Need help dealing with. Cap female

My intuition tells me she likes me but still not 100% sure. Me a Scorpio male and this Capricorn female have been seeing each other over a year and I've been patient with her till something happened and she suddenly decided to ignore me so I started seeing other females. After she found out about it she got really upset and she turned cold for about a few weeks I tried to talk to her but she shut me down so I disappeared for 2 weeks. And then finally after she saw me she then decided to go up to me and apologized for shutting me down. But as a Scorpio I hold grudges I pretended we were okay but in reality we're not so weeks go by we just kept our distance from each other but every time I run into her she always has that smile but she never says hi my intuition is telling me she still cares but our big egos are getting in the way. What's the best thing to do at this point should I stay or should I go? Please advise cap females thanks in advance.

I wanted to keep pursuing but don't know if I should because I might have hurt her feelings and trust might be gone.

Hi ..why don't you be honest with her and apologise for hurting her feelings.

Then tell her you really like her, and say you weren't sure she liked you. That will explain to her why you went off with other females.

I'm a Cap female and I would go cold on a guy if he went off with other females. But an explanation would put you in my good books again..and then maybe a romantic date involving a drink in a cosy quiet corner in a restaurant or bar.

Hope that helps ?

Capri sun you could read me like an open book gotdamn you're good —

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Hi ..why don't you be honest with her and apologise for hurting her feelings.

Then tell her you really like her, and say you weren't sure she liked you. That will explain to her why you went off with other females.

I'm a Cap female and I would go cold on a guy if he went off with other females. But an explanation would put you in my good books again..and then maybe a romantic date involving a drink in a cosy quiet corner in a restaurant or bar.

Hope that helps ?

Because he's a mysterious and secretive scorpio

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Lol! Yeah I know x I dated a Scorpio once when I was 20. But he also told me he had liked me for ages and didn't think I liked him. Guess we were both young.

Then again I don't know how old Mr Scorpio et al is..

Posted by blackphase
Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

Just like me and my Scorpio ex. That's exactly what it ended up being. But hey..?

@poo face I'm 30 and she's 24 lol it's a battle of egos for sure but I'll take you and everyone else's advise I'll cut my ego or else I'll just have to deal with the loss cause there's no other way around it.

Thanks guys I appreciate your help! pleae keep the advise pouring in I'm willing to listen — and learn.

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Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

Just like me and my Scorpio ex. That's exactly what it ended up being. But hey..?

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This is the first I've dealt with a cap female so I didn't really know what to expect. I hate playing games and felt that she's trying to emotionally manipulate me which is a big no for me. That's the reason why I came to this board to ask for advise now I'm not afraid to lose someone if it's for a good reason but I also hate to let someone go for a stupid misunderstanding.

what did she do that caused you to move away from her to start with ?

she apologized - guess she understands that what she did caused an even bigger problem and is sorry for that

then you go out with other females - did she know about that ?

she's definitely still interested but things need to be: turned up a notch if they are going to continue: meaning some increased level of understanding, maturity, commitment of sorts ... and I'm talking both sides - or else she may not want to continue

if you approach the situation in a humble manner - I'm sure she will melt ... you two have history to build on and that means something

good luck and keep us posted ...

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what did she do that caused you to move away from her to start with ?

she apologized - guess she understands that what she did caused an even bigger problem and is sorry for that

then you go out with other females - did she know about that ?

she's definitely still interested but things need to be: turned up a notch if they are going to continue: meaning some increased level of understanding, maturity, commitment of sorts ... and I'm talking both sides - or else she may not want to continue

if you approach the situation in a humble manner - I'm sure she will melt ... you two have history to build on and that means something

good luck and keep us posted ...

She ignored me and her lack of communication is what drove me away. But I will push the issue and communicate with her head on and in a humble way I do like that idea I'll be the bigger person.

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Posted by tcta
what did she do that caused you to move away from her to start with ?

she apologized - guess she understands that what she did caused an even bigger problem and is sorry for that

then you go out with other females - did she know about that ?

she's definitely still interested but things need to be: turned up a notch if they are going to continue: meaning some increased level of understanding, maturity, commitment of sorts ... and I'm talking both sides - or else she may not want to continue

if you approach the situation in a humble manner - I'm sure she will melt ... you two have history to build on and that means something

good luck and keep us posted ...

She ignored me and her lack of communication is what drove me away. But I will push the issue and communicate with her head on and in a humble way I do like that idea I'll be the bigger person.

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if she rises to that challenge, then you both will be bigger but you will be the one that starts and she understands that has to come from you as she was the one who withheld previously that caused this mess ... she too can learn from this and learn to try harder to give you want you need and it will be good for her to understand that - don't push in a confrontational way, it should come from the heart with love and grace ...

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what did she do that caused you to move away from her to start with ?

she apologized - guess she understands that what she did caused an even bigger problem and is sorry for that

then you go out with other females - did she know about that ?

she's definitely still interested but things need to be: turned up a notch if they are going to continue: meaning some increased level of understanding, maturity, commitment of sorts ... and I'm talking both sides - or else she may not want to continue

if you approach the situation in a humble manner - I'm sure she will melt ... you two have history to build on and that means something

good luck and keep us posted ...

She ignored me and her lack of communication is what drove me away. But I will push the issue and communicate with her head on and in a humble way I do like that idea I'll be the bigger person.

if she rises to that challenge, then you both will be bigger but you will be the one that starts and she understands that has to come from you as she was the one who withheld previously that caused this mess ... she too can learn from this and learn to try harder to give you want you need and it will be good for her to understand that - don't push in a confrontational way, it should come from the heart with love and grace ...

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Very good advise i will communicate with her in a civil way I hate confrontations and feels it will not solve anything anyways if I go that route.

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Posted by tcta
what did she do that caused you to move away from her to start with ?

she apologized - guess she understands that what she did caused an even bigger problem and is sorry for that

then you go out with other females - did she know about that ?

she's definitely still interested but things need to be: turned up a notch if they are going to continue: meaning some increased level of understanding, maturity, commitment of sorts ... and I'm talking both sides - or else she may not want to continue

if you approach the situation in a humble manner - I'm sure she will melt ... you two have history to build on and that means something

good luck and keep us posted ...

She ignored me and her lack of communication is what drove me away. But I will push the issue and communicate with her head on and in a humble way I do like that idea I'll be the bigger person.

Do you mind explaining how you define lack of communication?

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She's not as open with what she's thinking or feelings with me that's the reason why this happened in the first place I'm as loyal as you could prolly get I don't like toying with someone's feelings. But after courting her for a lil over a year I feel like I deserve more of what she's willing to give correct me if I'm wrong and I don't really ask for and sex is secondary for me not the first.

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Posted by tcta
what did she do that caused you to move away from her to start with ?

she apologized - guess she understands that what she did caused an even bigger problem and is sorry for that

then you go out with other females - did she know about that ?

she's definitely still interested but things need to be: turned up a notch if they are going to continue: meaning some increased level of understanding, maturity, commitment of sorts ... and I'm talking both sides - or else she may not want to continue

if you approach the situation in a humble manner - I'm sure she will melt ... you two have history to build on and that means something

good luck and keep us posted ...

She ignored me and her lack of communication is what drove me away. But I will push the issue and communicate with her head on and in a humble way I do like that idea I'll be the bigger person.

Do you mind explaining how you define lack of communication?

Is when a cap woman says, lets just go forward because I don't want to talk about it....do we have to talk about it........

It's you guys biggest relationship killer of all time.

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Or not really willing to admit to their mistakes rather say I'm over it like you're the one that owes an apology.

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Posted by tcta
what did she do that caused you to move away from her to start with ?

she apologized - guess she understands that what she did caused an even bigger problem and is sorry for that

then you go out with other females - did she know about that ?

she's definitely still interested but things need to be: turned up a notch if they are going to continue: meaning some increased level of understanding, maturity, commitment of sorts ... and I'm talking both sides - or else she may not want to continue

if you approach the situation in a humble manner - I'm sure she will melt ... you two have history to build on and that means something

good luck and keep us posted ...

She ignored me and her lack of communication is what drove me away. But I will push the issue and communicate with her head on and in a humble way I do like that idea I'll be the bigger person.

Do you mind explaining how you define lack of communication?

She's not as open with what she's thinking or feelings with me that's the reason why this happened in the first place I'm as loyal as you could prolly get I don't like toying with someone's feelings. But after courting her for a lil over a year I feel like I deserve more of what she's willing to give correct me if I'm wrong and I don't really ask for and sex is secondary for me not the first.

It depends because I don't know exactly what she is giving and what she isn't. & I'm a bit jaded atm.

I've told the scorpio my whole life story and I've been open about my feelings. He is the one who ignored and is closed in my situation.

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She distance herself when I try to open up and that's giving me red flags all over. I have a lot of woman chasing after me and I dismiss all of them because I don't wanna be seen as a player I wanna show her I'm in it for the long haul not a one timer.

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what did she do that caused you to move away from her to start with ?

she apologized - guess she understands that what she did caused an even bigger problem and is sorry for that

then you go out with other females - did she know about that ?

she's definitely still interested but things need to be: turned up a notch if they are going to continue: meaning some increased level of understanding, maturity, commitment of sorts ... and I'm talking both sides - or else she may not want to continue

if you approach the situation in a humble manner - I'm sure she will melt ... you two have history to build on and that means something

good luck and keep us posted ...

She ignored me and her lack of communication is what drove me away. But I will push the issue and communicate with her head on and in a humble way I do like that idea I'll be the bigger person.

Do you mind explaining how you define lack of communication?

She's not as open with what she's thinking or feelings with me that's the reason why this happened in the first place I'm as loyal as you could prolly get I don't like toying with someone's feelings. But after courting her for a lil over a year I feel like I deserve more of what she's willing to give correct me if I'm wrong and I don't really ask for and sex is secondary for me not the first.

It depends because I don't know exactly what she is giving and what she isn't. & I'm a bit jaded atm.

I've told the scorpio my whole life story and I've been open about my feelings. He is the one who ignored and is closed in my situation.

She distance herself when I try to open up and that's giving me red flags all over. I have a lot of woman chasing after me and I dismiss all of them because I don't wanna be seen as a player I wanna show her I'm in it for the long haul not a one timer.

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Loyalty runs through my veins but if I'm getting mixed signals like what she's giving me I don't know if she deserves it.

Ex: lack of communication everything is about sex.

But when I decided to roll with different females she gets very possessive so don't know where I stand.

Anything but sex but she avoids it like a plague.

In the beginning stages yes she likes talking about all the stuff you've mentioned that's for the first 3 months but after that she's closed off.

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In the beginning stages yes she likes talking about all the stuff you've mentioned that's for the first 3 months but after that she's closed off.

I agree she should be more open with you. Do you think that she might believe you're only in it for sex?

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I really don't know and I wanna clear things out with her but at the same time if I do I might scare her away because like you said she might not want serious commitment at the moment. But if I don't do anything about it I might end up waiting for nothing and just waste time.

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In the beginning stages yes she likes talking about all the stuff you've mentioned that's for the first 3 months but after that she's closed off.

I agree she should be more open with you. Do you think that she might believe you're only in it for sex?

I really don't know and I wanna clear things out with her but at the same time if I do I might scare her away because like you said she might not want serious commitment at the moment. But if I don't do anything about it I might end up waiting for nothing and just waste time.

So the two of you have never talked about what you're looking for or what either of you want as it relates to relationship, friendship?

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I would love to chat with you in private is it possible to do that here?

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In the beginning stages yes she likes talking about all the stuff you've mentioned that's for the first 3 months but after that she's closed off.

I agree she should be more open with you. Do you think that she might believe you're only in it for sex?

I really don't know and I wanna clear things out with her but at the same time if I do I might scare her away because like you said she might not want serious commitment at the moment. But if I don't do anything about it I might end up waiting for nothing and just waste time.

So the two of you have never talked about what you're looking for or what either of you want as it relates to relationship, friendship?

I would love to chat with you in private is it possible to do that here?

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To answer your question no we haven't everything seems to be just physical.

From what I'm reading, it seems like you are wasting your time.

You seem to be ready for her to step up to the plate, but I don't see where a solid foundation has been layed for her to do so.

Scorps, and Taurus alike, seem to like to court to show and prove, but a Cappie needs a little less to be impressed. She has to trust you and you have to be open yourself. Pretending you are not upset when you are, talking to other women, etc..is reactions from her actions. It's not being yourself. She won't feel comfortable ever if her slights...many that she may be unaware of, can hurt you or cause you to stray. That's just not a good foundation for either of you, really.

Posted by lnana04
From what I'm reading, it seems like you are wasting your time.

You seem to be ready for her to step up to the plate, but I don't see where a solid foundation has been layed for her to do so.

Scorps, and Taurus alike, seem to like to court to show and prove, but a Cappie needs a little less to be impressed. She has to trust you and you have to be open yourself. Pretending you are not upset when you are, talking to other women, etc..is reactions from her actions. It's not being yourself. She won't feel comfortable ever if her slights...many that she may be unaware of, can hurt you or cause you to stray. That's just not a good foundation for either of you, really.

Good advise but I've never really given her any reason not to trust me at all. In the lil over a year I've been nothing but real with her yes it's lacking communication because she shuts it down every single time so I don't know any other way to communicate with her.

Posted by lnana04
From what I'm reading, it seems like you are wasting your time.

You seem to be ready for her to step up to the plate, but I don't see where a solid foundation has been layed for her to do so.

Scorps, and Taurus alike, seem to like to court to show and prove, but a Cappie needs a little less to be impressed. She has to trust you and you have to be open yourself. Pretending you are not upset when you are, talking to other women, etc..is reactions from her actions. It's not being yourself. She won't feel comfortable ever if her slights...many that she may be unaware of, can hurt you or cause you to stray. That's just not a good foundation for either of you, really.

But I really do see your point cause we will just end up hurting each other in the long run if there's no communication.

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Posted by lnana04
From what I'm reading, it seems like you are wasting your time.

You seem to be ready for her to step up to the plate, but I don't see where a solid foundation has been layed for her to do so.

Scorps, and Taurus alike, seem to like to court to show and prove, but a Cappie needs a little less to be impressed. She has to trust you and you have to be open yourself. Pretending you are not upset when you are, talking to other women, etc..is reactions from her actions. It's not being yourself. She won't feel comfortable ever if her slights...many that she may be unaware of, can hurt you or cause you to stray. That's just not a good foundation for either of you, really.

Good advise but I've never really given her any reason not to trust me at all. In the lil over a year I've been nothing but real with her yes it's lacking communication because she shuts it down every single time so I don't know any other way to communicate with her.

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Why do you say she shuts it down? What do you mean by that? Is she not interested in what you have to say or how you feel?

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From what I'm reading, it seems like you are wasting your time.

You seem to be ready for her to step up to the plate, but I don't see where a solid foundation has been layed for her to do so.

Scorps, and Taurus alike, seem to like to court to show and prove, but a Cappie needs a little less to be impressed. She has to trust you and you have to be open yourself. Pretending you are not upset when you are, talking to other women, etc..is reactions from her actions. It's not being yourself. She won't feel comfortable ever if her slights...many that she may be unaware of, can hurt you or cause you to stray. That's just not a good foundation for either of you, really.

Good advise but I've never really given her any reason not to trust me at all. In the lil over a year I've been nothing but real with her yes it's lacking communication because she shuts it down every single time so I don't know any other way to communicate with her.

Why do you say she shuts it down? What do you mean by that? Is she not interested in what you have to say or how you feel?

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From what I'm reading, it seems like you are wasting your time.

You seem to be ready for her to step up to the plate, but I don't see where a solid foundation has been layed for her to do so.

Scorps, and Taurus alike, seem to like to court to show and prove, but a Cappie needs a little less to be impressed. She has to trust you and you have to be open yourself. Pretending you are not upset when you are, talking to other women, etc..is reactions from her actions. It's not being yourself. She won't feel comfortable ever if her slights...many that she may be unaware of, can hurt you or cause you to stray. That's just not a good foundation for either of you, really.

Good advise but I've never really given her any reason not to trust me at all. In the lil over a year I've been nothing but real with her yes it's lacking communication because she shuts it down every single time so I don't know any other way to communicate with her.

Why do you say she shuts it down? What do you mean by that? Is she not interested in what you have to say or how you feel?

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When it comes to that type of subject she's non responsive.

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My intuition tells me she likes me but still not 100% sure. Me a Scorpio male and this Capricorn female have been seeing each other over a year and I've been patient with her till something happened and she suddenly decided to ignore me so I started seeing other females. After she found out about it she got really upset and she turned cold for about a few weeks I tried to talk to her but she shut me down so I disappeared for 2 weeks.

And here lies your problem...

After seeing someone for that long, you should have attempted to remedy the situation or misunderstanding. If that failed, breaking-up would have been the logical solution. But you didn't do this - instead, you left things up in the air and started dating other women. That kind of behaviour is both insensitive and immature.

Based on the above, and disregarding the initial bump that occurred, can you really blame her?

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I've been courting her for a year we're not official so there's no commitment but I do get your point that's why I'll try to have a lil chat with her and clear the air if that doesn't work then I will move on from there.

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My intuition tells me she likes me but still not 100% sure. Me a Scorpio male and this Capricorn female have been seeing each other over a year and I've been patient with her till something happened and she suddenly decided to ignore me so I started seeing other females. After she found out about it she got really upset and she turned cold for about a few weeks I tried to talk to her but she shut me down so I disappeared for 2 weeks.

And here lies your problem...

After seeing someone for that long, you should have attempted to remedy the situation or misunderstanding. If that failed, breaking-up would have been the logical solution. But you didn't do this - instead, you left things up in the air and started dating other women. That kind of behaviour is both insensitive and immature.

Based on the above, and disregarding the initial bump that occurred, can you really blame her?

I've been courting her for a year we're not official so there's no commitment but I do get your point that's why I'll try to have a lil chat with her and clear the air if that doesn't work then I will move on from there.

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I was in the wrong for being insensitive and will man up to my mistake.

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My intuition tells me she likes me but still not 100% sure. Me a Scorpio male and this Capricorn female have been seeing each other over a year and I've been patient with her till something happened and she suddenly decided to ignore me so I started seeing other females. After she found out about it she got really upset and she turned cold for about a few weeks I tried to talk to her but she shut me down so I disappeared for 2 weeks.

And here lies your problem...

After seeing someone for that long, you should have attempted to remedy the situation or misunderstanding. If that failed, breaking-up would have been the logical solution. But you didn't do this - instead, you left things up in the air and started dating other women. That kind of behaviour is both insensitive and immature.

Based on the above, and disregarding the initial bump that occurred, can you really blame her?

I've been courting her for a year we're not official so there's no commitment but I do get your point that's why I'll try to have a lil chat with her and clear the air if that doesn't work then I will move on from there.

Unless you both mutually and explicitly agreed to an open relationship, your explanation doesn't really hold much weight. You dated her for over a year, not a couple of weeks.

It's pretty universal to perceive someone as an exclusive partner after months of conventional dating (unless there was a mutually agreed change in the terms). If you viewed the relationship differently, you should have made it known.

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Like I said I was very insensitive for doing what I did and willing to man up to my mistakes and I owe her an apology for that. Whatever comes out of this is really up to her but don't just pin this on me cause we were both in the wrong.

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My intuition tells me she likes me but still not 100% sure. Me a Scorpio male and this Capricorn female have been seeing each other over a year and I've been patient with her till something happened and she suddenly decided to ignore me so I started seeing other females. After she found out about it she got really upset and she turned cold for about a few weeks I tried to talk to her but she shut me down so I disappeared for 2 weeks.

And here lies your problem...

After seeing someone for that long, you should have attempted to remedy the situation or misunderstanding. If that failed, breaking-up would have been the logical solution. But you didn't do this - instead, you left things up in the air and started dating other women. That kind of behaviour is both insensitive and immature.

Based on the above, and disregarding the initial bump that occurred, can you really blame her?

I've been courting her for a year we're not official so there's no commitment but I do get your point that's why I'll try to have a lil chat with her and clear the air if that doesn't work then I will move on from there.

Unless you both mutually and explicitly agreed to an open relationship, your explanation doesn't really hold much weight. You dated her for over a year, not a couple of weeks.

It's pretty universal to perceive someone as an exclusive partner after months of conventional dating (unless there was a mutually agreed change in the terms). If you viewed the relationship differently, you should have made it known.

Like I said I was very insensitive for doing what I did and willing to man up to my mistakes and I owe her an apology for that. Whatever comes out of this is really up to her but don't just pin this on me cause we were both in the wrong.

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Goodness. Sounds like you have issues owning your sh $ t.

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My intuition tells me she likes me but still not 100% sure. Me a Scorpio male and this Capricorn female have been seeing each other over a year and I've been patient with her till something happened and she suddenly decided to ignore me so I started seeing other females. After she found out about it she got really upset and she turned cold for about a few weeks I tried to talk to her but she shut me down so I disappeared for 2 weeks.

And here lies your problem...

After seeing someone for that long, you should have attempted to remedy the situation or misunderstanding. If that failed, breaking-up would have been the logical solution. But you didn't do this - instead, you left things up in the air and started dating other women. That kind of behaviour is both insensitive and immature.

Based on the above, and disregarding the initial bump that occurred, can you really blame her?

I've been courting her for a year we're not official so there's no commitment but I do get your point that's why I'll try to have a lil chat with her and clear the air if that doesn't work then I will move on from there.

Unless you both mutually and explicitly agreed to an open relationship, your explanation doesn't really hold much weight. You dated her for over a year, not a couple of weeks.

It's pretty universal to perceive someone as an exclusive partner after months of conventional dating (unless there was a mutually agreed change in the terms). If you viewed the relationship differently, you should have made it known.

Like I said I was very insensitive for doing what I did and willing to man up to my mistakes and I owe her an apology for that. Whatever comes out of this is really up to her but don't just pin this on me cause we were both in the wrong.

Goodness. Sounds like you have issues owning your sh $ t.

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lol and what made you say that? So apologizing for what I did was not good enough?

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Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

When can people truly learn that love is surrender and unselfish, as well as humility?

I like this! And I'm sure it's harder for some than others, but I like the way you put it 🙂

Love manifests itself in many forms, what I mentioned is only three out of the 23 forms it processes.

In my opinion, love is innocence, trust, patience, forgiveness, awareness, feeling, devotion, freedom, ecstasy, humility, pure, fulfilment, beauty, harmony, passion, surrender, honesty, loyalty, wisdom, unselfish, tolerance, Oneness, and compassion. Everyone should learn these, because many of them involve dropping down selfish traits like ego and pride. Love is a present to be given to others, not something one can process alone.

But most importantly, love is All and Eternal.

And you are only 17!? The woman who snags you is gonna be a lucky one 😛

Couldn't agree more with all that you have said. Very beautiful!

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He's pretty smart for his age but saying it and doing it are two different things if you can put those words into action then more power to you.

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Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

When can people truly learn that love is surrender and unselfish, as well as humility?

I like this! And I'm sure it's harder for some than others, but I like the way you put it 🙂

Love manifests itself in many forms, what I mentioned is only three out of the 23 forms it processes.

In my opinion, love is innocence, trust, patience, forgiveness, awareness, feeling, devotion, freedom, ecstasy, humility, pure, fulfilment, beauty, harmony, passion, surrender, honesty, loyalty, wisdom, unselfish, tolerance, Oneness, and compassion. Everyone should learn these, because many of them involve dropping down selfish traits like ego and pride. Love is a present to be given to others, not something one can process alone.

But most importantly, love is All and Eternal.

And you are only 17!? The woman who snags you is gonna be a lucky one 😛

Couldn't agree more with all that you have said. Very beautiful!

I actually smiled really brightly reading this message 🙂 Thank you for the kind words, although as of now no girl wants to date me 😢

I don't think the right one's there yet I think, or maybe I have bad luck, or maybe Saturn's being a cruel bitch once again ?

I'm glad I could make you smile 🙂

You are still young.. The right one often seems to not find us so early in life, and I feel as thought you have to have a few or at least one failed relationship to actually appreciate the right one 🙂 Hang tight, the right one will find you and I hope she has the same views on love that you do!

I haven't dated a single person yet, that's really how sad my life is currently.

But it's fine, I can silently wait for the right up to come and to make up all those years of painful silences I have.

And once again, thank you for the sincere kind words. It makes my day. 🙂

It's okay, you are still young. You know relationships generally work much better the more mature you are and the more you learn about yourself.. what you want and need. Don't be down on yourself about it 🙂

Glad to make your day 😄

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good point ☝️

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Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

When can people truly learn that love is surrender and unselfish, as well as humility?

I like this! And I'm sure it's harder for some than others, but I like the way you put it 🙂

Love manifests itself in many forms, what I mentioned is only three out of the 23 forms it processes.

In my opinion, love is innocence, trust, patience, forgiveness, awareness, feeling, devotion, freedom, ecstasy, humility, pure, fulfilment, beauty, harmony, passion, surrender, honesty, loyalty, wisdom, unselfish, tolerance, Oneness, and compassion. Everyone should learn these, because many of them involve dropping down selfish traits like ego and pride. Love is a present to be given to others, not something one can process alone.

But most importantly, love is All and Eternal.

And you are only 17!? The woman who snags you is gonna be a lucky one 😛

Couldn't agree more with all that you have said. Very beautiful!

He's pretty smart for his age but saying it and doing it are two different things if you can put those words into action then more power to you.

True, but the fact that he views it this way is beyond his years in my opinion.. especially for a male. He's got lots of time to put it into action 😛

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Lol we live and we learn. Lol as a male? What's that suppose to mean lol it goes both ways ?

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Posted by blackphase
Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

When can people truly learn that love is surrender and unselfish, as well as humility?

I like this! And I'm sure it's harder for some than others, but I like the way you put it 🙂

Love manifests itself in many forms, what I mentioned is only three out of the 23 forms it processes.

In my opinion, love is innocence, trust, patience, forgiveness, awareness, feeling, devotion, freedom, ecstasy, humility, pure, fulfilment, beauty, harmony, passion, surrender, honesty, loyalty, wisdom, unselfish, tolerance, Oneness, and compassion. Everyone should learn these, because many of them involve dropping down selfish traits like ego and pride. Love is a present to be given to others, not something one can process alone.

But most importantly, love is All and Eternal.

And you are only 17!? The woman who snags you is gonna be a lucky one 😛

Couldn't agree more with all that you have said. Very beautiful!

He's pretty smart for his age but saying it and doing it are two different things if you can put those words into action then more power to you.

True, but the fact that he views it this way is beyond his years in my opinion.. especially for a male. He's got lots of time to put it into action 😛

Lol we live and we learn. Lol as a male? What's that suppose to mean lol it goes both ways ?

Very true! His response was just deep, emotion filled and sweet. From my experience.. that's rare among males. LOL

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Lol He's very wise with his words I can relate that's the reason why a lot of females do open up to me except this cap lady I'm currently dealing with she's putting me on a million shit test.

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Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

When can people truly learn that love is surrender and unselfish, as well as humility?

I like this! And I'm sure it's harder for some than others, but I like the way you put it 🙂

Love manifests itself in many forms, what I mentioned is only three out of the 23 forms it processes.

In my opinion, love is innocence, trust, patience, forgiveness, awareness, feeling, devotion, freedom, ecstasy, humility, pure, fulfilment, beauty, harmony, passion, surrender, honesty, loyalty, wisdom, unselfish, tolerance, Oneness, and compassion. Everyone should learn these, because many of them involve dropping down selfish traits like ego and pride. Love is a present to be given to others, not something one can process alone.

But most importantly, love is All and Eternal.

And you are only 17!? The woman who snags you is gonna be a lucky one 😛

Couldn't agree more with all that you have said. Very beautiful!

He's pretty smart for his age but saying it and doing it are two different things if you can put those words into action then more power to you.

True, but the fact that he views it this way is beyond his years in my opinion.. especially for a male. He's got lots of time to put it into action 😛

Lol we live and we learn. Lol as a male? What's that suppose to mean lol it goes both ways ?

Very true! His response was just deep, emotion filled and sweet. From my experience.. that's rare among males. LOL

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Lol He's very wise with his words I can relate that's the reason why a lot of females do open up to me except this cap lady I'm currently dealing with she's putting me on a million shit test.

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Posted by blackphase

Posted by DividedWeCapricorn

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Posted by blackphase
Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

When can people truly learn that love is surrender and unselfish, as well as humility?

I like this! And I'm sure it's harder for some than others, but I like the way you put it 🙂

Love manifests itself in many forms, what I mentioned is only three out of the 23 forms it processes.

In my opinion, love is innocence, trust, patience, forgiveness, awareness, feeling, devotion, freedom, ecstasy, humility, pure, fulfilment, beauty, harmony, passion, surrender, honesty, loyalty, wisdom, unselfish, tolerance, Oneness, and compassion. Everyone should learn these, because many of them involve dropping down selfish traits like ego and pride. Love is a present to be given to others, not something one can process alone.

But most importantly, love is All and Eternal.

And you are only 17!? The woman who snags you is gonna be a lucky one 😛

Couldn't agree more with all that you have said. Very beautiful!

He's pretty smart for his age but saying it and doing it are two different things if you can put those words into action then more power to you.

True, but the fact that he views it this way is beyond his years in my opinion.. especially for a male. He's got lots of time to put it into action 😛

Lol we live and we learn. Lol as a male? What's that suppose to mean lol it goes both ways ?

Very true! His response was just deep, emotion filled and sweet. From my experience.. that's rare among males. LOL

Lol He's very wise with his words I can relate that's the reason why a lot of females do open up to me except this cap lady I'm currently dealing with she's putting me on a million shit test.

Yeah, those Cap ladies can be hard to crack.

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btw she did try to make me jealous by going out with another guy but for some reason I could read through the whole facade which made her more pissed lol.

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Posted by blackphase
Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

When can people truly learn that love is surrender and unselfish, as well as humility?

I like this! And I'm sure it's harder for some than others, but I like the way you put it 🙂

Love manifests itself in many forms, what I mentioned is only three out of the 23 forms it processes.

In my opinion, love is innocence, trust, patience, forgiveness, awareness, feeling, devotion, freedom, ecstasy, humility, pure, fulfilment, beauty, harmony, passion, surrender, honesty, loyalty, wisdom, unselfish, tolerance, Oneness, and compassion. Everyone should learn these, because many of them involve dropping down selfish traits like ego and pride. Love is a present to be given to others, not something one can process alone.

But most importantly, love is All and Eternal.

And you are only 17!? The woman who snags you is gonna be a lucky one 😛

Couldn't agree more with all that you have said. Very beautiful!

He's pretty smart for his age but saying it and doing it are two different things if you can put those words into action then more power to you.

True, but the fact that he views it this way is beyond his years in my opinion.. especially for a male. He's got lots of time to put it into action 😛

Lol we live and we learn. Lol as a male? What's that suppose to mean lol it goes both ways ?

Very true! His response was just deep, emotion filled and sweet. From my experience.. that's rare among males. LOL

Lol He's very wise with his words I can relate that's the reason why a lot of females do open up to me except this cap lady I'm currently dealing with she's putting me on a million shit test.

Yeah, those Cap ladies can be hard to crack.

btw she did try to make me jealous by going out with another guy but for some reason I could read through the whole facade which made her more pissed lol.

Yeah.. see that's where I stop. I don't like to play those games. The power struggle and trying to make one another jealous. Shit like that makes me walk away.

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One thing I'm very good at is playing games and I always play to win atleast I used to. But now I usually get turned off by the game playing and just move on cause I really don't like hurting people's feelings special the one I care for. I know a lot of caps here will say I'm douche for doing what I did and I'm not gonna make any excuses for it but instead will apologize and not do it again if given another chance.

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Yeah.. this sounds like a battle of egos to me.

Just like me and my Scorpio ex. That's exactly what it ended up being. But hey..?

This is the first I've dealt with a cap female so I didn't really know what to expect. I hate playing games and felt that she's trying to emotionally manipulate me which is a big no for me. That's the reason why I came to this board to ask for advise now I'm not afraid to lose someone if it's for a good reason but I also hate to let someone go for a stupid misunderstanding.

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Sure, no problem. I have only dealt with one Scorpio in my life and we were both 20 (I'm 39 now. Don't mind admitting it). But the interesting thing is where you say you feel she is trying to emotionally manipulate you. My Scopio ex did that to me only I didn't notice to start with. Once I did I realised he was playing mind-games and started playing those games back! It was a crazy r'ship to say the least! We were both barely out of our teens mind you.

I'd say take the advice from here that you like, and see how you go. You will hopefully then be able to gauge how to proceed further, once you get a 'feel' for the situation.

Any more help you need, feel free to ask ?

lol funny thing is I really do have a lot of patience but man this cap is really putting me through a lot of of sh!t test it's not even funny.

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Fuck it

Just go out of town n get drunk

lol nah I don't deal with problems that way I'd get a massage tho that's for sure.

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lol funny thing is I really do have a lot of patience but man this cap is really putting me through a lot of of sh!t test it's not even funny.

Yeah, but you played around with her. The fact that she goofed too is probably why you still have a chance. So it didn't kill your chances but it definitely set you back. Going forward, just try to be gentle, respectful and patient. Cap women (and men) just need to be made to feel comfortable (we are all big softies on the inside). Get that part right and you may not be able to get rid of her lol!

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Fuck it

Just go out of town n get drunk

lol nah I don't deal with problems that way I'd get a massage tho that's for sure.

U missing out bro

It solves all ur problems

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Lol get drunk and create more problems I see that —

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lol funny thing is I really do have a lot of patience but man this cap is really putting me through a lot of of sh!t test it's not even funny.

Yeah, but you played around with her. The fact that she goofed too is probably why you still have a chance. So it didn't kill your chances but it definitely set you back. Going forward, just try to be gentle, respectful and patient. Cap women (and men) just need to be made to feel comfortable (we are all big softies on the inside). Get that part right and you may not be able to get rid of her lol!

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Lol very interesting advise I'll keep that in mind.—

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Fuck it

Just go out of town n get drunk

lol nah I don't deal with problems that way I'd get a massage tho that's for sure.

U missing out bro

It solves all ur problems

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Alcohol is not good lol it gets me in a whole lot of trouble lol

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lol funny thing is I really do have a lot of patience but man this cap is really putting me through a lot of of sh!t test it's not even funny.

Yeah, but you played around with her. The fact that she goofed too is probably why you still have a chance. So it didn't kill your chances but it definitely set you back. Going forward, just try to be gentle, respectful and patient. Cap women (and men) just need to be made to feel comfortable (we are all big softies on the inside). Get that part right and you may not be able to get rid of her lol!

Lol very interesting advise I'll keep that in mind.—

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I appreciate that brotha very good info lol