My new sweetie

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BoomShakalakaBoom
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We have decided to be friends after all, turns out we are not compatible in the bedroom, which as shallow as it may sound, its a very big deal for me. I know that a lot of times with Cap women you need to invest time and patience in order for them to fully open up sexually (I have experience with this...) but the issue simply lies deeper and knowing her personality, I know she will not change certain things, and I would never force her to change herself for me, so its best to accept it and just be really good friends. Its kind of sad cause otherwise personality-wise we complement each other pretty well.
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lnana04
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Sounds unfortunate, but good thing you are not trying to waste time or push her to change.

Im slightly curious to know the issue, but its none of my business lol.

I know as a Cap with a scorpio venus whew..it takes ALOT of trust. That is all I will say about that. Its like a complete shutdown if no real trust is there OR if trust is lost. Just saying that to say I understand what you are saying about the patience part.

Anyway, wish you luck with finding someone you are fully compatible with.
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lisabeth
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
We have decided to be friends after all, turns out we are not compatible in the bedroom, which as shallow as it may sound, its a very big deal for me. I know that a lot of times with Cap women you need to invest time and patience in order for them to fully open up sexually (I have experience with this...) but the issue simply lies deeper and knowing her personality, I know she will not change certain things, and I would never force her to change herself for me, so its best to accept it and just be really good friends. Its kind of sad cause otherwise personality-wise we complement each other pretty well.



it's good you know this early on.
btw, happy belated too!
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Posted by noname
tbh, when i first read her chart, i thought you may not be compatible. she is too watery for you and you are too leo for her. when the natural affinity/understanding and erotic connection are not there, it's difficult for a watery person to be uninhibited. she can be a 2 with you but 10 with someone she has that connection with.

now i know you have a master degree in astrology 😉 so i'm not sharing this from a book but from experience



that's pretty smart.

it's always best to know from "experience" and "observation" than reading a book. Walk the walk, not always talking about it. *nods*

Even Gunter Sach's did that with his marriage statistics.