to believe. Anyways after feeding him soup and coddling him. He asked me if I would stay the night. He never mentioned his GF, IDK if she is even in the picture. I ended up staying we laid together no sex I am assuming its because he is still with his GF but having second thoughts about their relationship. Either way I wasn't going to give it up that easy. It was hard the attraction was so intense.!!! I think I messed up because when I left that morning I told him I love him and kissed him on the neck. I did good because I didnt bring up or breakup or his current relationship. He did text me this morning a good morning message.
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Jcsquared
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11 Years

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Update on my capricorn situation... He has taken me out on 5dates in the last four months but just as friends he never went out that much while we were dating. We hang out at his house all the time with his mom and brother. Just recently I meet one his BFF we all went out to dinner his treat. His GF or what I like to call his rebound relationship . They went through a lot of on and off breaks up... Recently the day after Christmas. Me and him spent Christmas with his family but just as friends ..While they were off we hooked up on December 29th, New Year and his bday 01/02... I had stopped taking my birth control so we had a slight preg scare but it came out negative. After that I told him to work things out with his ex because I felt like it was too soon to do anything seeing they had just broke up. We spent this weekend together he face timed he and asked if I wanted to come over for a drink. His guy BFF came over and he was like let's go out to eat... His BFF stated " so Tell me about yourself ,.,and that the cap talks about me all the time. While the cap sat there and didn't deny it... What does all this mean—?!