GoldenRose5
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I'm just about done with this Capricorn...
I know he was being kind of sneaky and didn't tell me everything.
He kept saying that business and family should be separate. But his business plans were affecting our family.
He later got upset at me for something I said to his old colleague, and he cussed me out and said I am not longer his wife. I thought this was over. My family was in shock, AGAIN!
Then he apologized after getting criticism from his side of family and from me. I feel like he always acts without any regard to anyone's feelings, and he is reckless, only later people that he hurt and offended have to explain to him like to a child that what he did was completely wrong... the he murmurs his sorry and thinks everything is candy dandy!
Also, now, he is not as romantic as he used to be back when we first met... we just chat online now. No emails, no letters, no calls, no efforts from his side. His reply is "love you" .. ?? Doesn't sound deep and sincere to me.
I asked him why he stopped being romantic, he said he has poor internet connection and why would it matter now, because we're married?
Ok, so married wives need to stop expecting romantic behavior?
I feel like he is cold, heartless, selfish person..who I thought was good (maybe he was better before), until now...
Now I am married and I feel guilty if I divorce, and I think he won't divorce me either, for whatever reason.. but is this how Capricorns love? What is a true Capricorn in love like?
Thank you. I will add details if needed later.
He kept saying that business and family should be separate. But his business plans were affecting our family.
He later got upset at me for something I said to his old colleague, and he cussed me out and said I am not longer his wife. I thought this was over. My family was in shock, AGAIN!
Then he apologized after getting criticism from his side of family and from me. I feel like he always acts without any regard to anyone's feelings, and he is reckless, only later people that he hurt and offended have to explain to him like to a child that what he did was completely wrong... the he murmurs his sorry and thinks everything is candy dandy!
Also, now, he is not as romantic as he used to be back when we first met... we just chat online now. No emails, no letters, no calls, no efforts from his side. His reply is "love you" .. ?? Doesn't sound deep and sincere to me.
I asked him why he stopped being romantic, he said he has poor internet connection and why would it matter now, because we're married?
Ok, so married wives need to stop expecting romantic behavior?
I feel like he is cold, heartless, selfish person..who I thought was good (maybe he was better before), until now...
Now I am married and I feel guilty if I divorce, and I think he won't divorce me either, for whatever reason.. but is this how Capricorns love? What is a true Capricorn in love like?
Thank you. I will add details if needed later.
** He was physically abusing on 2 occasions. And verbally a few times, and mentally/emotionally many many times. (Capricorn moods)
Posted by GoldenRose5
** He was physically abusing on 2 occasions. And verbally a few times, and mentally/emotionally many many times. (Capricorn moods)
what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO ONE AND I MEAN NO ONE Deserves THAT KIND OF TREATMENT let this marker go and go find someone that will respect you.
case close.
Seriously just divorce him.
Like LV said no one should endure that, and what else can u hope for? He isn't even romantic anymore, its not he doesn't even care. What kind of relationship is that?
Like LV said no one should endure that, and what else can u hope for? He isn't even romantic anymore, its not he doesn't even care. What kind of relationship is that?
Based on your testimony, I would say leave him. No relationship is worth all that drama. The question is, is it clear to you yet?
Posted by amethyst2002
Why the hell are you even asking this question? It's pretty obvious. It's also quite disturbing that you just shrug off the physical/mental abuse like it's no big deal. You shouldn't have even gone back to him/married him given he did that before. It's not really shocking he turned into an asshole.
So far, all the Capricorn males I've met have been selfish and self centered. Blegh.
I don't think his selfishness is a result of his sign. I can't speak for other cappys, but I never treat my gf this way. I am like the opposite of this Troglodyte. Are there bad caps? Of course but point to me a sign that doesn't have its bad seeds.
Things you did wrong:
1. Involved with a person who is way older than you
2. Involved with a person who is Capricorn Sun/Aries Rising
3. Married him even though he is abusive
Ask yourself this question, do you deserve better? The answer should be yes.
1. Involved with a person who is way older than you
2. Involved with a person who is Capricorn Sun/Aries Rising
3. Married him even though he is abusive
Ask yourself this question, do you deserve better? The answer should be yes.
Capricorn Sun/Aries Rising is this bad combo?
Astro Indicators tendency for Hatred towards Women Babykaykesiam 12/1/2009 2:15:34 PM
Go to this thread on the Astrology and Relationship link and read it! My ex hub is Cap sun Aries Rising.....so my heart goes out to you. Leave him and dont ever have kids with that man, you will regret it everyday and he will make your life a living hell.
Go to this thread on the Astrology and Relationship link and read it! My ex hub is Cap sun Aries Rising.....so my heart goes out to you. Leave him and dont ever have kids with that man, you will regret it everyday and he will make your life a living hell.
His moods are not Cappy honey that was the Rising. Your situation sounds very similiar to me and my ex.
GeorgiaPeach, do tell me more. If you want of course. What happened? How it ended?
Thanks.
Thanks.
You know what I just did the birth chart for my ex mother in law and she is Cap with Aries rising too. She is part of the reason we divorced. It ended with me and my ex in a custody battle over our two children. He was angry with me for not wanting to stay in the marriage after threatening me with divorce 3 times. It was his way of trying to manipulate me. When he realized I didnt care anymore, they took me to court for the kids. He and his mother lied so much and tried to make me look like the worst mother in the world. It was damn near heart breaking to say the least. He treated me like pure shit like he never loved me. And constantly did things to show that he despised me. I cant even begin to tell all the things that happened because it is too much to type. It hurt the kids more than anything, because he kept them from me. He ended up getting custody of the kids even though he was never there and I was the one raising them while he was at work. I will never trust the court system again. All of his unhappiness came out in court testimony and things he said to my stepdad, but he never told me a thing and all the while I thought I was being a good wife. I dont live in the same state with him and the kids and when I try to visit my kids he gives me a hard time. He acts like he is nice, but is very passive aggressive. He lies so much to my face and tries to use the kids to manipulate me even though he has remarried (his mistress) and had another child. So now I dont talk to him at all because I am tired of it. I call my kids regularly and he knows I have nothing else to say and usually just put the kids on the phone. Every once he will get on the phone and I am cordial, but I do it so I can talk to my kids. When I go there and pick my kids up I dont say 2 words to him. I hug my kids and I put them in the car while he is standing there looking for my attention. I dont play that shit. You would think since he claimed to be so unhappy with me and remarried everything would be hunky dory. It has been one big mess. I learned no matter how much of an effort I try to compromise with him he is not happy. He blames me for everything and is angry because he thought he could hold me back by holding the children over my head. I joined the military and went on with my life. I still see my kids and I call them. I talked to them about our divorce and I have drilled into their little minds that no matter what their momma loves them.
My focus is on them. They are so important to me. I have never argued with him in front of them even though I could curse him like a dog. After all I am a Virgo Sun, Scorp moon with Gem rising. Most people know me know that I dont pull any punches and I am straight up. He is selfish, immature, and hateful. My mother and my auntie tell me all the time, "He tried to destroy you." And he is angry because even though the situation caused me much pain and I shed many many tears, I came out stronger. Statistics say that most women who get divorced fall under the poverty line and cant take care of themselves or their children. I joined the military and I have so many benefits. I live in Hawaii and I am currently working on my Master's degree and he cant stand it. He is stuck with another wife (who doesnt work one of his complaints to my stepdad was I didnt work) and 3 kids. And when my children get older (because they are now 8 and 7) I will tell them about everything that happened and why I had to leave. I had to deal with all their tears and pain. Them thinking I left them when I joined the military. I make sure they respect their father and their stepmother. No matter what I am still their mother regardless of where I live. I am not the bitch looking for revenge, by telling them their dad aint shit and using them against him. Because what happened between me and him is between me and him. I did not know that he was like this and that he would be so hurtful. I notice how he is with women. He is nice on the surface, but deep down inside there is anger, resentment, and insecurity embedded in his spirit. That's what drives him everyday. I have moved on and I let him be the problem for his current wife, because life is too short.
GeorgiaPeach,
All I have to say is that my heart goes out to you. Can you tell me please, you said mistress, did he cheat on you while being abusive?
Is this common with Cap sun/Aries moon? Are they cheaters?
Did you guys have good times in the beginning?
I generally don't like Aries men, seems like the don't know when to slow down. So moon in Aries is just worse I think, because it's their true 'nature' so to say.
Since you're a Virgo, I would think that you would go with a Cappy, but damn. Well, be glad you got out and didn't suffer until kids are grown up because it's not a good way to live.. and tell me GeorgiaPeach, what degree do you have?? Because Masters, wow, that's great.. I am still working on my Bachelors.. 😛
Cheer up girl! And try not to remember this asshole.
~Golden
All I have to say is that my heart goes out to you. Can you tell me please, you said mistress, did he cheat on you while being abusive?
Is this common with Cap sun/Aries moon? Are they cheaters?
Did you guys have good times in the beginning?
I generally don't like Aries men, seems like the don't know when to slow down. So moon in Aries is just worse I think, because it's their true 'nature' so to say.
Since you're a Virgo, I would think that you would go with a Cappy, but damn. Well, be glad you got out and didn't suffer until kids are grown up because it's not a good way to live.. and tell me GeorgiaPeach, what degree do you have?? Because Masters, wow, that's great.. I am still working on my Bachelors.. 😛
Cheer up girl! And try not to remember this asshole.
~Golden
Well as far as cheating, if you are not sleeping with him he is getting it somewhere else no matter the sign. We did have good times. That chapter of my life is closed now and I have moved on. Thanks, I have a B.S. in Criminal Justice and I am working on a M.S. in Administration. I am half way and I will be so happy when I am finished. I feel for you because doing undergrad seems like forever, but you will get there. 🙂
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