Venus in Scorpio

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by saggyrl on Monday, August 4, 2014 and has 41 replies.

Understanding Venus in Scorpio in Relationships

Venus in Scorpio indicates deep emotional intensity and passion in relationships. People with this placement value loyalty and are often very private about their feelings. They seek meaningful connections and can be possessive or jealous. This placement fosters powerful, transformative bonds that thrive on honesty and emotional depth.

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@saggyrl
12 Years

Anyone know anything about Venus in Scorpio? Ever been in a relationship with someone who's venus is in scorpio?

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@Sagg101
12 Years

This is funny. I was just about to start a topic about sags with Venus in Scorpio. I'm one and its a blessing and a curse I swear

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@vesperlynd83
12 Years

I'm a Sag with Venus in Scorpio. I agree that it's both a blessing and a curse. We love like no other but it also takes us forever to get over someone.

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@Wynter
15 Years10,000+ Posts

lol @ curse

Yeah there's a Sag guy with Scorpio Venus who posts here. He posted a video in the Sag forum of himself stalking his girlfriend when he suspected her of cheating πŸ˜†

Was some funny shit πŸ˜„

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@saggyrl
12 Years

πŸ™‚ thank you all for the feedback! Everything that I have read, says that venus in scorp falls deeply and are very possessive. Aside from being asked a million questions, I don't see that side from the one I know. How do you typical act in love?

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@Sagg101
12 Years

Posted by saggyrl
πŸ™‚ thank you all for the feedback! Everything that I have read, says that venus in scorp falls deeply and are very possessive. Aside from being asked a million questions, I don't see that side from the one I know. How do you typical act in love?

See I didn't think this was true until a recent experience with my ex. The first person I true feelings had feelings for. I loved hard, a little too hard. He was on my mind all the time and I'd do anything and everything for him too the point I nearly started neglecting myself. I loved him to the moon and back because he was the only one that got through to me z(sags don't open up easily) and he made me feel amazing. We broke up and whilst I'm definitely not still in love with him I will always love him and care for him. I was in a dark dark place after and that's when the Scorpio in Venus kicked in I think.

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@Wynter
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by saggyrl
πŸ™‚ thank you all for the feedback! Everything that I have read, says that venus in scorp falls deeply and are very possessive. Aside from being asked a million questions, I don't see that side from the one I know. How do you typical act in love?

What is their Sun?

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@saggyrl
12 Years

Posted by Sagg101

See I didn't think this was true until a recent experience with my ex. The first person I true feelings had feelings for. I loved hard, a little too hard. He was on my mind all the time and I'd do anything and everything for him too the point I nearly started neglecting myself. I loved him to the moon and back because he was the only one that got through to me z(sags don't open up easily) and he made me feel amazing. We broke up and whilst I'm definitely not still in love with him I will always love him and care for him. I was in a dark dark place after and that's when the Scorpio in Venus kicked in I think.

I think when we (Sags), do fall, we end up falling hard.

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12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Wynter
lol @ curse

Yeah there's a Sag guy with Scorpio Venus who posts here. He posted a video in the Sag forum of himself stalking his girlfriend when he suspected her of cheating πŸ˜†

Was some funny shit πŸ˜„

πŸ˜† AHAHAHAHAHA!!! NO!!! SHOW ME THAT!! πŸ˜† πŸ˜† πŸ˜† 😭 ahhhhahahahaha that's too much!!

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@Wynter
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by SuperMissMan

Posted by Wynter
lol @ curse

Yeah there's a Sag guy with Scorpio Venus who posts here. He posted a video in the Sag forum of himself stalking his girlfriend when he suspected her of cheating πŸ˜†

Was some funny shit πŸ˜„

πŸ˜† AHAHAHAHAHA!!! NO!!! SHOW ME THAT!! πŸ˜† πŸ˜† πŸ˜† 😭 ahhhhahahahaha that's too much!!

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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/sagittarius/she-knows-the-cameras-are-on-now-3489632/
He took down the stalking videos soon after he showed them to us. πŸ˜› Here's some other ones he took just before he broke up with her.

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13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by saggyrl

Posted by Sagg101

See I didn't think this was true until a recent experience with my ex. The first person I true feelings had feelings for. I loved hard, a little too hard. He was on my mind all the time and I'd do anything and everything for him too the point I nearly started neglecting myself. I loved him to the moon and back because he was the only one that got through to me z(sags don't open up easily) and he made me feel amazing. We broke up and whilst I'm definitely not still in love with him I will always love him and care for him. I was in a dark dark place after and that's when the Scorpio in Venus kicked in I think.

I think when we (Sags), do fall, we end up falling hard.

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How do people make u fall. Sun in sag and venus in Scorpio n that. I'm into one and I think he likes me a lot. A little hard feeding the freedom it needs but also feeding the intensity it craves. moon in Capricorn keeps it all hidden also. ..not sure how to make him fall hard.. Any tip?

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@heartlocket
12 Years500+ Posts

LOL.... oh yes, we are stalkerish. It's embarrassing. But it's just because we obsess over a certain person, and we are very loyal, so we become very jealous and we want to know EVERYTHING...

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I think the scorpio venus makes the cold cap blood run hot. So, in lots of ways it's a good thing. Only problem is when I choose someone, I will achieve that goal no matter how long it takes. I can be very, very patient.

Stalking, no not really. Maybe a little on social media, but I'm not driving my their house in the middle of the night. Okay, I have before, when I was very young, by an exes house after we broke up, but I'm not admitting that!!!

I battle the possessive trait. Cap logic and scorp emotions sometimes don't see eye to eye.

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12 Years

N/m I ended things 😒

Started when I returned his call a few hours later. He didn't answer, but he liked a pic I posted on social network. I told him the next day I called, and he said he was sleep. I asked how was liking stuff online while sleeping. He said my notifications must have been delayed b/c he was sleeping. He then added that if we got serious that I would the girlfriend who snoops through his things. I told him I'm definitely not that kind of girl. He said he doesn't believe that. Be seemed annoyed and brought it up again and said I'm always interrogating him. I told him that wasn't true. He was ready to get off the phone so I hung up and he texted me. I told him that this started out as fun, and I didn't except for things to grow or for me to even like him like that and that maybe that's all it was suppose to be. He asked if fun was all I thought it was suppose to be. I told him, yes, that feelings often complicate things especially when ppl are at different pages. He then said lets go back to just fun. I told him no. He then ask what then. I told him we could just be cool. He said that's silly but whatever, fine.

And that was that. I haven't responded 😒

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@intheair
12 Years

Posted by Wynter
lol @ curse

Yeah there's a Sag guy with Scorpio Venus who posts here. He posted a video in the Sag forum of himself stalking his girlfriend when he suspected her of cheating πŸ˜†

Was some funny shit πŸ˜„

Damn it man. I miss the good stuff around here.

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@SunTauVenGem
13 Years500+ Posts

Welcome to my world πŸ™‚ I have just closing my chapter with mine yesterday. In my opinion, be straight forward, it seems you want more but the sag side of you is still a little scared n would prefer freedom. He senses that hence why he's questioning things and testing you. Be clear. Are you all in or all out?

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@happykitsune
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by saggyrl
N/m I ended things 😒

Started when I returned his call a few hours later. He didn't answer, but he liked a pic I posted on social network. I told him the next day I called, and he said he was sleep. I asked how was liking stuff online while sleeping. He said my notifications must have been delayed b/c he was sleeping. He then added that if we got serious that I would the girlfriend who snoops through his things. I told him I'm definitely not that kind of girl. He said he doesn't believe that. Be seemed annoyed and brought it up again and said I'm always interrogating him. I told him that wasn't true. He was ready to get off the phone so I hung up and he texted me. I told him that this started out as fun, and I didn't except for things to grow or for me to even like him like that and that maybe that's all it was suppose to be. He asked if fun was all I thought it was suppose to be. I told him, yes, that feelings often complicate things especially when ppl are at different pages. He then said lets go back to just fun. I told him no. He then ask what then. I told him we could just be cool. He said that's silly but whatever, fine.

And that was that. I haven't responded 😒

My ex who was a venus in scorp did the whole facebook thing once as well. Asked him why he didn't respond to my text and he said it was because he was busy, but he had just posted a status. I called him out on it and he revealed he was upset about something I had said previously. He would always get upset and then passive aggressively punish me for it. So ask him why he is upset. The dumb dumb

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12 Years

Thanks for the feedback! I initiated the "talk" but I sorta chickened out....I told him that I wasn't sure if this is going to work b/c I have these feelings for him (we talk everyday, but he never talks about how he feels...if anything at all). He asked so why wouldn't it work and added that he has feelings for me as well. I wanted to ask what he wanted from all of this (where are things going), but maybe next time...

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13 Years500+ Posts

To be honest, the uninvolved ones are great at manipulation .. You don't know how or why or when n before you know it you are wrapped under their spell. They always have to be in controlled.. Without telling you so..

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12 Years

Well my boyfriend has venus in scorpio conjunct pluto and also scorpio sun conjunct pluto and I don't know exactly? Everythings been great. He's loving, affectionate, trustworthy, honest, attentive, caring, funny, loyal. And now that I think about it, all of his attention has been on me since day 1. He has not been controlling or possessive really, but I could be wrong, he might feel that way but doesn't express it. And also I don't give him any reason to feel that way. He's full of surprises!

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@FabFire30
14 Years

VIS will always hide their true feelings for you... Even to the point it feels like they are not interested.. I have always done this. But if they feel secure in you and your loyalty, the gates of euphoria will open :-)

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12 Years

Posted by FabFire30
VIS will always hide their true feelings for you... Even to the point it feels like they are not interested.. I have always done this. But if they feel secure in you and your loyalty, the gates of euphoria will open :-)

Really? That would help explain some things...I don't feel that he's secure in me. I think that he likes me, but is still on the fence and maybe that's why.

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11 Years

Well I am a Scorpio, with scorp sun, sag moon, scorpio in venus. Yes i guess we can be obsessive when we meet that ONE. I recently met a Taurus with Scorpio moon. The attraction was INSTANT and I have sadly been obsessed with him ever since. Logic and reasoning went out the window. I tried to keep myself under check but when he would pull his disappearing acts I would go crazy thinking about him. Not wanting to push him away I refrained from calling or texting but Id write my thoughts in a journal or write his name down 50 times on a post- it-note just to keep myself from breaking my no contact rule. I know right? I was steady and consistent and I finally connected with him the way I needed to. I also got him to respond like I needed him to and For that I can relax a little and try not to be so intense. VIS can be wow. But we do try to cover up the obsession. Our pride would never let em see us sweat.

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@saggyrl
12 Years

I haven't noticed any obsession with my VIS, but I have noticed that whenever we get into an argument...when he feels like I'm up to something or trying to end things, he likes to act like he doesn't care. Which causes me to have an f-it attitude as well. But he'll come back later or the next day like he didn't just tell me if I'm bothered to pay him no mind.

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8 Years

Posted by SunTauVenGem

Posted by saggyrl

Posted by Sagg101

See I didn't think this was true until a recent experience with my ex. The first person I true feelings had feelings for. I loved hard, a little too hard. He was on my mind all the time and I'd do anything and everything for him too the point I nearly started neglecting myself. I loved him to the moon and back because he was the only one that got through to me z(sags don't open up easily) and he made me feel amazing. We broke up and whilst I'm definitely not still in love with him I will always love him and care for him. I was in a dark dark place after and that's when the Scorpio in Venus kicked in I think.

I think when we (Sags), do fall, we end up falling hard.

How do people make u fall. Sun in sag and venus in Scorpio n that. I'm into one and I think he likes me a lot. A little hard feeding the freedom it needs but also feeding the intensity it craves. moon in Capricorn keeps it all hidden also. ..not sure how to make him fall hard.. Any tip?

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Must make it special, make yourself one of a kind, dont put it about, let them observe you and do not date others and mess about to try to keep your feelings under control to not get too much as that is one that has made me do a runner a few times.

the guy i have chosen and i had been single ages was someone at fuirst who scared me, we hung out after the first date and it naturally went into relationship 8 months later and were just getting started, But was a unique situation he is not just anyone, we have crossd paths and me not know about it for 10 years, and same INFJ like me also astrology wise is also compatible and also have Capricorn mars. Its weird sometimes i think things the same time as my partner and he does me, its actually pretty amazing tbh.

Above all with me and maybe my placements make this so.... do not rush and do not come across as easy to have.

Sag Sun, Libra moon, Scorp venus amd mars capricorn πŸ˜„

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9 Years

heartlocket

scorpio in sun, moon, venus, and pluto. Rising in Sagittarius

female from US

You chart is very similar to my soon-to-be ex-husband's except he's Scorpio Sun, Moon, Mercury and Pluto. Rising in Sagittarius.

Regarding Sagittarius Sun with Scorpio Venus - my younger sister has this combo (along with Scorpio Rising), as did the infamous Ted Bundy.

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11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by saggyrl

πŸ™‚ thank you all for the feedback! Everything that I have read, says that venus in scorp falls deeply and are very possessive. Aside from being asked a million questions, I don't see that side from the one I know. How do you typical act in love?

I don’t see that side in mine as well...

Not a bit of possessiveness. It’s the opposite.